posted August 13, 2014 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by plutomercjup20:
Would a guy with moon opposite Uranus and Neptune be hot and cold about his feelings ? Is this like a cheater aspect ? Or does this mean he attracts emotionally unavailable / hot and cold women ? The guy I've had a crush for a very long time has this and I know he's definitely attracted to me but I notice he goes on periods of detachment for no reason ? is this normal ? We also have this in synastry (I'm Uranus and Neptune , he's moon) what does this mean ? Thank you.

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posted August 13, 2014 11:44 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
i am female. i have moon opposite uranus. i think anyone can cheat regardless of an aspect. in general this combo makes you very unstable in a love relationship though. i can identify with what you said about hold/cold feelings. it is like wanting a partnership and wanting freedom too. it's a push-pull inner war that goes on very frequently. and the partner can suffer, yep. it doesn't mean the person isn't interested necessarily, but that they have an interest in being alone as much as being with someone. it is kinda hard to deal with in relationships. i almost always date men with heavy aqua influences - aquarian people can understand this dynamic and handle the up/downs of it better than some other signs. you will definitely feel the detachment and the emotional distance, and just know it's not you. it's hard for the person too. we like people but get overwhelmed by the relationship with this aspect and then fight against it by taking time away.hopefully you have some personal planets in aqua. in the synastry it'd be similar.. a bit unstable and perhaps some breaks and then getting back together frequently

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Oh I see what you're saying. I'm actually pretty hot and cold myself too and I love my freedom and space too (even though I have no aqua in my chart just the mc ) , could be because of my Gemini rising or all my sagg planets ? My secondary 7th house is Aquarius ? Could be my moon square Uranus actually (very wide orb though) hahah buy hmmm I am not sure, but anyways I get what you're saying , this guys is very aqua (has mercury and mars in aqua) but I can defenitly see us having lots of breaks , both from him and I needing space , anyways thanks a lot , I understand this placement a lot better now and I'll defenitly keep everything you said in mind. Thank you for your help and for replying !