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posted August 13, 2014 09:57 AM            

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posted August 13, 2014 01:42 PM            

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Personally, I can't see the charts. Try to upload them on a photosharing service then copy the "link for forums" here.

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posted August 13, 2014 01:55 PM            

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posted August 13, 2014 02:42 PM            

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It seems there is a large age difference. Is he a distant crush of yours?

Also, I would prefer the astro.com synastry/composite, without "aspect lines to all" and with the standard orb fact they have there.

EDIT: sorry, now I can see the first charts, the astro.com ones still, there are too many aspects for my eyes
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posted August 13, 2014 04:21 PM            

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posted August 14, 2014 10:38 AM            

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Peluches, before looking at the charts, I need to ask you: how old are you? Is he just your crush or do you have a relationship with this much older man?

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posted August 14, 2014 11:24 AM            

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posted August 15, 2014 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Peluches:
Omg that's so sweet of you to ask and care about that, but dont worry, he's "just" a crush )
He's 41, not married, no kids ; I'm 14. I know we can't have a relationship but I still have hope for when i turn 18.
But I know in what situation I'm in, so don't worry about that )

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OK I just needed to make sure. I'll take a look at your charts tomorrow.

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posted August 15, 2014 07:53 PM            

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posted August 16, 2014 07:20 AM            

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The synastry is very suitable for your age difference. Is he some sort of teacher/mentor, BTW?

The man is protective and friendly towards the girl, he is a fatherly figure, there are a lot of mentorship aspects, but I don't see any other kind of interest from his part.

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posted August 16, 2014 08:49 AM            

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I agree with LeeLoo.

One clue is in basic astro - the girl is Libra Sun conjunct Vesta with Virgo AC, that gives a very, sort of, innocent air to a person. Maybe even naive. This guy is a Scorpio, Gemini AC, LOADED H5, Uranus conj. Mars, chart ruler on BML... The conflict is obvious.

The second is in composite - H1 has Vesta/Valentine only, nothing else. This reads like the definition of platonic to me.

Though I can certainly see where the attraction is coming from. Look at that cH5, crazy.

My advice: Forget it. Not only because of your current age, but because, in a romantic relationship, this man would not be very kind to you in the long run.

Also, I have to ask. This man has his Sun on 5Sco, which is where the Pluto falls in composite with your generation. Have you ever noticed him flirting, or something similar, with other girls your age?

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posted August 16, 2014 09:26 AM            

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Sorry, you are 14 and that man is 41?

Oh no, Darling, that's not funny anymore. It's child molestation if he ever touches you.

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