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libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 10, 2014 02:03 PM
Wow, look at that crazy Nodal Axis-Moon-Mars-Venus formation in the composite, all on 12/13. Now that is amazing. Added to that in natals are the Amor conjunctions around 12, his AND her Venus around 12 and her Valentine and his Eros. This is looking pretty, pretty good. Of course, even the best synastries can fail if work isn't done. But this is pretty promising.IP: Logged |
lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 10, 2014 02:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by libran_dream: Wow, look at that crazy Nodal Axis-Moon-Mars-Venus formation in the composite, all on 12/13. Now that is amazing. Added to that in natals are the Amor conjunctions around 12, his AND her Venus around 12 and her Valentine and his Eros. This is looking pretty, pretty good. Of course, even the best synastries can fail if work isn't done. But this is pretty promising.
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libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 10, 2014 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: Could you explain what you say is going on in the composite? 
I see desire that is fueling this relationship's purpose and growth, and this desire is a very natural expression of romantic emotions. Does that sound true to you? I've never seen this configuration before, so I'm basically speculating, I'd love to hear what you think.IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1615 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 10, 2014 02:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: It's a good synastrya stellium ( his Taurean one) doesn't need another's conjunction, it's already too stiffed in its ways. What a stellium needs is someone to ruffle its feathers, by a square to it or by an opposition. You've got that with your Venus and Pluto.
hilarious :-) IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 11023 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 10, 2014 02:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: hilarious :-)
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lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 10, 2014 04:31 PM
quote: Originaly posted by Libran_dream: I see desire that is fueling this relationship's purpose and growth, and this desire is a very natural expression of romantic emotions. Does that sound true to you? I've never seen this configuration before, so I'm basically speculating, I'd love to hear what you think.
Yes that sound true! Also we felt really close from the start, they say that's because of composite sun in cancer? Isn't venus in the 12th composite bad?
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libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 10, 2014 05:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: Yes that sound true! Also we felt really close from the start, they say that's because of composite sun in cancer? Isn't venus in the 12th composite bad?
Nothing is "bad", everything has many modes of expression.  Your composite Venus is touching your IC - it is a place where you allow intimacy to happen, so it's certainly a "good" placement. His Sun and Venus are on the composite IC, so he would feel great being intimate with you. I can sense that you're worried about something though. Can you verbalize your concern? Maybe we can look at something more specific to address that.IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 11023 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted September 11, 2014 06:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Why, starmoon? 
 OK Now I got it, you actually like the comment. I thought you were making fun of it. My stupidity. I was in a combative mood.  It's funny how our perception is changed by the mood.
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lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 11, 2014 06:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by libran_dream: Nothing is "bad", everything has many modes of expression.  Your composite Venus is touching your IC - it is a place where you allow intimacy to happen, so it's certainly a "good" placement. His Sun and Venus are on the composite IC, so he would feel great being intimate with you. I can sense that you're worried about something though. Can you verbalize your concern? Maybe we can look at something more specific to address that.
Yes.. i feel like i easily hurt him with my actions/words, i wonder if that's because his moon in his natal chart is squaring his taurus stellium, or something in our synastry/composite? And how i can address that properly.. He gives me silent treatments.. IP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 11, 2014 11:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: Yes.. i feel like i easily hurt him with my actions/words, i wonder if that's because his moon in his natal chart is squaring his taurus stellium, or something in our synastry/composite? And how i can address that properly.. He gives me silent treatments..
