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Topic: Divorce or not?
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fotto
Newflake Posts: 7
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 05, 2014 01:44 AM
  
 Dont know what to do with a mostly depressed husband who wont admit he's depressed and two small kids. I "think" we love each other but the relationship has always been hard for us. But we cant let go either. Ay insight will be highly appreciated.
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LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 6676
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 05, 2014 06:44 AM
Hello! The chart has expired. Try to upload it in tinypic and copy the "IMG link for forums"here. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
VestaFlake
Knowflake Posts: 81
From: 5th house
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 05, 2014 09:50 AM
oo another Turkish user 
Obviously I'll respond in English.
Since you see him as depressed, I would suggest get both yours and your husband's progressed natals together with your current transits.Especially, transits may shed light on depression you are talking about. IP: Logged |
fotto
Newflake Posts: 7
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 05, 2014 02:16 PM
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Originally posted by VestaFlake:
oo another Turkish user
Obviously I'll respond in English.
Since you see him as depressed, I would suggest get both yours and your husband's progressed natals together with your current transits.Especially, transits may shed light on depression you are talking about.
This is his natal and progressed chart:  And this is mine: 
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fotto
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted October 05, 2014 04:03 PM
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VestaFlake
Knowflake Posts: 81
From: 5th house
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 05, 2014 06:04 PM
progressions are good but what I meant was natal charts with transits. I have entered the birth info and took a quick look to your husband's transits. He has been having uranus on his descendant for 3-4 years now. He may be in a state which he questions his close relationships a lot. Plus, his transitting pluto conjuncts with his IC (4th house, home)thus opposing his MC (10th house, career. He also may be having problems regarding work. Here pluto is calling him for transformation. Change is not always bad, if he can take it from the good side, he may embrace great insight about his life. But he has to embrace the change coming for him.Still, your question was about divorce. Since having IC and DSC in stressed transits I would say there is a possibility of it. Many people have experienced divorce in such transits but (there are tons of stories like this on the internet, my humble opininon is; don't get carried away with these stories), some others did not. Your progressed composite has saturn conjunct DSC so that's a good aspect for longetivity.
Your transitting Jupiter on IC suggests that you may made concrete changes in your living area. You may either improve the condition of your house, change it etc. Still, jupiter gives you this energy to take care of household matters and your inner home. How do these relate to you? IP: Logged |
fotto
Newflake Posts: 7
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posted October 06, 2014 03:16 AM
Tesekkurler VestaFlake. What you say is really true in a lot of aspects. He is stressed due to work and recently got on more responsibilities, sort of like a promotion and that made his condition worse in my opinion. Uranus transit makes a lot of sense but in that case a bit unfortunate since we have been married for 5 years anyway. When does it end? he has a lot of growing up to do which can also be a part of this transit.
My Jupiter on IC is also true, I have more energy and the willpower to change things more than ever. Including starting a new study which I hope will eventually become my profession leaving behind my current one.
I do understand that transits have a lot of effect. From the start, we both had "this is different" feeling even though we both weren't really relationship people and went through a lot of rough patches and somehow made it. Does that relate to the longevity you were mentioning?
His Leo ego won't even bring him close to admitting there is a problem with him. And does his Pisces moon make it worse? I have read that Pisces is prone to depression.TIA IP: Logged |
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