posted August 12, 2014 11:07 PM            

Rudra pisces@20.10/Hara scorp@19.26/Kaali virgo@17.12 in composite
His Nereus aqua@28.03
Composite Njord sag@29.59
The comp libra NN is exact conjunct my Venus and his Pluto, it's all 1.5 degrees conjunct my libra anti-Vertex/Destin
Comp Saturn is exact square my natal NN
Comp Sun is exact trine his natal NN

posted August 12, 2014 11:55 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
EROS conjunct EROS.

You have to ask?

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posted August 12, 2014 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
I rather like EROS conjunct ANGEL, too.

What's your take on ISIS conjunct INNANEN? Since they're differing cultural expressions of the same basic energy?

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posted August 13, 2014 06:02 AM            

If there weren't a heavy, emphasized and structured theme to your house placements, I'd have said the lack of traditional key aspects was an issue. But I don't see that it'll be problematic at all. In fact, I was reading an article that stated something like: after the age of 36 connections to the moon (for men) and sun (for women) aren't as vital simply because they have outgrown the issues associated with them. Women will have "lived their sun" through the 3rd Jupiter return so it is no longer as important an attraction factor. For men, their moons will become naturally more nurturing and therefore a strong connection to the moon is not as necessary to stimulate an unexpressed side of them.

All in all, I think your synastry is lovely. Not too overwhelming or too boring/complacent. Enjoy it, I think he's a good match especially with his Venus falling near your Valentine/IC conjunction. That gave it away for me.

posted August 13, 2014 09:31 AM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
I think you guys have very soothing house placements though, serious 4th house synastry. His Venus in your 4th. Your Venus in his 4th/5th. Your Moon in his 4th conjunct IC. His Sun in your 5th. Composite Moon conjunct IC (wow), I love that aspect. Composite Venus in the 4th. It seems as though his 7th house ruler is conjunct his IC. So 4th house synastry and IC aspects will probably be very important to him, triggering his desire for a serious relationship. Wow this sounds very significant to me: your valentine conjunct your IC and his Venus is not too far from it. His Venus falling there probably makes you feel like he's the one, the way he makes you feel stable, nurtured and secure. I really think this 4th house synastry is extremely important between you. His 8th house ruler conjunct your NN. Because his 5th house ruler is Venus and it falls in your 4th and because of the other 5th house overlays, it seems to be the perfect combination of stability, closeness, and fun! I think you guys would have the most fun cooking dinner together, watching a movie in each others arms, being foolish little love birds around the house. Very binding but also fun and creative and fiery. You guys will probably want to be at home together most of the time but it will never feel boring or lifeless. OUFFF and his Mars in your 5th how did I miss that?!? I think that solidifies my point hehe! Your 9th Mars conjunct his ASC from the 12th. You're probably gonna bring out an adventurous side to the forefront that he never knew he had! It's a tricky position because we all know how 12th house is but if it's handled gently i think it'll be a very growth oriented aspect, especially for him! Composite Mars in the 9th shows this!!!! Wow!!! You will succeed in bringing out his hidden adventurous side in a positive way so much so that it becomes a natural part of your partnership. The theme of 4th and 5th is also present in the composite. I really like this synastry.

If there weren't a heavy, emphasized and structured theme to your house placements, I'd have said the lack of traditional key aspects was an issue. But I don't see that it'll be problematic at all. In fact, I was reading an article that stated something like: after the age of 36 connections to the moon (for men) and sun (for women) aren't as vital simply because they have outgrown the issues associated with them. Women will have "lived their sun" through the 3rd Jupiter return so it is no longer as important an attraction factor. For men, their moons will become naturally more nurturing and therefore a strong connection to the moon is not as necessary to stimulate an unexpressed side of them.

All in all, I think your synastry is lovely. Not too overwhelming or too boring/complacent. Enjoy it, I think he's a good match especially with his Venus falling near your Valentine/IC conjunction. That gave it away for me.

Sorry for the long post and if my writing is awful, just woke up and I posted this through my phone.

