posted September 01, 2014 04:35 PM            

Transit Juno conjuncted exact his Jupiter and by a littles less than 5 orbs his natal Juno.
Transit Jupiter conjuncted by one orb my natal Juno
Transit Southnode was conjuncting my Northnode and sextiling exact my venus/karma and my mars/fortuna by one orb.
Transit Northnode was conjuncting my Southnode and trining exact my venus/karma and my mars/fortuna by one orb.
Transit Juno conjuncted my Sun which is ruled by mercury which rules my 7th.
Transit Venus conjuncted his Moon
Transit Moon conjuncted my Pluto
Transit Lilith conjuncted his Priapus and my Eris
Transit Saturn in Libra conjuncted his Sun
Transit Moon conjuncted his Vertex
Transit Mercury was approaching conjuncting my vertex, mercury rules my 7th.
Transit Psyche was approaching conjuncting my Eros.

***I have a question if anyone could please give some input. What could it mean to have Transit NN conjunct your natal SN and transit SN conjunct your natal NN on the day of your wedding and both transits forming exact soft aspects with your venus?***
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posted September 01, 2014 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Great aspects! I could list my parents' transits if you don't mind that their relationship sucks

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posted September 01, 2014 06:09 PM            

With the angles I set for her...
tNeptune on her MC exact (Neptune in the 7th)
tVenus-SN and tPluto in the 7th (Libra DSC, Scoprio 8th house)
tSaturn-Juno (MC ruler) in the 8th opposite her Vesta
tSun conjunct Pluto and opposite Chiron
tMars in the 10th (ASC ruler)
tJupiter in the 12th
Union-my fathers' surname DW (conjunction and opposition)
tPsyche conjunct NN
tGroom conjunct Briede LOL
Cancer tMoon transiting 4th and 5th house and tBriede

Now father. He told me the hour around he was born.
tUnion conjunct Vertex
tMars conjunct NN
tGroom conjunct Chiron
tEros conjunct Psyche lol
tJupiter opposite Juno
tVesta conjunct Amor
tMoon transiting Jupiter
tBriede conjunct Jupiter
tPsyche conjunct Mercury
tSun in the 10th, its own house
tMercury in the 10th (8th house ruler)
tVenus (DSC ruler) conjunct Neptune
tPluto (ASC ruler) conjunct Saturn
tJupiter in the 4th

Jupiter, Groom, Boda, Briede, Amor, Vesta, Valentine, Eros and surname asteroid were retro.

posted September 04, 2014 04:27 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:

Everyone feel free to share the transits you think are meaningful that took place the day you got married .

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I would, but I have no idea what kind of chart to pull. ???

posted September 05, 2014 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
I would, but I have no idea what kind of chart to pull. ???

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I prefer you list the aspects between transits to your natal and his natal that you find meaningful that took place the day you two become officially married even if it was unconventional and just the two of you exchanging vows or merely recognizing the union. The transits of that day that marked that beginning of married life for the two of you.'

Or you can post your natal with transits of that day and his natal with transits of that day.

posted September 08, 2014 03:08 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
I prefer you list the aspects between transits to your natal and his natal that you find meaningful that took place the day you two become officially married even if it was unconventional and just the two of you exchanging vows or merely recognizing the union. The transits of that day that marked that beginning of married life for the two of you.'

Or you can post your natal with transits of that day and his natal with transits of that day.

Did this answer your question?

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Yes... but which day should I choose? We had to get married 2x because we forgot the paperwork at our first ceremony (the one with friends around). The second ceremony made it legal but that's basically it.

However, ceremony #2 felt more real to me. Ceremony #1 almost felt like an act of simply playing dress up for our witnesses.

What do you think?

posted September 08, 2014 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
Yes... but which day should I choose? We had to get married 2x because we forgot the paperwork at our first ceremony (the one with friends around). The second ceremony made it legal but that's basically it.

However, ceremony #2 felt more real to me. Ceremony #1 almost felt like an act of simply playing dress up for our witnesses.

What do you think?

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posted September 08, 2014 09:48 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
Or you can post your natal with transits of that day and his natal with transits of that day.

