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blessed39
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posted November 21, 2014 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend is trying to "hook me up" with this young man. Ha! I was wondering if I could get your insight on if there is potential between he and I?

I have spoken with him several times so far. He appears to be a nice guy, but is there a CONNECITON??? Lol.

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Iced8Ace
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posted November 21, 2014 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Run. Sun-Mars-Pluto-Saturn all in combustion and on the ascendant!! Sun-Mars are also considered malefic, so you have literally every malefic combined.

I would advise to avoid at all costs. There may be a strong urge to commit, but this interaction will be filled with power plays and heavy restrictions because of lack of flowing aspects to offset the combustion

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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 22, 2014 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
More like he reminds her of her father. The other is a Sun/Merc conjunction. Not that bad for a girl with Virgo Mars.

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blessed39
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posted November 22, 2014 08:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
Run. Sun-Mars-Pluto-Saturn all in combustion and on the ascendant!! Sun-Mars are also considered malefic, so you have literally every malefic combined.

I would advise to avoid at all costs. There may be a strong urge to commit, but this interaction will be filled with power plays and heavy restrictions because of lack of flowing aspects to offset the combustion


Thanks for your response! But that sucks - avoid at all costs! Lol. That sounds like we are doomed. Yikes! It's interesting you say that there would be power struggles. He seems so laid back and I'm personally at a point in my life where I don't want to have a lot of power or control over someone else. hmmm....

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blessed39
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posted November 22, 2014 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
More like he reminds her of her father. The other is a Sun/Merc conjunction. Not that bad for a girl with Virgo Mars.


What do you mean? Sorry! Im all thumbs when it's comes to this kind of stuff.

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Iced8Ace
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posted November 22, 2014 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by blessed39:
Thanks for your response! But that sucks - avoid at all costs! Lol. That sounds like we are doomed. Yikes! It's interesting you say that there would be power struggles. He seems so laid back and I'm personally at a point in my life where I don't want to have a lot of power or control over someone else. hmmm....

LeeLoo is referring to the Sun-Mars conjunction on your Saturn, I think.

I didn't mean to come off as fatalistic but the synastry made me do a literal double take. I'll go into depth here for how I made such an analysis. If you agree or not, your choices are always left to you

First off I will explain combustion. It's when the Sun is in conjunction and "overshadows" the other planet. The Sun will produce too much heat and sort of "absorb" the other planet.

So his Sun-Mars is in combustion. Sun-Mars are naturally very competitive, one will try to rule the other, however, due to combustion, his ego rules his action. Both are debilitated however, so this is not of overt concern on it's own. Probably why he seems so laid-back, the planets are not functioning very well in Libra.

Throw in your Saturn. It's exalted so it should technically be safe from the combustion. However, it is a natural malefic and in aspect to two other malefics. It's still stressful for it to function well.

Add Pluto in combustion with Sun-Mars conjunction. Sun-Mars are considered malefic in conjunction to any planet and Pluto is a natural malefic. Crazy amount of energy it generates and no outputs because of lack of soft aspects towards the combustion. More stress for Saturn, who is going to try to cap down and direct this energy.

Two more things to keep in mind in this stellium. Combust Jupiter and an exalted Jupiter in square aspect. Jupiters function is to expand whatever it touches. Because it's in combust with everything there, it will expand the negative energy, and also Saturns influence to put a lid on whats going on. This will soon create a VERY stifling atmosphere and Saturn will be under much stress trying to function as a wet blanket.

Including the Chiron square the combustion suggests pain. This is all happening on an angular point, pronouncing this energy even further. It's because your synastry lacks any alleviating aspects I say avoid this one. I foresee a lot of stress together without enough things to balance it out.

If this massive combustion wasn't enough, you've got your moon in square to his domicile Saturn, in square to his Uranus and Neptune. A square from Jupiter gives some ease here but the following things will potentially still play out: On and off feelings, feeling like you cannot express what you feel to him, potential idealization of him.

