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Ami Anne
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posted December 01, 2014 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know the guy your girlfriends told you about. They said he was bad. You said that they just didn’t understand. I am writing this article to you: those gals( and guys) who found the prince but he tuned into a frog When the frog bit them, they sustained a serious wound. They still don’t know what happened. Have no fear. Ami is here.

First of all, you have to know what you are dealing with with Neptune. Neptune is as beautiful as the most delicious poetry and music that melts your soul. Neptune can take you into the spheres. However, Neptune can make you think that the frog is the prince. When you wake up, you may have lost all you have, including your dignity and even your life. If you have not lost your life, you may be wishing for death. Hang in there with me. We are going to learn how you can avoid this mess, if you listen. However, you probably won’t. Don’t say I didn’t tell you.

When there is a fire, they tell you to stop, drop and roll. I am doing the same thing, so lets start. That which Neptune touches, it will fog. If is touches your emotions, it will fog those. This would be Neptune/Moon. If it touches your ego, it will fog that. This would be Neptune/Sun. If it touches your love nature, it will fog that. This would be Neptune/Venus. Let’s make this practical and apply it to synastry.

If you think you have met the man of your dreams, hurry to the charts. If his Neptune opposes your Venus, hang onto your hat and trust me. You don’t see him as he is. One day you will. When that day comes, the scales will come off your eyes.Then, you will be in a state of shock, as if you sustained a car accident. You will be numb. You will feel duped, used and stupid. Everyone gets one free ride on the Neptune mobile. Make it count and don’t do it again. Everyone is a Neptune virgin once.

Let’s dissect what happened. Neptune shrouds what it touches in an ethereal beauty. If you feel that your beloved is as beautiful as an original Picasso, you know that Neptune has bitten you. However, when Neptune’s fog lifts, you will return to your right mind. Then, you will see things as they are. At that point, you will have developed a profound respect for Neptune. He doesn’t play around when it comes to beauty, even if it is just a dream. Neptune rules dreams, too.


Lets see other ways in which Neptune can play out in synastry. His Neptune may touch your Moon. You may doubt what you feel. His Neptune may touch your Sun. You may doubt your own thoughts. Your self confidence may take a nose dive. However, Neptune takes you to the heavens up before it lets you fall. If his Neptune touches your Sun, initially you will feel big and bad and full of confidence. If his Neptune touches your Moon, initially you will feel a warm glow to your emotions. However, you will, most likely,take the inevitable fall, so be prepared. If his Neptune conjuncts your ASC. You cannot see him for who he is, in general. Know that you can’t trust yourself. Ask others. It is good to do this, on a regular basis, when there is a strong Neptune in synastry.

No man is an island and this applies more so when one cannot see beyond the ethereal fog which is Neptune’s stock in trade.

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posted December 01, 2014 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm quite lucky cause guys who are not too old for me could only hit me with a conjunction to my Mercury when it comes to hard aspects to my personal planets. Not that I'm not in risk of being fogged, after all Neptune is my love planet and is tied to my ego.

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Pretty Theft
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posted December 01, 2014 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pretty Theft     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is probably useful for some people, but it seems pretty negative to me. Neptune may deceive, yes, but he can also add a little sparkle to things, a mystical radiance. If the two of you have good counteractive Saturn contacts -- aka reality -- Neptune is fairy dust rather than a tidal wave.

Hold on to your hat though. Like all things astrology ... The entire chart(s) must be considered.

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posted December 01, 2014 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ueharaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As usual a great article that explains how neptune works.

I always wondered though whether it is the planet or neptune person who is deceived. Or both?

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posted December 01, 2014 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This article made me laugh - in a good way. I like how you gathered the information.

I don't think Saturn does much to alleviate Neptune. As a Pisces heavy person with Saturn conjunctions (from Pisces), I can still be very naive. It's very hard to ground Neptunian energy -- it is the realm of logical mist, explaining why Mercury is in it's fall there.

Everything adds up but when you stop keeping tabs on things, you will start to doubt yourself. The best you can do is stay on top of what you know, and inquire about what you do not. Or keep a Gemini/Virgo close by

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posted December 01, 2014 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astro keen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In our case, we probably delude each other. But other aspects might buffer the respective let downs.

My Sun conjunct his Neptune/Asc exact. My Neptune conjunct his Neptune/Asc.

My Neptune - 28.6 Libra
His Neptune - 0.3 Sco
My Sun - 1.37 Sco
His Asc - 1.37 Sco

Many layers here don't you think? Often, we muddle along in a state of mutual ambivalence. Well, who doesn't? Neptune is also spiritual and mystical. Or the fog may be a perpetual one .

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posted December 01, 2014 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The idea that Neptune is a 100% malefic planet is a Neptunian illusion too, one of its tricks

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Ami Anne
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posted December 01, 2014 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ueharaa:
As usual a great article that explains how neptune works.

I always wondered though whether it is the planet or neptune person who is deceived. Or both?


Thank you, U!

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posted December 01, 2014 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
This article made me laugh - in a good way. I like how you gathered the information.

I don't think Saturn does much to alleviate Neptune. As a Pisces heavy person with Saturn conjunctions (from Pisces), I can still be very naive. It's very hard to ground Neptunian energy -- it is the realm of logical mist, explaining why Mercury is in it's fall there.

Everything adds up but when you stop keeping tabs on things, you will start to doubt yourself. The best you can do is stay on top of what you know, and inquire about what you do not. Or keep a Gemini/Virgo close by


Thank you, Iced!

