posted September 14, 2014 05:20 PM            

I'm posting to get some insight into a new relationship that began in my life 3 months ago. I met her at a conference a few months, and we've written back and forth ever since because she's abroad right now. The connection between us feels quite deep and unlike anything I've ever experienced before... we're friends now (and have agreed to be due to various circumstances), but I can't help but wonder if there could be something more here.

Here's our synastry (I'm on the outside):

Composite:

her birthtime is set to 12 pm so house placements are probably not possible. thanks in advance for patience! any insight would be HUGELY appreciated.

posted September 15, 2014 06:15 PM            

she's still quite young compared with you, and that might make things even more unpredictable as she's probably not yet settled in her ways. Girls at that age can still be somewhat volatile in their emotions. Based on what you wrote, I for one am afraid the charts (and in her case, with a missing birth time as well) cannot really help you answer those questions you asked because your common future is not set in stone, it depends on how you both handle the current situation. While there are doubtless some nice connections between your charts that can well explain the good rapport you feel, they do not in any way "determine" how this connection will develop. Just my two cents of course, maybe someone else has more astrological insight to offer.

posted September 15, 2014 10:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Hi there,

she's still quite young compared with you, and that might make things even more unpredictable as she's probably not yet settled in her ways. Girls at that age can still be somewhat volatile in their emotions. Based on what you wrote, I for one am afraid the charts (and in her case, with a missing birth time as well) cannot really help you answer those questions you asked because your common future is not set in stone, it depends on how you both handle the current situation. While there are doubtless some nice connections between your charts that can well explain the good rapport you feel, they do not in any way "determine" how this connection will develop. Just my two cents of course, maybe someone else has more astrological insight to offer.

If you value her as a friend, by all means keep the contact alive and perhaps circumstances will change someday and make a love relationship more practical. But meanwhile, if I were you I would simply live my life and be open to new people as well. Should you then find that you can indeed not live without her, then I'd say, be a man and do something about those "circumstances" that keep you from her!

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posted September 15, 2014 10:58 PM            

Moon rules your 8th house, and to not have any connection to her planets (on top of the unaspected Mars-your masculine energy), I can't see you two having a satisfying intimate life, emotionally or sexually, even if her houses are positioned in your favour.

I see it more as a friendship. She nicely places her Sun/Mercury in your 3rd house - great for communication. Also Mars/Mercury conjunction is nice aspect for stimulating ideas. Her Moon on your MC (depends on her TOB) shows she supports your career, etc.

One other thing I like about your synastry is Marses in the same sign. It doesn't seem combative, because they don't make a very tight conjunction. It is nice to understand each others passions and drives

There is no much point in looking at Composite, because you're not in relationship with her yet, and without houses, we loose like 50% of information

I like that you have a classic Sun/Venus/Mercury (wide) conjunction. I really don't like Mars oppositions, especially the one to Saturn. It suggests a rather argumentative relationship.

Moon square Mercury and Sun. Hmmm...

posted September 16, 2014 04:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Based on what you wrote, I for one am afraid the charts (and in her case, with a missing birth time as well) cannot really help you answer those questions you asked because your common future is not set in stone, it depends on how you both handle the current situation.

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Thank you so much for your honest, balanced opinion in this. It's definitely true that right now she's not in a phase of mind to really commit to anybody and she's trying to figure herself out e.g. post-college employment, where she wants to live.

I definitely want to keep being her friend though, it definitely feels like a valuable friendship/kindredship and I don't want to let it go.