To leave you with some good stuff, Jupiter conjunct your MC means you'd be very happy and potentially successful starting a business with him. Your Mars-Uranus trine, Sun-sextile Uranus and Mercury-sextile Uranus creates excitement between you. It is very likely this relationship happened suddenly and out of the blue seeing your Venus-Uranus conjunction. You will definitely have a lot of fun together but may find consistency in showing up lacking.

I hope that was enough to explain it! Whatever your choice, I wish you well.

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blessed39
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posted November 22, 2014 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Iced8Ace!! Hmmm...

I do not have much invested in this young man. Lol. As I said, my friend just recently introduced us. We are supposed to go out on a date in a few weeks. He lives 4.5 hours away, so I am not sure of the potential. Just based off of the distance. Let alone other issues.

I figured I'd go on the date and see what shakes out. Beyond that who really knows. However, it is MORE than helpful to have the info you provided. I am not going to tell him I suddenly do not want to go out with him. BUT I will definitely proceed with caution! Lol. I am still trying to move past feelings for someone with whom I had a very strong and intense connection with.

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posted November 22, 2014 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll work on the synastry later, but first I want to say a few things.

1. I don't know him personally, but chances are he's in a tight financial place. What's really going on is tSaturn is in his 2nd house of valuables. This will force him to narrow down the things which are important to him. as a Libra, stereotypically, relationships are on top of that list.

2. I see he has a #4 lifepath. This denotes; stability, commitment to causes, and service. It's been my observation that these types seek out partners who can provide for them, or to whom they offer a supporting role. Eg. she has the career and he quits his meh job to be with the baby.

3. His progressed chart is booming with activity;

a. pMoon in Aquarius, pSun in Scorpio - he's at a turning point in his life and he's ready for change. Something BIG & lasting.

b. His pVenus has just left Sagittarius and sits at 0° Capricorn. This is major - romantically, he's looking for something grown up.

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blessed39
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posted November 22, 2014 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Nine! You had me until you said that he would be OK being a stay at home hubby. LOL. There is nothing wrong with that. Buuuut I do not think I want that personally. Lol. I am being silly.


But thank you! I look forward to hearing your thoughts on the synastry.

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Nine
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posted November 22, 2014 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With Sun in Libra, Moon in Pisces he's a beauty junkie. Moon & Asc is Libra I'm sure you've met his physical requirements.

Your pSaturn conjunct his nSun @ 18° Libra is something I believe he finds very attractive, what with his #4 lifepath and pVenus entering Capricorn. He has a nSun conj nMars aspect, and by progression you've stepped in to play the Sun, his pMars is conjunct your nSun - this is also a hot sexual aspect. All said, and knowing Libras, my instinct says he expects you to be the one with the broad shoulders...and pocketbook.

What I love: Like him your pSun & pMoon are in the 4th harmonic - conjunct in Sagittarius. You too are about to embark on a bold new adventure.

What gives me pause: Venus isn't invited. Your pSun @ 4° Sagittarius is separating from a conjunction to his nVenus @ 3° Sagittarius. Thus the two love planets are doing the opposite of coming together. For two people who've never met before this sparating aspect is good enough to grab each other's attention, but, doesn't have the strength to take things beyond that.

Nine's call: Missed Connection. However, if you're looking for a pet he may be game.

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Multiple relationships are not unusual for this man. He has a just and fair way of handling people that lures many a woman into his bed.

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Iced8Ace
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posted November 22, 2014 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice analysis, Nine.

It seems I jumped the gun then, blessed39, lol. I think you're right to give him a chance. Best of luck!

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blessed39
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posted November 22, 2014 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, Nine.. Thanks! Pet?? Hmmm…. Im definitely not looking for a pet. I am looking for a MAN!!! LOL. An independent and strong man… Doesn't seem like that he cuts the mustard so much. eh? LOL.

We shall, see says the blind man. I am going to give him a chance but move sloooooowly. Lol.

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blessed39
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posted November 22, 2014 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blessed39     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
Nice analysis, Nine.

It seems I jumped the gun then, blessed39, lol. I think you're right to give him a chance. Best of luck!


Thanks so much!

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