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Okay, great. See below:

ME

HUBBY

Based on what 'hypatia238' recommended, I picked our second ceremony because it felt like the real deal to me.

posted September 10, 2014 02:39 AM            

DW of Moon/Saturn:tSaturn opp nMoon, saSaturn opp nMoon. Moon/Saturn rule her natal 11th/5th
tSaturn also squared her nVenus/Mars conj. Commitment all the way here.

A lot of personal planet conjunctions, tSun on her nSun, tMoon on her nMoon, tMercury on her nMercury, tVenus/Mars on her nVenus/Mars. (!) Never seen anything like that. The day must've been all about her.

And the outers,
tPluto in Libra conj her pAsc, pSun conj nPluto
tNeptune sextile nMoon, tNeptune trine p.Moon..Neptune rules nDsc
t.Uranus trine n.Sun
Reflecting big change headed her way.

Jupiter, tJup sq nJup, tJup trine nMoon.

#2. Him
Asc/Dsc..Nada between nAsc/Dsc rulers. pLeo Asc, and saUranus trine nSun, pSun sextile nUranus. tUranus trine nSun but much wider, 6deg.

Saturn..tSaturn trine pSun.
He has natal Venus/Saturn so I don't think he needed much activation there.

Outers..tNeptune sq nSun, t.Neptune trine pSun.
tPluto conj nIC.

A lot of Mars action,
pAries Sun sq nMars, saUranus conj nMars, tSun/Merc conj nMars, tPluto sq nMars.
He must've felt like he was stepping up the plate ready to show what he's got. Mars rules MC.

Happiness..tJupiter sq nVenus, trine nJupiter.
tVenus/Mars conj was sextile his nMoon/Venus.

They married under an exact Sun/Pluto square. Not good for the outcome of the marriage, I'd say.

posted September 11, 2014 09:59 AM            

I find it interesting that T Pluto is conjuncting the ruler of your husband's 7th house, the sun, on this day and transit uranus which rules your 7th is opposing your natal pluto.

posted September 11, 2014 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
I have a question about this. I'll give an example from my natal chart so I can clearly get this. My 7th house ruler is Mercury since my 7th house cusp is in Virgo, but I also have Mars placed in the 7th house in Libra. Which planet of the two should I consider important for my wedding day? Should I expect transits from Mercury or Mars? Or both?

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I actually did not choose my weeding date based on astrology, I just chose a date; I just recently checked the transits of the day of my wedding and discovered they make sense with a juno/jupiter DW; juno is the wife of jupiter and juno/jupiter rule marriage.

I would suggest if you are planning the date around astrology to take into consideration jupiter and juno.

To answer your question I would say mercury rules your 7th but you can also look at the dispositor of your mercury as well. Lets say mercury rules your 7th but you have mercury in libra; you could use Venus transits or transits to venus on your wedding date as well or instead of mercury if that works for you better.

posted September 12, 2014 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I actually did not choose my weeding date based on astrology, I just chose a date; I just recently checked the transits of the day of my wedding and discovered they make sense with a juno/jupiter DW; juno is the wife of jupiter and juno/jupiter rule marriage.

I would suggest if you are planning the date around astrology to take into consideration jupiter and juno.

To answer your question I would say mercury rules your 7th but you can also look at the dispositor of your mercury as well. Lets say mercury rules your 7th but you have mercury in libra; you could use Venus transits or transits to venus on your wedding date as well or instead of mercury if that works for you better.

Hope this helped!

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posted November 01, 2014 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Geeky,

I find it interesting that T Pluto is conjuncting the ruler of your husband's 7th house, the sun, on this day and transit uranus which rules your 7th is opposing your natal pluto.

Would you say your marriage is very plutonic?

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I'm sorry... I missed your question until now.

Define what you mean by plutonic and then I can answer because I'm not sure I know exactly what you mean.

If you mean obsessive, then yes, it was at first. I was obsessed with defining the relationship and I was stuck in a pattern of very black & white thinking.

He was very commitment oriented and I always equate commitment to marriage, so until he wanted to be married, I felt uneasy as if he could more easily leave. Once the wedding day passed, that uneasiness and worry passed.

