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Topic: Why is he so slow to act?
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moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1879 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 15, 2014 07:54 AM
He's outside. I feel like he's slow in general, but I was curious if something in our synastry revealed anything. Maybe his chart alone could show why?And I'm open to anything else you notice. (His birth time is not exact) IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 7742 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 15, 2014 09:13 AM
No chart IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1879 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 15, 2014 09:17 AM
Haha oops! Just added itIP: Logged |
Enneline Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 15, 2014 09:47 AM
his mars seems to be quite unaspected. That could be the reason. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 7742 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 15, 2014 10:17 AM
It's possible he sees you like a friend EDIT: No TOB? Hard to tell then... The aspects are not very romantic for him. Your Mars sq his Venus and his Venus on your Pluto make you impatient and ntensly attracted. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1879 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 15, 2014 11:38 AM
No attraction on his part? Hmmm LeeLoo you've said that about a few of the synastry charts I've posted lately lol
Guess I'm not meeting the right types then if they're all by attracted to me?? They all initiate though so idk IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 7742 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 15, 2014 12:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: They all initiate though so idk
Are you sure? Anyway, you can see the difference between that tense sq with your Mars/Pluto vs the mars/Jupiter sextile?? ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1879 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 15, 2014 12:54 PM
No I totally made that up........He's been onto me since last February but acts debilitated which was the reason for starting the thread It wasn't about attraction... I know he's attracted to me IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1486 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 15, 2014 03:25 PM
maybe just blame his moon and mars signs. his moon is cancer, same as many of your planets. they aren't exactly known for being go-getters and as an aries moon and leo mars you might like assertive types a bit more. his pace might just be slow. and aqua (any placement really) are more interested in establishing a friendship with someone before they even express interest and the friendship building can take years :-) you have a lot of cancer yourself, make him a nice plate of brownies or something and see if that moves him along.IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 7742 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 15, 2014 05:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by moonstruck87: No I totally made that up........He's been onto me since last February but acts debilitated which was the reason for starting the thread It wasn't about attraction... I know he's attracted to me
That's not what I meant. More like what starmoon said. A combination of the fact that you may be projecting him "initiating" things the way you view "initiating" while he's actually receptive to your direct/assertive energy which is obvious from the synastry + the fact that what you perceive as slow for him is a normal or even fast rhythm. Starmoon explained it better Anyway, he does have Sun sq Mars himself, but that sq is not stimulated for him in this synastry. I was just trying to offer my explanation for the situation you describe, which is pretty obvious from the synastry, in fact. It doesn't mean you wouldn't get along eventually. ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
moonstruck87 Knowflake Posts: 1879 From: USA Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 15, 2014 07:13 PM
Thank you both starmoon and LeeLoo for your feedbackLeeLoo, I'm curious how to see if an aspect, like his Sun sq Mars that you mentioned, is or isn't aspected in synastry? IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2097 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted November 16, 2014 04:19 AM
quote: No attraction on his part? Hmmm LeeLoo you've said that about a few of the synastry charts I've posted lately lol
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