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posted August 18, 2014 12:05 AM            

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Hi, WARNING: Merc in Sag. I will try not to be too wordy :-) hehe
The following is info for me and a guy I am interested in:
Myself:12/28/79 Valparaiso In 46383 born 19:35
Him: 12/18/80 Valparaiso IN 46838 born 12:00 (yes, he says he was born at noon)
We knew each other in high school but weren't entirely close. We randomly ran into each other a couple months back after both of us suddenly moved back to our home town after 16 years.
We both are self pronounces serial daters who have always focused on are careers and have moved back for family. We discussed how we would like the right relationship but want it to just happen.
Every time we hang out we have a BLAST! Conversation just flows. We can do anything and just have fun. I have been traveling the world and I have more fun with him climbing to the top of a shed and watching a drive in movie from a ½ mile away than I do sucking down sushi in Japan. We have only had one intense PG13 make out section (which he initiated) which we both enjoyed immensely (he was very vocal about it ;-) after sharing a bottle of wine and falling out of a row boat last time we hung out. We only stopped because of other people around.
Anyway ,chemistry is great! Better than a best friend but not the kind of sexual thing that always gets me in trouble. Hard to explain. But the big problem is we go for days, even weeks without talking. It is like we are both dancing around it. We both treasure our freedom so much I am not sure either one of us will make any kind of move. I don’t like games. I don’t even know if I know how to play them. At the same time I tend to be so fickle no one ever catches my eye long enough for me to stick around. I NEVER feel this comfortable with someone. (I think part of that is because we have known each other since high school.) I just want advice. I don’t want to do my usual and just detach or friend zone him because it isn’t’ instant gratification.
I do want to clarify, that our contact is never overly sexual and when we do hang out it is always respectable, like dinner or with friends. It may be random, but never a booty call.
If you do a synastry chart between the two of us, I have never seen so many conjunctions. We also have a lot of chirons and asteroids which are just too advanced for me to understand. I have also never dealt with a composite venues in 7th house, always in the 8th. Sad, but true. :-/
I promised not to get too wordy, but too late, sorry, but I am just looking for some sound advice.
Is it worth my time or just a friend?
Thank You!

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posted August 18, 2014 12:19 AM            

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sorry, one last thing.... can any one explain my Pluto in Libra in his 7th house ... it has been coming up constantly in my dating(along with the guy above) Along with my Neptune in Sagittarius in his 9th house and my Uranus in Scorpio in his 8th house ... not so important... but it has happened manipulate times in a row and it is getting old :-)

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posted August 18, 2014 01:53 AM            

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Post the synastry, composite, & both natals.

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Claire
"When going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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posted August 18, 2014 06:36 AM            

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Not really the way they love will be similar , both will value friendship more , freedom , and above else truth. That your with them not because you have to be, cause you want to be . Can be aloof , or lose interest quickly.
So keep it fun, avoid drama!
Sexual nothing is off limits - very experimental .
Or a friendship develops into a love affair. ( Has been in my case , but I have trine) .

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posted August 20, 2014 05:11 PM            

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Thank you all...

Ok..I feel foolish, but I can't figure out the best way to post our charts. I have screenshots of them but they wont show with a copy and paste and I see no way to embed or insert them. I would just give a link but I don't want it to expire. Any advice???

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posted August 21, 2014 12:15 AM            

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ok...so I am going to just post the links tonight and hope they dont expire and then try and figure it out my pics if need be.... I really do appreciate the help and advice... I really am a bit of a loss on this one...

I do see we have a Chiron trine Mars.... Which I have only had one other time with my only long term relationship that I almost married.... just makes me curious....

synastry

Chart: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/ctbkfile5IXMsn-u1399560455/astro_61gw_01_16_jo ey_findling_kb.16553.23758.pdf

Wheel: http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cg i?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_01_16_joey_findling_kb.15799.28623.gif&res=100&va=&cid=tbkfile5IXMsn-u1399560455

Composite:

Chart http://www.astro.com/tmpd/ctbkfile5IXMsn-u1399560455/astro_621gw_01_16_j oey_findling_kb.14619.6668.pdf

Wheel
http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cg i?lang=e&gif=astro_621gw_01_16_joey_findling_kb.16081.6017.gif&res=100&va=&cid=tbkfile5IXMsn-u1399560455

My Natal:

Chart:
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/ctbkfile5IXMsn-u1399560455/astro_2gw_01_joey_findling .16283.14160.pdf

Wheel:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang= e&gif=astro_2gw_01_joey_findling.16278.14005.gif&res=100&va=&cid=tbkfile5IXMsn-u1399560455

His Natal:

Chart:
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/ctbkfile5IXMsn-u1399560455/astro_2gw_16_kb.16374.17314.pdf

Wheel:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro _2gw_16_kb.16368.17105.gif&res=100&va=&cid=tbkfile5IXMsn-u1399560455

And I just realized everyone on this thread might have gotten notification on all my edits. I am So Sorry if that happened! I am a bit of a newbie and just wanted to make sure I got it all right... Sorry... and Thank you!

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