Your guess about his Moon-stelium square is a good one. His Moon is on his South Node, so that's a point where he "keeps his feelings", so to speak, and your own South Node is in your H12, and on his Pluto, with your Mercury being there. Him being a Gemini AC, people's Mercuries would be strongly felt by him. Someone's Pluto in your H12, where you have your Mercury, indicates you can read some of the most secretive parts of them very well. With this H12 SN/Mercury-Pluto combination, my guess is that, sometimes, you would stumble onto and comment on some of the things that he's deeply insecure about and that he likes to hide about himself, but that are very visible to you. A part of your viewpoint of his emotional depths is expressed through your SN, and he reacts to your placement with his - so the Moon gets involved. He tries to retaliate/stop you from prying into some painful things for him(Pluto) by denying you/cutting off the ability that you use to "hurt" him - your Mercury. So a part is not that he does not want to talk to you, it's that he doesn't want you to talk(use your Mercury) to him(analyze his Pluto). That's a part of it the way I see it. Mercury is not a particularly tactful planet and Pluto requires heaps of tact to deal with, although it might not give you the benefit of the same back. Have you done any reading yet on Mercury-Pluto conjunctions in synastry? IP: Logged |
lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 11, 2014 12:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by libran_dream: Your guess about his Moon-stelium square is a good one. His Moon is on his South Node, so that's a point where he "keeps his feelings", so to speak, and your own South Node is in your H12, and on his Pluto, with your Mercury being there. Him being a Gemini AC, people's Mercuries would be strongly felt by him. Someone's Pluto in your H12, where you have your Mercury, indicates you can read some of the most secretive parts of them very well. With this H12 SN/Mercury-Pluto combination, my guess is that, sometimes, you would stumble onto and comment on some of the things that he's deeply insecure about and that he likes to hide about himself, but that are very visible to you. A part of your viewpoint of his emotional depths is expressed through your SN, and he reacts to your placement with his - so the Moon gets involved. He tries to retaliate/stop you from prying into some painful things for him(Pluto) by denying you/cutting off the ability that you use to "hurt" him - your Mercury. So a part is not that he does not want to talk to you, it's that he doesn't want you to talk(use your Mercury) to him(analyze his Pluto). That's a part of it the way I see it. Mercury is not a particularly tactful planet and Pluto requires heaps of tact to deal with, although it might not give you the benefit of the same back. Have you done any reading yet on Mercury-Pluto conjunctions in synastry?
Wow.. Really accurate this.. So if he gives me silent treatments, better not to talk to him? What kind of communication could i use? What kind of tact could i use to not hurt his pluto? Thank you! I'll research more about the mercury/pluto aspect.. This could be something.. My chart ruler is pluto.. His is mercury.. IP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 11, 2014 12:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: Wow.. Really accurate this.. So if he gives me silent treatments, better not to talk to him? What kind of communication could i use? What kind of tact could i use to not hurt his pluto? Thank you! I'll research more about the mercury/pluto aspect.. This could be something.. My chart ruler is pluto.. His is mercury..
It's never really the right solution to completely eliminate communication. But, some kind of redirection of the energies is necessary. You'll often hit on a sore spot for him, maybe try to be more aware of your power here and strive to use it responsibly. Do read up on any material you can find on this conjunction, much cleverer people with much more experience than me have written some excellent and usable advice.  IP: Logged |
lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 12, 2014 01:43 PM
@libran_dream Could you see in the charts if he's the one i'm going to marry?IP: Logged |
libran_dream Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 12, 2014 06:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: @libran_dream Could you see in the charts if he's the one i'm going to marry?
Haha, I wish, then I'd use that knowledge on my own chart and half my problems would be over. No one can tell you that, it is your decision alone. Astrology can help better inform you about the dynamics of a relationship, but I do not believe in its predictive capacities.
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 3065 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 12, 2014 06:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: My mars is 23.02 in capricornHis sun 6.49 His venus 11.57 His mars 1.25 His mercury 6.14 His priapus 10.16 His BML 13.14 My venus 13.31
Gah. I meant CAP. I was doing too many things. Okay, so, late-ish CAP. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 3065 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 12, 2014 06:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by libran_dream: Wow, look at that crazy Nodal Axis-Moon-Mars-Venus formation in the composite, all on 12/13. Now that is amazing.
Yeah, I really liked that, too. It's a really beautiful pattern. It's got its issues to be sure, but there's such a lovely symmetry to it. IP: Logged |
lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 13, 2014 08:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Yeah, I really liked that, too. It's a really beautiful pattern. It's got its issues to be sure, but there's such a lovely symmetry to it.
Could you explain this to me how to see this in the chart? Is it the northnode sextile moon sextile venus sextile southnode? And mars? Sorry for sounding noobish.. I really would like to learn
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lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 13, 2014 02:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Gah. I meant CAP. I was doing too many things. Okay, so, late-ish CAP.
So, could you tell more now you know the degrees?
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lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 14, 2014 04:17 PM
The ruler of our composite ascendant falls in saggitarius, his natal 7th house, is this significant?IP: Logged |
lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 18, 2014 01:30 PM
Venus, the ruler of both our suns (taurus and libra) is in our composite's 12th house, could this mean something significant? We both experience a spiritual connection..IP: Logged |