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Topic: To people that have exp mars/saturn in synastry, is it true that the sex is bad?
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Dreaminess Knowflake Posts: 111 From: norway Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 26, 2014 04:09 PM
or that the relationship became/was/is "sexless"?Was both of you satisfied with the sex or is it true that one of the people esp the saturn person is a bit disappointed with the sex? or is this just a bad rumor those two pairings have? i esp want to hear people that have experienced hard aspects between these two planets in synastry.IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 5617 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 26, 2014 04:13 PM
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12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1936 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 26, 2014 08:52 PM
The sex is good, very good indeed :3My mars oppose his saturn. His mars trine mine. IP: Logged |
Delilah423 Knowflake Posts: 268 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 26, 2014 09:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: The sex is good, very good indeed :3My mars oppose his saturn. His mars trine mine.
I'll second that statement. In my case, my Mars trine his Saturn, and his Mars quincunx my Saturn. With my ex, we had a Mars-Saturn conjunction. Sex had little to do with why we split. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 4566 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 26, 2014 10:02 PM
I had an exact Mars/Saturn sextile once and the sex was awesome, it was rarely a quickly, always seem to last forever, felt deep and soulful. It was like we were always in the process of a slow buildup...even when we weren't a sexual vibe was still there.IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Moderator Posts: 4006 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 27, 2014 05:14 PM
MARS and SATURN in same sign, not conjunct. Both have huge sexual hang ups, but very meaningful, mindful actual sex.IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1644 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2014 09:06 PM
Had the square with my ex - sex was awesome and long. We drove each other nutty otherwise and the sex didn't make up for all the nagging and criticizing he did f me so I finally just blew up and leftYou guessed it, I was mars I have this square aspect, in even tighter orb to a guy I'm seeing now... Sigh IP: Logged |
PisceanDream Knowflake Posts: 203 From: Alexandria, VA, USA Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 27, 2014 11:11 PM
What about if the woman is Saturn? Does it make a difference? Will she reject or conflict with his sexual advances?IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1644 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 27, 2014 11:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by PisceanDream: What about if the woman is Saturn? Does it make a difference? Will she reject or conflict with his sexual advances?
she would likely be the more restrictive person as Mars is an initiator IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae Moderator Posts: 4006 From: Venice, California, US Registered: Jul 2011
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posted August 28, 2014 12:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: Had the square with my ex - sex was awesome and long. We drove each other nutty otherwise and the sex didn't make up for all the nagging and criticizing he did f me so I finally just blew up and leftYou guessed it, I was mars I have this square aspect, in even tighter orb to a guy I'm seeing now... Sigh
Wow! That's a pattern, Moonstruck. What do you think is drawing it? That's rather specific. You must be trying to resolve something. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1644 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 28, 2014 04:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by IndigoDirae: Wow! That's a pattern, Moonstruck. What do you think is drawing it? That's rather specific. You must be trying to resolve something.
and I am mars AGAIN, Indigo. Idk what could be drawing it? Natally, I have mars trine saturn?? but my natal sun and pluto square saturn What do you make of it Indigo? as a sidenote - synastry w/my ex was MAGNETIC. lots of uranus which as we know provides that inexplicable, magnetism but it's also unstable. w/him I had the square at about 2 degrees and now, as previously mentioned, I have it w/current guy at 1 degree. Haven't felt any of it come out yet. and I didn't w/my ex until we moved in together, then NOTHING I did was ever right. He was awful to me verbally. my mom described it as me losing my "shine". she said it was horrible to watch from the outside and she actually encouraged me to leave him bc even when I didn't verbalize my pain, she knew. and I don't see any other really good aspects in the synastry between he and I. He ended up deceiving me.(cheating) I told him that all of his "fear" made me suspicious that he was actually the one guilty of something. He just projected that onto me. I will say that it was obsessive and lusty between us in the beginning (the sex stayed great) and I didn't give myself enough time before moving in w/him and committing to him, so I see my role in that. I would like to know how to over come this "pattern" or at least how to work w/the energy. I know that this synastry is energy that can be used for good. My higherself is more powerful than a few synastry or even natal aspects. My relationship w/my ex left me quite wounded, but I have incorporated yoga, meditation and other self care into my routine. I had a child w/him and I think that was our my purpose in coming together. He hasn't helped me hardly at all w/our son and still has the audacity to try to criticize me. He is usually more concerned w/what I am doing than asking about our son. He is a sad, lost individual and I have actually gotten over being angry with him and now I feel sorry for him. He's always so concerned w/what's going wrong that he misses what is going right. but yeah, I have a lot of wonderful, supportive aspects w/current guy but it is a red flag to see this aspect pop up again. I would like to know what needs to be resolved, too. *end rant* IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 5617 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 28, 2014 07:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: she would likely be the more restrictive person as Mars is an initiator
Mars is an initiator, but Saturn is a builder. These two can work wonderfully together if they team up. ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 1163 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 28, 2014 08:33 AM
mars & chiron contacts allegedly indicate bad sex. But I have never experienced that.IP: Logged |