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Topic: Moon square Mars- who feels the sex more?
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Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 60 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 20, 2014 01:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: It's really not that simple hey.Generally,I think the Moon person is likely to feel the intensity of the attraction more. Mars acts on instinct whilst the Moon internalizes feelings- which means that they can linger on for longer. But again,it is not always as simple as that. As the Moon in Aries/Mars in Cancer are not likely to subscribe to their Moon/Mars placements. Aries Moon people are quick to act and don't linger(provided that there isn't a Mercury/Saturn/Pluto/Venus challenging aspect to deal with) Mars in Cancer tends to internalize and react emotionally(provided that there isn't a Uranus/Jupiter/Saturn challenging aspect to contend with) So a Moon in Aries squaring someone's Mars in Cancer may work in reverse. You may find that it is the Moon person whose feelings are not likely to linger as long as the Mars individual. It is also likely that the role of the "pursuer" may be reversed; the Moon person will be the one who goes after the Mars person. If the male is Mars in Cancer, the woman with Moon in Aries will seem to be the one who wears the proverbial "pants" in the relationship. I have Mars in Libra with sextile aspect to Jupiter and no challenging aspects with other planets.So my Mars in Libra is pretty comfortable being passive. If someone has their Moon in Aries/Capricorn ,they would more likely be the ones who seem "in charge" of the relationship. But who would feel the attraction more? I would. Libra Mars sits on the fence for a LOOONG time before acting on anything.
What about a mans moon in Libra squaring a women's moon in Cancer?
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Thermidor Knowflake Posts: 83 From: France Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 20, 2014 03:57 PM
And what about a woman's moon in Capricorn and a man's mars in Aries ? ^^IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 3179 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 20, 2014 04:13 PM
Very generally speaking, I would say moon. Moon is receptive and Mars is sex.
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theunknown Knowflake Posts: 1362 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 20, 2014 06:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Thermidor: And what about a woman's moon in Capricorn and a man's mars in Aries ? ^^
Ha! I can see Cap moon being very entertained by the fact that Aries mars is straightforward and brave but the Cap moon would also be critical of the Aries mars as childish...(I'm thinking of several cap moons I know lol) IP: Logged |
Thermidor Knowflake Posts: 83 From: France Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 01:36 AM
But can you confirm Cap moon is attracted to Aries mars (and sexually ?) ?IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4631 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted October 21, 2014 05:43 AM
Thermidor.. She threatened to call the University to have you fired. That is a very clear indication that she wants you to back off. I'm sorry - but you really need to take 'no' for an answer and move on.We can't 'confirm' that Capricorn Moon would be attracted to Aries Mars - because people are different. Not every Capricorn Moon person will be attracted to every Aries Mars. The square aspect can play out in different ways. My own Moon is in Capricorn (although my Sun is Aries). I like Aries Mars men. I've never been strongly sexually attracted to one but I do like their energy. They're usually uplifting and put me in a good mood. I think this is because of the conjunction to my Sun though. The woman you mentioned has double earth influence with Sun in Taurus and Moon in Cap. She is probably too serious for your Aries-ness... Capricorn Moon can be heavy. They go through a lot of emotionally painful experiences.. so they need understanding and TLC, more than they need sex. IP: Logged |
CAY_512 Knowflake Posts: 618 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 22, 2014 01:19 PM
I always thought the Mars person feels the sexual attraction more. An opposition to my moon drives me crazy. I hate it. I can feel it immediately. They irritate the heck out of me. I haven't met anyone with their Mars conjunct my moon yet. I think I just had a Mars conjunct my moon transit. It made me more angry but haven't met a person with that Mars. My moon conjuncts my neptune. It is a super sensitive place in my chart. I blame that area for me being extremely sensitive. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 45827 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 22, 2014 11:11 PM
Moving on over to Interpersonal Astrology. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 1362 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 22, 2014 11:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Thermidor: But can you confirm Cap moon is attracted to Aries mars (and sexually ?) ?
Like Odette said, I doubt anyone with heavy cap influence or earth influence take aries mars/ placement seriously. These two signs might work out a little bit better if the cap moon is the man. I have aries moon singleton with heavy cap and even I don't appreciate aries people ... And really, your aries energy might make you feel stubborn now but it is for the better if you move on because capricorn energy is very restricting for Aries. And if a cap moon already says no, I bet you it's a serious no. I am surrounded by cap moons my entire life IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 1182 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 23, 2014 03:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini30: What about a mans moon in Libra squaring a women's moon in Cancer?
Interestingly I have Moon in Cancer/Mars in Libra exact square nataly.
