posted October 28, 2014 10:32 PM            

For me it's been transiting since around the beginning of 2011 and I am on my 3rd boyfriend since then - essentially back to back - so getting into and being in relationships is not the issue, it's more or less a fear of the commitment marriage etc. brings, and a fear of making a mistake in the person I choose. Strange for me because I have none of the traditional aspects of being anti-commitment in my natal chart, in fact maybe quite the opposite. I crave that intensity and emotional bond and yet I always keep it at an arm's length, if that makes sense.

posted October 29, 2014 01:01 AM            

In that time, I:

- Was accepted into the FBI, but, diagnosed with FMS, and saddled with a crazy 6-year duration background check (TS clearance for Pentagon work; I was going National Security Division) chose instead to consider a different career path, which inevitably led me to Hollywood -- and a private practise (therapy).

- Started seeing, and then moved in with, an emotional predator for a relationship from hell which I finally left four years later (2007, November).

- Met the man who would later become my husband; we worked together in 2006.

- Casually dated, for about a year, mostly focussed upon exploring a relationship with my Twin (long distance; neither of us could commit, and thus, no one moved, and both never made any real attempt at it solidifying).

- Started a long distance relationship with my husband, then boyfriend, who had moved to Los Angeles a few months prior.

- Moved to Los Angeles.

- Stalked by emotional predator ex; domestic violence / stalking case opened with restraining order awarded. (November 2008-February 2009.)

- Moved to another apartment; (Palms, California.)

- Met my Guardian Soulmate AND my Twin (vis-a-vis, for the first time) March 2010.

- Began relationship with my Guardian from May to November 2010.

- Moved to another apartment; (Venice, California.)

- Married my husband in December 2010.

- Relationship resumed with my Guardian, April to October 2011.

- Twin and I tried to give it another go while developing TV series project we'd created together 2006-2008, from January 2012-January 2013; a year almost to the week.

- Relationship with Guardian resumed, again, October 2013.

- Remain (mostly, but not 'officially') estranged from Twin. Too emotionally volatile a relationship; it continues in fits and starts, not to resume on anything but a platonic level.

posted October 29, 2014 08:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Let's see. About August 2005 is when mine started, lasting until around the same time last year, give or take a month.

In that time, I:

- Was accepted into the FBI, but, diagnosed with FMS, and saddled with a crazy 6-year duration background check (TS clearance for Pentagon work; I was going National Security Division) chose instead to consider a different career path, which inevitably led me to Hollywood -- and a private practise (therapy).

- Started seeing, and then moved in with, an emotional predator for a relationship from hell which I finally left four years later (2007, November).

- Met the man who would later become my husband; we worked together in 2006.

- Casually dated, for about a year, mostly focussed upon exploring a relationship with my Twin (long distance; neither of us could commit, and thus, no one moved, and both never made any real attempt at it solidifying).

- Started a long distance relationship with my husband, then boyfriend, who had moved to Los Angeles a few months prior.

- Moved to Los Angeles.

- Stalked by emotional predator ex; domestic violence / stalking case opened with restraining order awarded. (November 2008-February 2009.)

- Moved to another apartment; (Palms, California.)

- Met my Guardian Soulmate AND my Twin (vis-a-vis, for the first time) March 2010.

- Began relationship with my Guardian from May to November 2010.

- Moved to another apartment; (Venice, California.)

- Married my husband in December 2010.

- Relationship resumed with my Guardian, April to October 2011.

- Twin and I tried to give it another go while developing TV series project we'd created together 2006-2008, from January 2012-January 2013; a year almost to the week.

- Relationship with Guardian resumed, again, October 2013.

- Remain (mostly, but not 'officially') estranged from Twin. Too emotionally volatile a relationship; it continues in fits and starts, not to resume on anything but a platonic level.

And there's a snapshot of it all.

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Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds like a lot of ups and downs but it eventually settled down? How do you know your husband was the man you were to marry?

posted October 29, 2014 08:55 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
What does it rule in your chart and what is its position?: aspects, house etc.

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Uranus rules Aquarius right? I don't have any planets in Aquarius, but Uranus would rule my 5th house. It's in my 3rd house.

Here is my chart if that is easier:

posted October 29, 2014 09:46 AM            

When it was still in my 6th House forming a conjunction with my cusp, I VERY quickly married my husband and within a year (not even a year) I wanted a divorce. I have really struggled with this transit in my marriage because all I REALLY want is freedom to just do whatever the heck my little heart desires, and to love all the weird people, and to just have a NON traditional relationship (actually no relationship at all to be honest, I really want to be alone). However I am a mom who stays at home with her 3 year old, while my husband works, it doesn't get any more traditional "relationship wise" than that! Thankfully my "work" is astrology and shamanic journeying so I'm able to be unconventional and feed the Uranian burn in some way!

Now to be honest, I really needed this transit because I have a pattern of co-dependency in relationships. Uranus just BLEW the doors off of that one. I don't EVER see myself being co-dependent again, or looking for validation in a relationship. However I have found (as Uranus closes it's lessons in this house), that I am able to balance the sudden fierce independent streak this transit gifted me with IN my marriage. I am also blessed to have a husband who supports my unconventional self. The grand fire trine really burned down some long time friendships as well, I'm no longer close friends with the same people I was friends with at the beginning of this transit. I would safely say only 2 people remain close to me out of a handful of people. I also have found I don't really "need" relationships like I did before. It's hard to explain.

I also found in this transit my absolute love for Aquarians. I adore this sign/energy (holla at the Aquarians!!) - I have made MANY Aquarius friends throughout this transit and have found people influenced by Aquarius in their charts (even Venus in Aquarius) to be really awesome. These are the friends to have during a Uranus 7th House transit!

I have a Natal 3rd House Uranus, and like I said right now it is making a trine with transiting Uranus. When it formed this trine, it was as if my mind was MASSIVELY downloaded. I have advanced "spiritually" or within my own discipline leaps and bounds. I feel very inventive mentally, but my mind is very difficult to tame, it's like a wild animal right about now!

EDIT - This is legit what my mind feels like at times. Like Animal from the Muppet Show but meditating lol.....

posted October 29, 2014 09:55 AM            

Additionally, my natal 3rd House Uranus squares my Natal Sun in the 12th. So right now tUranus trines nUranus which Squares my Sun. I've got a lot of Uranus aggravating my Mutable Virgo Earth Sun, but this mutable adaptable natal Uranus is facilitating this energy nicely between the two I think. I see this particular square aggravation as the tension before something happens. Like you have to scrape the match against the box to make the flame. The square is like the scratching.