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Topic: What do you think of my matchmaking skills?
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Dancing Maenad
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posted November 21, 2014 01:39 PM
 
So, I decided to introduce Mr. Cap to my therapist. I think they could have a good thing, though the start might not be the best. I kinda like their charts, why not. She's also in her 40s, a few years older than him, also divorced, with 2 kids of her own (but all grown up), she is a much better match for him than I would have been (and even better said, than HE would have been for ME, ugh). I asked both about it, for now they seem reticent, but I think he will contact her.  I want to see everybody happy and in love and I care about both a lot. Opinions, criticism?  She's on the inside. Thank you in advance!
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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 21, 2014 01:52 PM
 aaaahhh so you gave up Mr Cap? ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted November 21, 2014 01:55 PM
Well we're still friends! It wouldn't have worked out, LeeLoo.. I know, such a shame because of those lovely charts. But reality says different. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 21, 2014 02:12 PM
They have some classic stuff here...just a quick glance for now...but apart from the Sun/Moon thing, I like that Mars/Mars coupled with Venus sq Venus and Venus trine Mars! That's a good one...like a dance ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted November 21, 2014 02:17 PM
I know, right? They really do seem to have a good thing, astrologically! I most loved the Venus-Saturn dw, trine and sextile. It dilutes the composite square. And what do you know.. a Venus-NN conjunction in the composite! Though that has not worked out for me, it doesn't mean it has no romantic value!I really hope they hit it off!  She will be much better equipped to handle him and his moods and he is smart and accomplished enough to get her interested.  I thought about it before, but I wanted to see how things went with him and me first. Now I know: friendzone! lol ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted November 21, 2014 02:27 PM
Just glanced at their progressions! Her prog Sun is applying to oppose his natal Venus! ~1 deg orb!The prog composite shows an applying Full Moon, as well as DC-Venus conjunction! 
She has an applying First Quarter and he has an applying Last Quarter! OMG!!
Woohoo! I would be so happy if this works out!!
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Dancing Maenad
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posted November 21, 2014 02:42 PM
Hmm.. potential red flags:
-Moon sq Moon
-his Uranus unaspected
-his Saturn opp her Mars
-Mars opp Mercury (hopefully leading to lots of make up sex  )
-her Uranus sq his Venus (but maybe it will be love at first sight!!)
Composite Venus in the 6th is kinda bleak, but maybe it would motivate them to work at it. I don't like Saturn on MC much.. Nor Mars in the 4th. But I like their aspects over all. Well, maybe they could have done without Sat opp Jup.. And so much strain on Venus.  ------------------
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YellowGerbera
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posted November 21, 2014 03:33 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Well we're still friends! It wouldn't have worked out, LeeLoo.. I know, such a shame because of those lovely charts. But reality says different.
Aww... I always have to remind myself this: the reality is different!! I daydream too much when I see awesome aspects in the charts - images flash in my head like cheesy chick flicks lolol! How wonderful would it be if the reality plays out exactly like what these aspects represnts... sigh... I don't know your history with this guy but that's very mature of you to do.. to match him up with your therapist.
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posted November 22, 2014 12:16 PM
Her Moon/DSC with his vertex and his Moon/MC are somehow crossing, on her mdp...so it's not just a simple square, IMO.
Also, in the composite they have a mighty Fixed cross, almost exact:
Nodal axis conjunct Venus squaring MC/IC with Saturn and Jupiter - very marital, IMO.
NN/Saturn square is a common marriage aspect.
Also, the presence of Jupiter on IC - a really blessed aspect, and of Saturn on MC (its rightful place) is perhaps the best combo with these two planets on comp MC/IC.
The composite mystic rectangle is present in very "high" relationships: whatever is between them, it will be in its highest form: it suggests intensity, but also harmony. In this case, there is strong harmony between Saturn and Jupiter energies, and the compulsion/obsession/desire for merging/strong love-hate with Sun/Moon to Pluto; Pluto rules IC, so this would be a very intense relationship. Jupiter on IC would amplify everything Pluto means here. Saturn rules the 5th house, disp by Venus conj NN - their love would be very Cap-like, very stable, plus Saturn conj MC - their future - only love or art would make them be and stay together. NN is also ruled by Saturn, as sec ruler. Neptune DSc ruler trine Moon, with Neptune in the 4th ruling 11th probably gives a very dreamy, devoted, maybe religious or philantropic quality to the relationship or a strong psychic connection. Maybe a bit impractical too. I suppose a purely platonic connection is possible with this too, since 8th house is also in Pisces. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted November 23, 2014 03:41 PM
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Aww... I always have to remind myself this: the reality is different!! I daydream too much when I see awesome aspects in the charts - images flash in my head like cheesy chick flicks lolol! How wonderful would it be if the reality plays out exactly like what these aspects represnts... sigh... I don't know your history with this guy but that's very mature of you to do.. to match him up with your therapist.
