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moonstruck87
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posted November 15, 2014 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's outside. I feel like he's slow in general, but I was curious if something in our synastry revealed anything. Maybe his chart alone could show why?

And I'm open to anything else you notice. (His birth time is not exact)

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 15, 2014 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No chart

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moonstruck87
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posted November 15, 2014 09:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha oops! Just added it

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Enneline
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posted November 15, 2014 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
his mars seems to be quite unaspected. That could be the reason.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 15, 2014 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's possible he sees you like a friend

EDIT: No TOB? Hard to tell then... The aspects are not very romantic for him. Your Mars sq his Venus and his Venus on your Pluto make you impatient and ntensly attracted.

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moonstruck87
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posted November 15, 2014 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No attraction on his part? Hmmm


LeeLoo you've said that about a few of the synastry charts I've posted lately lol

Guess I'm not meeting the right types then if they're all by attracted to me?? They all initiate though so idk

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 15, 2014 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
They all initiate though so idk

Are you sure?

Anyway, you can see the difference between that tense sq with your Mars/Pluto vs the mars/Jupiter sextile??

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moonstruck87
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posted November 15, 2014 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No I totally made that up........

He's been onto me since last February but acts debilitated which was the reason for starting the thread
It wasn't about attraction... I know he's attracted to me

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starmoon
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posted November 15, 2014 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
maybe just blame his moon and mars signs. his moon is cancer, same as many of your planets. they aren't exactly known for being go-getters and as an aries moon and leo mars you might like assertive types a bit more. his pace might just be slow. and aqua (any placement really) are more interested in establishing a friendship with someone before they even express interest and the friendship building can take years :-) you have a lot of cancer yourself, make him a nice plate of brownies or something and see if that moves him along.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 15, 2014 05:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
No I totally made that up........

He's been onto me since last February but acts debilitated which was the reason for starting the thread
It wasn't about attraction... I know he's attracted to me


That's not what I meant. More like what starmoon said. A combination of the fact that you may be projecting him "initiating" things the way you view "initiating" while he's actually receptive to your direct/assertive energy which is obvious from the synastry + the fact that what you perceive as slow for him is a normal or even fast rhythm. Starmoon explained it better

Anyway, he does have Sun sq Mars himself, but that sq is not stimulated for him in this synastry.

I was just trying to offer my explanation for the situation you describe, which is pretty obvious from the synastry, in fact. It doesn't mean you wouldn't get along eventually.

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moonstruck87
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posted November 15, 2014 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you both starmoon and LeeLoo for your feedback

LeeLoo, I'm curious how to see if an aspect, like his Sun sq Mars that you mentioned, is or isn't aspected in synastry?

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Nine
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posted November 16, 2014 04:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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No attraction on his part? Hmmm


LeeLoo you've said that about a few of the synastry charts I've posted lately lol


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