posted November 06, 2014 04:44 AM            

What happens when you both have this aspect to each other?

In my case,
My Mars conjuncts my partner's Saturn. (Libra)
His Mars conjuncts my Saturn. (Virgo)

posted November 06, 2014 03:38 PM            

Basically, he was impulsive, but not in the ways I wanted. He would overspend, be very sexually aggressive, and just downright irritating. I always felt very Saturn-ish around him. I was always having to tell him to stop doing something, because his impulsive behaviors were destroying things. We were trying to save money, and he would go out and buy a big screen TV. And of course, if I told him not to, he would either figure out a way to convince me or I'd have to watch him sulk about it for weeks, making me feel like the bad guy.

He was far too interested in sex with me for my taste. Not that that's always a bad thing, but I don't enjoy sex if I'm having it too much, and he would want to have it every day. And if he didn't get it, he would sulk.

posted November 06, 2014 03:53 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
I've dated someone where his mars was trine my saturn, but it felt like a hard aspect...probably because he has a really afflicted Mars. Permission to speak? lol.

Basically, he was impulsive, but not in the ways I wanted. He would overspend, be very sexually aggressive, and just downright irritating. I always felt very Saturn-ish around him. I was always having to tell him to stop doing something, because his impulsive behaviors were destroying things. We were trying to save money, and he would go out and buy a big screen TV. And of course, if I told him not to, he would either figure out a way to convince me or I'd have to watch him sulk about it for weeks, making me feel like the bad guy.

He was far too interested in sex with me for my taste. Not that that's always a bad thing, but I don't enjoy sex if I'm having it too much, and he would want to have it every day. And if he didn't get it, he would sulk.

I feel like even in easy aspect this can mean that Saturn views Mars as childish and out of control, and Mars views Saturn as a big wet blanket.

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I'm curious...what does Saturn do in your chart? What about his? What house does your Saturn overlay? Do you have an aspect between your Marses and where are your Marses, sign and house?

posted November 06, 2014 04:08 PM            

Sexually speaking re: my current relationship, my drive is probably slightly higher than his, and I am left wanting to jump his bones more often than I actually end up jumping his bones. It's hard to initiate sex when your boyfriend is dead to the world (sleeping very soundly).

posted November 06, 2014 04:13 PM            

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What happens when you both have this aspect to each other?

In my case,
My Mars conjuncts my partner's Saturn. (Libra)
His Mars conjuncts my Saturn. (Virgo)

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I actually think this is a great sign (it's a double whammy) because it shows that you both feel a responsibility for each other. It depends on how each person expresses their Saturn/Mars, but if you've both got it, there's a balance there, where there wouldn't be otherwise.

Saturn at its worst is judgmental, rather than constructive. It might be a good thing to keep in mind.

posted November 06, 2014 04:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:

Saturn at its worst is judgmental, rather than constructive. It might be a good thing to keep in mind.

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I liked this, about Saturn being restrictive/judgmental/a cold blanket as its negative side and constructive/supportive/protective as its positive side. I think this is how it works.

My parents have Mars sq Saturn DW and there has been no coldness between them or problems with intimacy, as my mother says.

posted November 06, 2014 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I liked this, about Saturn being restrictive/judgmental/a cold blanket as its negative side and constructive/supportive/protective as its positive side. I think this is how it works.

My parents have Mars sq Saturn DW and there has been no coldness between them or problems with intimacy, as my mother says.

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I think this sounds great because a lot of people really fear Saturn, and don't realize that he has a good side, too. Some people can handle a lot of Saturn and others just don't have that many Saturn aspects.

posted November 06, 2014 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm curious...what does Saturn do in your chart? What about his? What house does your Saturn overlay? Do you have an aspect between your Marses and where are your Marses, sign and house?

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posted November 07, 2014 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Mars/Saturn is generally a good aspect in marital synastries, regardless the aspect, a DW even better. But it requires for both partners to have this archetype positively integrated within themselves: Mars/Saturn means work, combining action with discipline, initiative with restraint etc. It's a good aspect for long-term sexuality.

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posted November 07, 2014 05:02 AM            

How it effect your relationship anyway?