Now keep in mind I am polyamorous so normally, I prefer open relationships. But this man is monogamous and has been very clear he is against polyamory so what happened was I got wrapped up in his need to possess me and then I started wanting to possess him.

I didn't like feeling that way (it's completely against my natural tendencies) so in my own mind, I view this relationship as open. I can't tell him that, but it's the only way I could relax and just enjoy him instead of worrying about our status.

But please come back and clarify what you mean about being plutonic if you don't mean obsessive.

posted November 02, 2014 01:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
I'm sorry... I missed your question until now.

Define what you mean by plutonic and then I can answer because I'm not sure I know exactly what you mean.

If you mean obsessive, then yes, it was at first. I was obsessed with defining the relationship and I was stuck in a pattern of very black & white thinking.

He was very commitment oriented and I always equate commitment to marriage, so until he wanted to be married, I felt uneasy as if he could more easily leave. Once the wedding day passed, that uneasiness and worry passed.

Now keep in mind I am polyamorous so normally, I prefer open relationships. But this man is monogamous and has been very clear he is against polyamory so what happened was I got wrapped up in his need to possess me and then I started wanting to possess him.

I didn't like feeling that way (it's completely against my natural tendencies) so in my own mind, I view this relationship as open. I can't tell him that, but it's the only way I could relax and just enjoy him instead of worrying about our status.

But please come back and clarify what you mean about being plutonic if you don't mean obsessive.

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WOW fascinating piece of the story between you two; I feel you though plutonic relationships can do this. This theme of one wanting to posses the other and the other letting themselves been transformed by it to some extent would be an expression of a plutonic relationship.

I actually read something today that really describes it:

"The 8th House: The eighth house is the most natural house to experience in a composite. The entire house is about merged energies, whether they be sexual or financial. On the surface, it’s about our style of sharing–how we use what we own as a unit. The eighth house will, to some extent, give a sense of the sexual ‘style’ a couple has, and planets there will describe how we accomplish our merging. The Sun there will describe a partnership that possibly revolves around sex and inner transformation. (Or you could go the traditional route and speculate that, depending on other aspects, it may be all about money, or possibly sex for money). It can be a deep, intimate, psychologically-directed house, where our most intimate vulnerabilities are exposed, or it can be primarily about how we use our resources. Note I say ‘use.’ The resources themselves will be shown by the 2nd house, but how we handle what we have belongs in the eighth. This can get very interesting when we’re not dealing with polarities. For example, a couple can have Venus in conservative Capricorn in the second, but have Gemini ruling an empty eighth house. Their nest egg might be solid, but they may tend to spend it on a whim, or may be addicted to buying the latest phones and video games. They might be the kind of people who value conservative spending but just can’t seem to do it themselves. If it were flipped, and Gemini was on the second and Venus in Cap in the eighth, this couple would carefully share their ideas and their connections with the outside world. They would take care of their Gemini resources, whatever they might be. This might be the couple who knows everyone on the block and makes sure that the older people across the street get dug out of the snow. They also might be carefully generous with local charities.

If a couple has a packed eighth house, there is a need for intimacy and deep exchange within the partnership. This might be okay for the half of the couple that is more Plutonian or depth-oriented. If the other partner is more air/fire this may make the relationship difficult–we will feel as if we are struggling to breathe every moment, while the relationship keeps pulling us underwater. This is true for any of the water houses (4, 8, 12) but is exaggerated in the 8th, which has a thrust to intimacy all its own. Even for those of us comfortable with transformation, this kind of intensity may not seem right for us at this moment, or with this person. This composite house isn’t about the dissolve (that comes in the 12th) but is about our ability to burn to the core of our known selves and come back to ourselves renewed . When this house is emphasized in a partnership, the fire may just be too hot. Outer planets or Saturn here may indicate a problem with intimacy within the partnership if fears and defenses are allowed to take over. The problem here would not be due just to one partner’s reluctance or resistance, but to both people feeling wary of losing emotional ground. The answer here is to look back on the second house and see what we really gain (and can get hold of) when we are together—something that neither party can obtain alone.