posted March 05, 2013 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:

Why would i be upset at society? Lol

His wife forbids him from seeing her.

He listens. I dont know what she threatened him with.

He use to bring her to his house all the time and she would play with her brothers.

His wife called my 4 year old a b@$t@rd once.

He use to contact me alot. We have a child. We would have to talk. We remained best friends after everything was over.

She found out he called me months ago and blew up.

Must have been very bad. We dont contact eachother like we use to anymore.

I spoke to him on the phone 2 months ago when he called. He wanted to know if i still loved him and seemed sad i have moved on with someone else.

Then he spoke to the baby.

Thats about it.

Saw him in court last week.

Will see him again in april.

Its not good for us to be alone together.

The attraction is intense.

My mars is in his 8th house.

We also have mars conjunct venus.

He is a scorpio/sag cusp, taurus moon, libra venus, and sag mars

I am gemini/cancer cusp, taurus moon, taurus venus,libra mars.

And yes i am still upset about it. I met him when i was 24.

I remember i got a psychic reading when i was 21. For free. She saw a tan skinned man dancing with a little girl. She said it wasnt a baby but a toddler ;(

Hes not a bad man we just met at the wrong time.

He treated me like a queen.

I was very sick when i was pregnant because i was a vegan and everything made me barf!

He took care of me very well.

I will never forget the first day we saw eachother.

He always said no matter what happened between us we would always have something that is a part of us.....the baby that we made with love.

*shrugs shoulders

Whatever

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It is just weird though...If I mean he loves you like you say,...why is he not leaving his wife to be with you? Venus pluto..? This isnt the midevil times, people do get divorces and stuff.

posted March 08, 2013 01:21 PM            

He wasn't Plutonian at all, though.
Very Airy/Uranian. So I can understand why *he* wasn't infatuated/obsessed. But I wasn't either, maybe because of his lack of.. passion.

He was Pluto and I was Venus.

But weird thing is that I know a guy whose Pluto conjuncts my Venus again, (a bit wide, 3°) and here... well it's the complete opposite. I was attracted to him in a weird way the moment I saw him. And we don't even really know each other.. My Pluto quincunxes his Venus, so we have a DW (even if it's a minor aspect).

posted March 08, 2013 01:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I had the Venus/Pluto conjunction with my ex and we weren't obsessed with each other at all. I thought it was quite odd, because I'm Plutonian myself but it just didn't happen.

He wasn't Plutonian at all, though.
Very Airy/Uranian. So I can understand why *he* wasn't infatuated/obsessed. But I wasn't either, maybe because of his lack of.. passion.

He was Pluto and I was Venus.

But weird thing is that I know a guy whose Pluto conjuncts my Venus again, (a bit wide, 3°) and here... well it's the complete opposite. I was attracted to him in a weird way the moment I saw him. And we don't even really know each other.. My Pluto quincunxes his Venus, so we have a DW (even if it's a minor aspect).

I'm not sure but I think when someone's not very Plutonian, the effect is less obvious. If otoh you get two Scorpios or Plutonians together *and* a Venus/Pluto aspect, especially a DW.. it's probably gonna be insane

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posted March 08, 2013 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by curious girl:
See, I was wondering about what it can be like when one´s Pluto is in 12th in their natal and it, say, conjuncts your Venus, but your Venus is prominent in your chart.

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posted March 08, 2013 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:

When someone's Venus falls in another's 12th house.. ugh things are bound to get complicated. The house person is usually quickly infatuated/mesmerized by the Venus person and has a hard time seeing them clearly, they can idealize them and love them from afar.. I don't really know if the Venus person feels anything at all, actually. They may be intrigued by the house person's reaction to them. But in your scenario, it gets tricky because if the Pluto person has it in their 12th and someone's Venus conjuncts it.. they'll probably feel it strongly, but they may want to keep their attraction/feelings secret for some reason.
And the Venus person... well I gues they could be attracted, too. Cause they're Venus and let's face it, the Venus person *usually* feels it more.

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posted March 08, 2013 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
The 12th house *in synastry*, often has this effect. I've had the experience several times. The planet person and/or the house person keep their feelings secret, and that's why it's usually difficult to get anything concrete from the connection. It's like an underlying connection but the individuals involved don't talk about/vocalize it.