It is quite tricky to consider only exclusive placements- as the rules change a lot when there are other energies involved. Generally Libra tends to take the game of love in their stride.Flirting a lot and really giving no sure sign as to whom their hearts truly belong. Cancer is a lot more evasive and careful with things that are heart-related. So unless they are very "sure" of their target, it is unlikely that much assertion will be seen coming from them. So the Moon in Libra man will flirt with the Mars in Cancer women. Often establishing the 1st rapport and contact. Cancer however has quite intense feelings, and if the Libra Moon man hits all the right buttons,she may get very comfortable with him sooner than anticipated and end up showing her more assertive side. The person with the lingering feelings is likely to be the Mars in Cancer person.Barring any hard contacts that the Moon in Libra man may have with Neptune/ Pluto,his feelings are likely to be less emotional and more detached. I think the issue here would be that the sexual attraction may be there,but it is often met with trepidation and/or fear. For one thing, the deep waters of Cancer disturb the more flighty "stay on the surface" charm of Libra. The man may find her response overwhelming and "intense". Cancer, on the other hand, may also have some reservations with the Moon in Libra man as his advances may seem very shallow, playful and even downright insincere. She really doesn't want to be "one of many" women that he charms. He can often be uncomfortable with her focused attention. Her stamina is greater than his however and she may very well take the "lead" in the bedroom. But the Moon in Libra has got to keep up with the passion of this women. And so, unless he has aspects with Mars/Pluto- she may very well be a little "too hot to handle" for him. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 1182 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 23, 2014 03:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Thermidor: And what about a woman's moon in Capricorn and a man's mars in Aries ? ^^
The woman who has Moon in Capricorn may very well be strongly attracted to the Mars in Aries male. But she may postpone/deny/ suppress the attraction -as it may stir within her uncomfortable feelings of sexual lust and uncontrollable passion. It is one thing that the Capricorn Moon woman(like her Scorpio Moon sister)will never want to be and that is,looking like she can't control herself. She will also "talk" down the attraction in her head by saying "but he is so immature", "such a He-man in everything", "so brutish and foolish" etc. The Mars in Aries man can see this woman as the "ultimate" conquest/challenge. Her cool and chilly demeanor will not faze him and will only serve to intrigue him; "what great passions there must be locked away under all that" he says to himself. The Aries Mars male will be convinced that he is just the man to "unleash" them. This man won't have an easy time seducing this woman however.Unless he can convince her that he does have some common sense and self-restraint.Traits that can be brought in with Saturn sitting on personal planets or some Cap placements(Asc,Sun,Mercury,Venus) But even if they were to get "down and dirty". Unless the Moon in Cap woman has Aries/Scorpio/Pisces placements or Mars/Pluto/Neptune aspects to the Moon, I don't see her completely letting her hair down. She may look at her carnal desires as something "necessary to do" than an adventure. And he may never get to see her go "wild". IP: Logged |
CuteLucy Newflake Posts: 9 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 04:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by CAY_512:
An opposition to my moon drives me crazy. I hate it. I can feel it immediately. They irritate the heck out of me. I haven't met anyone with their Mars conjunct my moon yet. I think I just had a Mars conjunct my moon transit. It made me more angry but haven't met a person with that Mars.
I have my moon conjunct (in cancer) his mars in synastry very closely (1°) also with venus and i feel attraction but i don't know if he feels that too. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 7124 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 23, 2014 03:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: The woman who has Moon in Capricorn may very well be strongly attracted to the Mars in Aries male. But she may postpone/deny/ suppress the attraction -as it may stir within her uncomfortable feelings of sexual lust and uncontrollable passion. It is one thing that the Capricorn Moon woman(like her Scorpio Moon sister)will never want to be and that is,looking like she can't control herself. She will also "talk" down the attraction in her head by saying "but he is so immature", "such a He-man in everything", "so brutish and foolish" etc. The Mars in Aries man can see this woman as the "ultimate" conquest/challenge. Her cool and chilly demeanor will not faze him and will only serve to intrigue him; "what great passions there must be locked away under all that" he says to himself. The Aries Mars male will be convinced that he is just the man to "unleash" them. This man won't have an easy time seducing this woman however.Unless he can convince her that he does have some common sense and self-restraint.Traits that can be brought in with Saturn sitting on personal planets or some Cap placements(Asc,Sun,Mercury,Venus) But even if they were to get "down and dirty". Unless the Moon in Cap woman has Aries/Scorpio/Pisces placements or Mars/Pluto/Neptune aspects to the Moon, I don't see her completely letting her hair down. She may look at her carnal desires as something "necessary to do" than an adventure. And he may never get to see her go "wild".
What are you saying?? Caps are wild, they are the Goat - the Wild Goat, the Satyr, Pan etc. It's a very animalistic sign. Much wilder and more sensual and dirtier than any Aries out there. ------------------
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Nine Moderator Posts: 2044 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted October 23, 2014 05:28 PM
Who feels it more? Probably Mars, because he's the God of passion. Logic dictates if you're chasing something it's because you're attracted and if you're running away you're not interested.I have this currently with someone in a DW. I'm Moon in Sag, them Mars in Virgo. Physically they're not my type and I don't lust for them, but I was willing to see where things go. In short order they irritated me. I dropped the whole idea quickly and stopped showing up where I knew they would be. On the other hand, I'm Mars in Taurus, them Moon in Scorpio. I would like to think I'm pretty straight forward when I'm interested. Generally I'm really attracted to MOS, upon first contact I get a rush of sexual energy. Nothing here. Perhaps the above mentioned square cooled things. It's cliche but I wasn't ready for the games - hints then a recant. Or they would suggest something when I wasn't in the mood. When I was in the mood they didn't want to talk about it, or the feeling had passed. After I gave up they found me, this proves genuine interest, but I was spent. Not going to happen. IP: Logged |
sis Knowflake Posts: 324 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted October 23, 2014 07:01 PM
I have moon square mars with the guy I have been having an affair with for 5 years.He is the Virgo moon, I am Sag Mars. Yes, we constantly annoy each other. I am honest and me being blunt disturbs him. The sexual attraction is there, sex is good. I think we both feel it. The mooon leaves Mars chases; not true. at least in my case. Ir was him did not let me go. My Sag Mars sees Virgo Moon as an emotional adventure. But Virgo Moon is anxious about it. Maybe he does not see it practical enough. May be he finds Mars woman not comforting enough, a bit risky... It's a long affair with many aspects to it. I really think you can not understand the flavour an aspect gives the synastry without taking the others & natal into consideration. We have ( gem )moon sq moon / neptune as well. Along with positive aspects between moon-sun- mercury and pluto... '
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