I must ask because if either of you , doesn't get use to the saturn energy on Mars , it can be very uncomfortable to the rooftop

Then , how this only aspect show in your relationship ,it depend on the rest of both chart. If individual has mars contact saturn , maybe it is not too difficult to handles.

I want to give you example, I have moon square saturn , saturn conjunct sun in natals . So my partner has his saturn conjunct my Moon ! But I could live with that , atleast it last like 7 years . Then , last relationship , my-ex has his saturn square my mars . I can't stay in this relationship , although everythings in the chart is so smooth but only this aspect I just can't . Because I have a powerfull mars . My mars conjunct uranus in scorpio , and this conjuct sextile jupiter and AC . No One can mest with my mars

posted November 07, 2014 06:20 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:


My only saturn aspect is jupiter opposite saturn.
My saturn is in my seventh house.
No aspect between our Mars. I have my Mars in cancer in the twelfth (and in his fourth house), he has his mars in Gemini in his fourth house (and my eleventh house).

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Well, this makes you very saturnian as a partner and it also means you need a saturnian partner. Was he? Did you have sexual compatibility aspects? Mars to Venus, Mars to Moon, Sun/Moon, 5th/8th/1st/2nd rulers, 1st 2nd 8th 5th overlays?

posted November 07, 2014 10:12 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Well, this makes you very saturnian as a partner and it also means you need a saturnian partner. Was he? Did you have sexual compatibility aspects? Mars to Venus, Mars to Moon, Sun/Moon, 5th/8th/1st/2nd rulers, 1st 2nd 8th 5th overlays?

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His first house ruler (Neptune) is conjunct my Uranus, and square my sun.
His fifth house ruler (moon) is conjunct my Jupiter, quintile my Venus, semi-sextile my mars, opposite my saturn and conjunct my ascendant.
His seventh house ruler (mercury) is trine my Uranus.
His eighth house ruler (Venus) is quintile my Pluto and semi-square my ascendant.
Also my ascendant falls in his fifth house.

My first house ruler (moon) is square his sun and conjunct his Uranus.
My fifth house ruler (Pluto) is sextile his sun, sextile his saturn, is quintile his Venus and semi-square his Uranus.
My seventh house ruler (saturn) is trine his mars, opposite his Jupiter, sesquiquadrate his sun, opposite his moon, semi-sextile his ascendant, and semi-sextile his Uranus.
My eighth house ruler (Uranus) is sextile his Pluto, trine his mercury, and conjunct his saturn.
Also his ascendant falls in my eighth house.

My Venus is also trine his sun and my mars is trine his ascendant. The only aspect we have between his moon and my mars is the semi-sextile. We have my Venus opposite his Pluto (I have it natally and he's born within the same year) and his Venus is quintile my Pluto as I mentioned above. We also have the asteroid Eros squaring each other's sun.

posted December 19, 2014 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
This is one of those which can go either way. The closer the aspect, the stronger the impact will obviously be. Everything depends upon which houses are ruled, in which ones they're placed, and how each planet is positioned natally.

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Auby,
I have this aspect currently with someone and let me tell you its exact! omg and its one way I'm the mars and she's the saturn gooooddd i feel like I'm the one mostly wanting to engage intimately than her buuut we both have mars signs as in we both have mars in capricorn and both of our natals are cardinal heavy (lots of capricorn/taurus). should this play out fine?? how can i manage this mars conjoint saturn??

posted December 20, 2014 08:56 PM            

Not considering of coarse ALL the other aspects that would be in the chart too.

posted December 21, 2014 01:39 AM            

Just to make it more interesting...
Her Sat, his Mars conj my Sun
His Sat, her Mars conj my Venus and NN

posted December 21, 2014 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
It means that the main thing that keeps you together is the sex.

Not considering of coarse ALL the other aspects that would be in the chart too.

Barring all other chart considerations- this conjunction can denote a relationship of **** buddies who remain **** buddies for a LONG time rather than the usual short time span or one to two night stands that might've otherwise occured between the two. Can be a good or bad configuration depending on other factors.

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yeah I'm actually not sex buddies with my partner but to give you a clue we both have saturn conjunct mars(me) in synastry which falls in the 3rd house. her saturn falls in the 3rd house and my mars falls in 3rd house as well....could this mean clash on communication? or engaging conversations??