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Thank you sooooo much!!
I've really worried about feeling so close n connected to him so quickly because of the lack of sun/moon n the odd layout of our composite.
But your right there is this natural fluid desire to unite n be family oriented together, be serious but yet we can be light hearted n playful.
We just had a very serious discussion that could have so easily turned into a battle but it didn't, we are both calm ppl that don't explode easily and really try to listen, we resolved the issue without even a mild aggravation....he listened and I truly felt he heard me out when he could have become defensive. Then he explained where he was coming from and I listened then we decided the best way for both of us to get what we needed. He's just very mature n thoughtful!

posted August 13, 2014 09:49 AM            

I like it when ppl open up a door to my subconscious and allow me to see something that needs work. It gives me the chance to dissect the situation, find what triggered me and figure out where the core issue lies. They give me the chance to see my issues that are still running unchecked in my subconscious.

posted August 13, 2014 09:52 AM            

Just remember, astrology aside, it all comes down to how you feel about HIM. :-D

I was sad when Mr. Long Distance wasn't treating you right. Good for you with this!

posted August 13, 2014 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
Yay, I love to see others all enamored and excited about a prospective someone. :-)

Just remember, astrology aside, it all comes down to how you feel about HIM. :-D

I was sad when Mr. Long Distance wasn't treating you right. Good for you with this!

Best wishes!

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posted August 13, 2014 10:20 AM            

His Pluto-your Venus. He brings intensity to your romance, you bring a way to express his deepest desires in a loving way. A classic aspect. Could get bad though...stalkerish. You don't want this with an individual with personal problems already existing. If he knows how to handle his Pluto, go for it, if he does not... run.

Your NN-his Uranus. He would electrify your sense of purpose. You could get so many unexpected, exciting things from him that can make you feel like you're accomplishing something for yourself, like you're going somewhere you need to be. He would feel valued for what he could contribute to your life, his genius, higher intellect, would feel really appreciated, and he'd be proud of himself for it.

Juno conjunctions: his Juno-your Vesta, his Saturn-your Juno. On their own, these are good indicators of mutual marital fidelity.

Your Mars-his ASC. You would see him as masculine, as your kind of masculine; the way he carries himself, the way he looks, the way he dresses... It would conform to what you view as masculinity. A pretty good aspect, imo. The downside would be that with time he might feel like he has to maintain his masculine appearance to the world around you all the time. Your Mars is retro so you might sometimes project your issues on men onto him too much. If you learn to own your own Mars more, that should work itself out.

Your Saturn-his Jupiter. This aspect can be pretty good AND pretty bad. The plus side is that he brings more freedom and wealth to where you're restricted and overly disciplined, the minus side is that sometimes you'll rebel against that and want to keep your restrictions as they are. People work a lot on their Saturn in their lives, so when someone comes along and tells you to "just relax"... It can strike a nerve. You'll bring more structure to his world view, give more grounding to his optimism. It can be beneficial to him, if he can handle it. If he can't, the early Leo placement of this conjunction says that the fallout will be dramatic.

His NN-your Moon. That's a really strong placement. Very karmically charged. You can offer supportiveness and comfort to the direction in life that he wants to move in, and you will feel your instincts and feelings are being given a purpose when directed at him. It's a really nice aspect, and this one really draws people together.

Your Moon trines his Venus, a very nice flow of affection there. Your Venus is given lots to do; conjunct his Pluto, trine his Mars, but also square his Venus. (the square speaks of an incompatibility of values, sometimes it can be an indicator of infertility in a relationship...)

A wide-ish Mars-Mars trine speaks of being able to have fun together, do things together, co-operate well.

posted August 13, 2014 10:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Thank you sooooo much!!
I've really worried about feeling so close n connected to him so quickly because of the lack of sun/moon n the odd layout of our composite.
But your right there is this natural fluid desire to unite n be family oriented together, be serious but yet we can be light hearted n playful.
We just had a very serious discussion that could have so easily turned into a battle but it didn't, we are both calm ppl that don't explode easily and really try to listen, we resolved the issue without even a mild aggravation....he listened and I truly felt he heard me out when he could have become defensive. Then he explained where he was coming from and I listened then we decided the best way for both of us to get what we needed. He's just very mature n thoughtful!

I soooo much appreciate what you've said because I wasnt seeing in the chart what I was feeling and I was wondering if I was fooling myself or if maybe it was just temporary.

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posted August 13, 2014 10:55 AM            

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Originally posted by libran_dream:
Lots of interesting things in the synastry.
I'm looking at the very close conjunctions.

His Pluto-your Venus. He brings intensity to your romance, you bring a way to express his deepest desires in a loving way. A classic aspect. Could get bad though...stalkerish. You don't want this with an individual with personal problems already existing. If he knows how to handle his Pluto, go for it, if he does not... run.

Your NN-his Uranus. He would electrify your sense of purpose. You could get so many unexpected, exciting things from him that can make you feel like you're accomplishing something for yourself, like you're going somewhere you need to be. He would feel valued for what he could contribute to your life, his genius, higher intellect, would feel really appreciated, and he'd be proud of himself for it.

