posted October 09, 2014 04:30 PM
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Originally posted by ShySweetiee:
My boyfriend and I have a Moon square Saturn double whammy and his Saturn also squares my Sun. Though I didn't feel it much at first, 8 months later it has manifested as a lot of emotional distancing. Sometimes I feel like there's a wall between us that's preventing us from being ourselves towards each other and being able to express our emotions and affections.Can this emotional distancing be worked out? Has anyone been able to work out saturn hard aspects in their relationships for the better? I would be really appreciative if anyone has any advice!
My saturn square my boyfriends venus and sun, and his saturn trine my sun.
To begin with everything was fine, then we had a period of "coldness" that I felt came from him, but then it kinda turned, and not so long ago he actually told me that I can come of as quit "cold" and not showing him enough love. I guess this must be my saturn that somehows prevent me from just kissing and hugging him all the time! Since he said so, it has gotten better though, and we are very caring/lovable towards each other. Always holding hands, kissing, hugging etc.
I think our moon/asc double whammy helps a lot in this, and our close moon opp. venus. These are the kinds of aspect to make people be really caring towards each other.
Do you have some moon/venus/sun/ascendant aspect in synastry? These will counter act on saturn I believe
I do think the moon square saturn is one of the more difficult ones, maybe even more than saturn square venus, but the important thing is just to be able to talk about your feelings… don't be afraid to open up and tell about how you feel, that is always good in any relationship!