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Topic: Synastry mars opposite venus,who feels what?
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Dreaminess
Knowflake Posts: 34
From: norway
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 14, 2014 01:49 PM
  
I have this with a man i am very attracted to. His mars, my venus and i littarely want to rip him to shreds, my question is what does the mars person feel towards the venus person esp with the hard aspects? how do the mars person view the venus person esp if the mars person is a man?
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moonofneptune
Knowflake Posts: 27
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted August 15, 2014 12:32 AM
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
I have this with a man i am very attracted to. His mars, my venus and i littarely want to rip him to shreds, my question is what does the mars person feel towards the venus person esp with the hard aspects? how do the mars person view the venus person esp if the mars person is a man?
Mars is usually the aggressor; it represents sex, anger, manliness, etc. Venus is beautiful, she wants to be loved, and represents fragility in a way. Venus is pursued, Mars is the pursuer. This is why it's usually preferable that in venus-mars aspects, the man is mars. Opposites attract, and I've always heard and experienced that the opposition between mars and venus is generally more noticeable than the conjunction or square.
Unless his mars is in a detrimented position (poorly aspected by saturn, in the 12th house, peregrine, etc.), he should be feeling this aspect too. IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
Knowflake Posts: 2345
From:
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted August 15, 2014 01:06 AM
The attraction is mutual. IP: Logged |
Bohemiangirl
Newflake Posts: 16
From: NSW Australia
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted August 18, 2014 06:39 AM
Ok...I need to tell someone. I caught his eye and he caught mine. Very briefly. We worked at the same place but he's sort of in a managerial position-to him I'm nothing really. We move in different circles, although if my career in the arts would develop we'd be equals. He then left for overseas work but in that time I looked him up on google and developed a deep attraction having a bit of a *ahem* intense sexual fantasy since then. After a break of three years, he's back. I hadn't seen him and had not been working the days he was. However, we saw each other last week. I was turning to leave the building and saw him entering from a distance. I looked away but as he passed I felt I could take a small peek. Keep in mind the first glance three years ago was so brief to be almost nothing. As we passed each other, he was looking straight at me and nodded as if he knew me. I couldn't help but acknowledge back..I was so thrown I haven't been able to think of anything since. How would he know me??I am in a long term relationship of over 20 years as he is and he lives overseas. I have since learned that his venus conjs mine as well as my sun in pisces but opposes my mars and pluto conjunct in virgo. His presence has really kick-started an interest in my career which I had almost shelved but it's also made me admit that I have never experienced the satisfactory, deep sexual/emotional life as my partner, 19 years my senior, is only my second (I have Mars in virgo=mixed up/fearful sexuality totally unlike the traditional Mars energy. I have never been able to feel desire significantly or "let go". No trouble climaxing but it's forced. Being a pisces Sun, I am the typical venus type..I hate to dominate and abhor being the instigator or aggressor). I had no experience when we met and thought that was as good as it got as my first time was nothing special-I mean, I was 25 when I slept with a man for the first time for heaven's sake! I have an almost raw need for a spiritual/emotional/sexual union with a man. I have to admit that my partner and I, despite being the best of friends have never physically clicked and I don't want to die feeling this empty. I am so lost and needing something but I can't/don't know what it is. I don't even know if it's this man. I'm so drawn to surrender totally but is it all in my mind..?
I'm thinking that this is my usual pisces fantasy life talking and I'm being a tad obsessive..was it my imagination-? Did he feel something too?IP: Logged | |
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