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posted March 08, 2013 01:54 PM              

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
It is just weird though...If I mean he loves you like you say,...why is he not leaving his wife to be with you? Venus pluto..? This isnt the midevil times, people do get divorces and stuff.

Are you the venus person? Could you put up your charts?

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posted March 08, 2013 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by curious girl:
Is your 12th house empty? I think there is also a difference when you have planets there and when you don´t have planets there in natal. I can´t even describe my 12th, it´s empty.

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Yeah, my 12th is empty.
I think it's even more difficult cause I'm not really comfortable with that type of energy. I don't have a prominent Neptune, either. So it's like I wanna say something / initiate conversation with the planet person but there's a sort of invisible wall and I always have the impression that they feel awkward around me / don't wanna talk about "serious" things. So we end up talking about casualties and it's hard to ever talk about feelings / mutual liking and whatnot. I dunno. Weird stuff.

posted March 08, 2013 02:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Yeah, my 12th is empty.
I think it's even more difficult cause I'm not really comfortable with that type of energy. I don't have a prominent Neptune, either. So it's like I wanna say something / initiate conversation with the planet person but there's a sort of invisible wall and I always have the impression that they feel awkward around me / don't wanna talk about "serious" things. So we end up talking about casualties and it's hard to ever talk about feelings / mutual liking and whatnot. I dunno. Weird stuff.

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Yeah, definitely weird stuff. I happen to know a person who´s Sun is in my 7th and my Sun is in his 12th. According to what you describe I can understand there must be an ivisible wall he feels in my presence, while I take him for a partner. We have Mercuries conjunct but still don´t talk much. I am the one who always initiates the conversation, he never does.

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ETA: by the way, this happens with friends, too, sometimes. Not always.. I think it's easier with friends as long as there are no romantic feelings involved. But people with loaded 12th houses natally are very secretive / reserved. It's hard to get really close to them.[/B]

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posted March 08, 2013 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
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Wait...unless you have is accurate birth time....this will be fruitless. Do you have or can you get his accurate birth time?

Also, when you get his birth time also get his wife^s too.

The whole question is why he is with her....but as you say..in love with you. There has to be something holding him back or it could be that you see something there that might not be... : /

posted March 08, 2013 06:01 PM              

not gonna do it.

she is a taurus/gemini cusper all i know.

born in 1982

its been over for a long time. not looking to rekindle anything so please dont read it the charts that way.

i moved on to someone else.

was just sharing my experience with this aspect thats it.

his mom said he was born between 12pm-130pm

posted March 09, 2013 01:54 AM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
I always seem to be attracted to ppl who we have venus-pluto aspects or ppl who have natal venus-pluto conjuntion - It's either my venus square their pluto or my pluto-mars conjunct their venu-pluto conjunction or my venus square their venus-pluto conjunction etc..

I think i am attracted to obssessive love but that' ain't healthy. I've learnt to slow down.. and that's so difficult cos I'm a leo with tons of planets and asteroids in 1st house including mars-pluto-lilith.

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posted March 09, 2013 01:59 AM              

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Originally posted by 2pm:
I hate it!
My Pluto Scorpio Squares her Leo Venus on Synastry, and this is my bestie/girl i am dating

She Appears in my dreams. Every Morning i always wake up thinking of her. When i do not get a reply back or call i get a little moody. For some reason i just want to go give her a bunch of flowers so she can acknowledged me more >_<. All in all i never felt this weak LOL

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Use to happen to me and my ex too. We use to dream about eachother alot

posted March 09, 2013 02:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Use to happen to me and my ex too. We use to dream about eachother alot

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posted March 09, 2013 04:18 PM            

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Originally posted by 2pm:
I hate it!
My Pluto Scorpio Squares her Leo Venus on Synastry, and this is my bestie/girl i am dating

She Appears in my dreams. Every Morning i always wake up thinking of her. When i do not get a reply back or call i get a little moody. For some reason i just want to go give her a bunch of flowers so she can acknowledged me more >_<. All in all i never felt this weak LOL

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posted March 09, 2013 05:43 PM              

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Originally posted by moonlightx:
I've experienced the same thing. I'm the Venus however.

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I am the venus too.

I never told him i would dream about him.

He did tell me once that im always in his dreams.