Haha yeah, you have no idea how many nice synastries I watched go down the drain.. Oh well. Thank you though! ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted November 23, 2014 03:43 PM
Thank you, LeeLoo for the analysis. I'll comment later, feeling kinda under the bridge now. Well, you knew that, but it was impolite not to reply after your very lovely response. ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted December 31, 2014 04:32 AM
Update: a month and a half later, he still has not made any moves. He likes her and she can't stop thinking about him (odd, because she's very sane, not the rosy colored dreamy type, like me lol) and this is still not getting off the ground!! I talked to him recently and he said he takes her very seriously and will call her after the New Year and arrange a meeting. He wants to set his ducks in the alphabetical row (*rolls her eyes at too much earth*). I talked to her a few days ago and she seems really psyched, she said she feels this is *karmic*/fated. Well.. if only he'd get over his hesitation/preparation and just call her! Ugh these people who can't accept good things in their lives irk me to no end!!! ------------------
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Vajra
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posted December 31, 2014 06:55 AM
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Dancing Maenad
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posted December 31, 2014 09:57 AM
YES! A Sag guy sounds wonderful! On my Moon! <3 lol Or my Jupiter.. lolHappy New year, V!  ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 30, 2015 01:58 PM
Update: another month passed by, BUT he finally got off his arse and called her (I had to prod him about it for two days!!). They met on Wednesday (sadly under Merc Rx, Venus sq Saturn and Saturn in the 7th in the FMC) and again today (he's catching up, it seems). They're both delighted about one another and they both feel the need to pinch themselves to see if this is real. He told her she is his ideal (sure took his time though.. *rolls eyes at earth men*) and she dreamed of him. Funny, since her Neptune is unaspected in the synastry. Anyways, so far, so good, I was beside myself at the news, of course, even though I have some doubts and prefer to rejoice only when it will be official. I give them one week before they go steady. ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted January 30, 2015 02:03 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
-her Uranus sq his Venus (but maybe it will be love at first sight!!)
It sort of was, haha. Well, for her because prior to meeting he googled her, so you can say he met (and liked her) over the Internet. The more striking thing is how she met him. He was sitting in the restaurant, she had no idea how he looked like (except for some minor descriptions I gave her), the room was full of people, she scanned everybody there and just knew: he was it. She said she felt something very powerful when they met.
Well, maybe this was my Karma with Mr. Cap, to introduce him to the next Mrs. Cap. Funny how things work out though, isn't it?
Now this kinda makes me feel a little lonely, if I am to be honest. But still very happy for them, though. ------------------
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posted January 30, 2015 03:12 PM
Aahh But it truly was a great thread to read! I didn't read it before.. but every first impression here was wow wow!! Synastry, Composite... progressions! Future wise there's another pVenus/nSun trine coming up and a pVenus/pSun trine (although the latter would take decades to come in orb)
Thanx for sharing!
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Dancing Maenad
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posted February 02, 2015 01:13 PM
Thank you for reading, Mir! And for spotting the future progressions, I missed those! Thanks again to LeeLoo for the wonderful analysis!They are still seeing each other and from what I can see they are in contact every day. I don't think it will be long until they become an item. ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted February 04, 2015 09:55 AM
They are a couple! So, apparently I am not the world's worst matchmaker since they are deliriously happy, both of them, and they're falling in looove. How very Venus-Chiron of me. Oh well. I've almost given up on the damn thing anyways. ------------------
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posted February 04, 2015 11:19 AM
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Dancing Maenad
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posted March 05, 2015 05:48 AM
Aaaand they've split.  Mr. Cap strikes again. This man!!!!  ugh! I am so gonna spank him silly.He got scared. Too much, too good, too fast for this Earth man. She's too good for him, he can't give her everything she deserves, yadda yadda yadda. I am allowed to spank him, right girls? I promised her I would stay out of it though. My cards say they might get back together but he will take his time and by then she will be more detached. Well, it was way too perfect to last... I've had some doubts but they were so excited about one another that I threw them to the wind.  ------------------
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posted March 05, 2015 07:10 AM
Hmmm...in my experience men talk bs when they are not that interested...also, I have my Cap Moon in 5H and I have spent many years playing the field. And led people on. And played the field some more. I am now 38 and starting to mature. I don't know how old this Cap is but let's just say that men mature 5-10 years slower than women and that is the case here. So if he is in his "40s", mentally he'll be 30+ and just starting to put pieces together. GO SATURN!! YAY!!! IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted March 06, 2015 05:31 PM
Well, I partially agree - some men are immature but not all. It's not that he's immature, charlie, but he's been badly burned. He got married in his late 20s, loved with all his heart, found himself cheated on at 40, with both his kids gone and unable to see them, insane alimony, lost his house and soon half of his assets. He's scared. I get it.. Besides, they got back together! He came to his senses and realized he might never find such a beautiful connection ever again. Phew!!! These two, omg worse than teenagers! ------------------
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