posted October 03, 2014 01:11 PM            

I am new in this forum so I would really appreciate valuable insights with regard to me and my husband's synastry and composite charts! We fell in love instantly and we felt extremely compatible but recently we had been encountering lots of arguments when it comes to our values and belief systems. I read it somewhere that synastry and composite charts could help understand our differences... so I already ran the charts but I find it hard to understand and so confusing... If anyone could run our charts again, I would gladly give the details. Any help would be much appreciated!

Thank you!!!

posted October 04, 2014 12:51 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Please take a look here on how to generate and post charts
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/001006.html

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Hi LeeLoo2014! Thank you for the instructions! I finally generated our synastry chart! Here it is:

posted October 04, 2014 03:55 AM            

How long have you been married?

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posted October 04, 2014 01:09 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I see your husband's Moon Venus sq (Saturn included) entirely unaspected by your chart. Venus rules his 2nd house (values and beliefs), Moon rules his DSC (best partner for him). Plus, they are both in relationship/fixed houses and signs. With this placement, your husband probably has rather traditional values and beliefs, he is a good family guy, very intense, fixed, suitable for a leading position. He also needs a very intense and active sex life. Changing the above in him is unlikely, so things between you should work out if you appreciate these qualities in a man.

How long have you been married?

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Thank you for the helpful insight! I have to agree with all of what you said right there! Between us, I can say that I'm more flexible to certain situations and I tend to compromise a lot which is totally his opposite. I'm just wondering though if those unaspected planets affect the stability of our relationship in some way? We have been married for three years already though it's quite a rocky road!

Do we have strong aspects in our synastry? Does our chart imply a long-lasting marriage? �

Oh btw, I generated another synastry chart in astrotheme.com and it shows another aspects, maybe some aspects missing in the first chart? If you don't mind to take a look, here it is:
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posted October 04, 2014 03:32 PM            

Do we have strong aspects in our synastry? Does our chart imply a long-lasting marriage?

Oh btw, I generated another synastry chart in astrotheme.com and it shows other aspects, maybe some aspects missing in the first chart? If you don't mind to take a look, here it is:

Thank you!

posted October 05, 2014 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm afraid astrotheme charts are a bit unreadable for me. Could you also post an astro com composite?

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Oh I see, no worries!!!
Here is our composite chart:

Hmm?

posted October 05, 2014 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
the synastry and composite are actually good. you could have done worse when picking a husband :-) i would read up a lot on his moon sign (scorpio). your moon and his aren't the most compatible and perhaps some misunderstandings are a result of that. your mercury signs (communication) are well-placed as are the venus signs. the house overlays do suggest this is a more passionate relationship that was maybe based on an initial friendship or common interest in travel, cultures, etc. the chart doesn't scream 'marriage' by its aspects, but there is enough here to have led to it and you have enough to work with :-)

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Thank you for taking the time to give an insightful response starmoon! You're right about our moon signs, I have trouble dealing with his emotions most of the time... and as a Leo moon, I crave his attention and affection which rubs him the wrong way being a Scorpio moon, secretive and all that. We have a lot of mutual interests on almost all aspects as you've mentioned, it's just that sometimes I find it hard to read him. We have conflicting beliefs and views on certain matters that stir deep anxieties in me. Hmm, I'm quite saddened to know that our chart doesn't scream "marriage" as we felt we had that "you're-the-one-for-me" feeling right from the start... but I came here to learn what I should know, so I'll just have to deal with it.