Juno conjunctions: his Juno-your Vesta, his Saturn-your Juno. On their own, these are good indicators of mutual marital fidelity.

Your Mars-his ASC. You would see him as masculine, as your kind of masculine; the way he carries himself, the way he looks, the way he dresses... It would conform to what you view as masculinity. A pretty good aspect, imo. The downside would be that with time he might feel like he has to maintain his masculine appearance to the world around you all the time. Your Mars is retro so you might sometimes project your issues on men onto him too much. If you learn to own your own Mars more, that should work itself out.

Your Saturn-his Jupiter. This aspect can be pretty good AND pretty bad. The plus side is that he brings more freedom and wealth to where you're restricted and overly disciplined, the minus side is that sometimes you'll rebel against that and want to keep your restrictions as they are. People work a lot on their Saturn in their lives, so when someone comes along and tells you to "just relax"... It can strike a nerve. You'll bring more structure to his world view, give more grounding to his optimism. It can be beneficial to him, if he can handle it. If he can't, the early Leo placement of this conjunction says that the fallout will be dramatic.

His NN-your Moon. That's a really strong placement. Very karmically charged. You can offer supportiveness and comfort to the direction in life that he wants to move in, and you will feel your instincts and feelings are being given a purpose when directed at him. It's a really nice aspect, and this one really draws people together.

Your Moon trines his Venus, a very nice flow of affection there. Your Venus is given lots to do; conjunct his Pluto, trine his Mars, but also square his Venus. (the square speaks of an incompatibility of values, sometimes it can be an indicator of infertility in a relationship...)

A wide-ish Mars-Mars trine speaks of being able to have fun together, do things together, co-operate well.

Just my first impressions, hope you find something that speaks to you!

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I see a lot of things that speak to me, thank you! I kind of wondered what the Venus square Venus/Pluto could indicate.
I wondered if maybe he already struggles with that square personally, if my Venus being added to his Pluto would give extra support to his Pluto and help him feel more able to allow Pluto to work through the issues that the square is stressing. But I'm not sure if that's how it works.
I can say we are both equally open to personal growth, don't mind having our issues called out and examining them. I wondered if that Pluto/Venus square Venus was an outlet for growth. ESP since our composite NN sits exactly on that my Venus and his Pluto.

posted August 13, 2014 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I see a lot of things that speak to me, thank you! I kind of wondered what the Venus square Venus/Pluto could indicate.
I wondered if maybe he already struggles with that square personally, if my Venus being added to his Pluto would give extra support to his Pluto and help him feel more able to allow Pluto to work through the issues that the square is stressing. But I'm not sure if that's how it works.
I can say we are both equally open to personal growth, don't mind having our issues called out and examining them. I wondered if that Pluto/Venus square Venus was an outlet for growth. ESP since our composite NN sits exactly on that my Venus and his Pluto.

Any thoughts on Vertex inconjunct Vertex, or his Vertex conjunct my NN?

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But there are lots of positive avenues for this to be used constructively and lived with! With some effort, most things can be resolved and turned into growth opportunities.

posted August 13, 2014 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
@libran_dream
It's interesting you say that because I have always been just as you described with my kids...now that my Sun has progressed into capricorn and squaring my Pluto-Venus I'm expecting my kids to start walking the line...I'm tired of being the only one who does all the work!

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posted August 18, 2014 06:02 PM            

I never realized how much I was like a pisces, we have so much in common.
I have Sun/Merc/Nep with exact sextile libra Pluto on AC
That's a lot of water alone but then virgo moon in 12th.

His Venus trines my Moon....my Venus conjunct his Pluto....his Moon trine my Chiron

I think I'm really feeling these aspects we have so much natural compassion n empathy, plus a huge attraction!

Does anyone know....what exactly does the Osiris/Isis conjunction in pisces aspect do or feel like? It's also conjunct my Pholus and opposed his Saturn in my Juno in my 12th.
My Lust is exact on his Eros, in my 4th and his DC.
I think these aspects must denote a lot of passion...you think?

My Venus libra@19.05
His Pluto libra@18.57
His Psyche cap@20.07
His Venus cap@18.35
My Angel cap@16.21
My Lust cap@14.54
His Eros cap@14.25
My Pluto libra@11.05
My Eros cap@9.00
My Valentine cap@9.50
His Lust cancer@7.47
My MC cancer@7.56