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posted December 01, 2014 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
The idea that Neptune is a 100% malefic planet is a Neptunian illusion too, one of its tricks



I don't think it is malefic. I have it trine the Sun and Mercury and it makes for creativity.

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posted December 02, 2014 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astro keen:
In our case, we probably delude each other. But other aspects might buffer the respective let downs.

My Sun conjunct his Neptune/Asc exact. My Neptune conjunct his Neptune/Asc.

My Neptune - 28.6 Libra
His Neptune - 0.3 Sco
My Sun - 1.37 Sco
His Asc - 1.37 Sco

Many layers here don't you think? Often, we muddle along in a state of mutual ambivalence. Well, who doesn't? Neptune is also spiritual and mystical. Or the fog may be a perpetual one .

@ Pretty Theft


Very good points, AK!

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posted December 02, 2014 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alyssa27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have venus-neptune opposition,moon-neptune square and a mars-neptune trine..this means that i will be fooled from everyone of my generation?..i don't wanna believe that..i have to accept that i will be deceived from all of my friends?..i don't think neptune is that bad

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posted December 02, 2014 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for page one     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by alyssa27:
i have venus-neptune opposition,moon-neptune square and a mars-neptune trine..this means that i will be fooled from everyone of my generation?..i don't wanna believe that..i have to accept that i will be deceived from all of my friends?..i don't think neptune is that bad

It's bad if you don't consider its dangers, that's all. You have to keep your head on straight. It's the refusal to believe that makes it act as a malific so much of the time.

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posted December 02, 2014 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As usual, consider the surrounding aspects of the conjunction, appreciate the unafflicted trines and sextiles, and be mindful of the squares and oppositions.

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posted December 02, 2014 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Incidentally, since you're going with the frog metaphor, Ami, I thought you might want to know that it's pretty unlikely anyone would sustain an injury from a 'frog bite'. They're toothless, (well, by human standards) and use their snare of a tongue to catch their food.

Technically, you'd consider the American toad (which does actually have tiny micro-teeth) a more dangerous threat -- but only when they're threatened. It's their skin which releases a bit of toxin known as bufotenin. It can really do a number on animals, but for humans, it's been considered something of a psychedelic. (Surely, you've heard the tales; crazy country kids licking the backs of toads for a -- dare we say it -- wild ride?)

Perhaps that's the better definition of NEPTUNE's allure and illusion. It's a psychedelic trip, the likes of which we're not sure when will end. Granted, we're not all 'licking toads' -- we're 'kissing frogs' -- but the metaphor remains the same. Befuddled and bewildered, confused and bemused.

Maybe because the toad put forth such a powerful draw, that we thought -- eh -- just this once. What can it hurt?

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posted December 02, 2014 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted December 02, 2014 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Is there always a crash from neptune? Is it possible neptune can endlessly sustain the illusion?

The trines may do it!

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posted December 02, 2014 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
The trines may do it!


And sextiles, in some cases. But close trines and sextiles can actually be very beneficial in many ways.

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posted December 02, 2014 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have two neptune synastry aspects with someone I considered the love of my life (thus far).

My neptune trines his sun
His neptune conjucted my uranus.

Not too sure if neptune played as big of a role in the breakdown of our relationship as Mars or Uranus did/does... But hmmm.

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posted December 02, 2014 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Natally, I have Mars square neptune and jupiter opposite neptune
Then I've got venus trine neptune, neptune sextile pluto and neptune trune midheaven.

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posted December 02, 2014 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pretty Theft     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am actually in a relationship with fairly strong Neptunian markers. Our composite Neptune is smack dab conjunct on the composite MC, and his natal Venus/Mars conjunction at 0 degrees Aries squares it. To top it off, his Mercury falls in my 12th, which leads me in many ways to distrust or second guess what he says (especially given my paranoid Scorpio Mars) and I also have a natal Pisces moon in contact with my natal Neptune, which means I am somewhat delusional to begin with.

However. He also has a natal Venus/Mars conjunction square Neptune, which means he is more or less dealing with this signature all his life, and obviously I have, too, with my moon/Neptune signature. I've also been experiencing Neptune mucking up my first house. My very identity is nebulous! Thankfully it's moving onto my 2nd house soon enough.

My point is that astrology can show you where you have weaknesses and tendencies (in the case of Neptune) towards delusion and confusion, but if you're an aware person who can look at the patterns of things, you will be okay even if you don't know astrology. People can grow past their own pathologies. It doesn't mean they are eradicated ... rather that you know they're there and can work around them.

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In my relationship we have neptune square sun as our very tightest aspect in synastry!

I am the capricorn neptune and he is libra sun It's almost completely exact 0 degrees apart.

We also have my libra mercury square his capricorn neptune, I think 2 degrees.

Does this mean that it's his ego that is affected, and that I am the one that creates the fog between us?
Sometimes I can actually feel some fog between us, but it doesnt last long... in my book he is seriously a prince on the white horse, and no matter what people woul say this is how I feel. We have gone through much together (my brother died last year) and he was there for me (he still is), and I am very thankful for that. He is really sweet and supportive, so what more could I ask for. He doesnt have to be perfect.

We also have his libra sun square my cap saturn at 2 degrees, and his libra venus square my cap saturn at 5 degrees. Maybe this is the reason why?

But I do agree that I sometimes get all delussional and need a good advice from a friend, and they always talk me down again, though I can sometimes hardly believe it.

But I really think this boyfriend is good for me, and all my friends agree on that

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posted December 03, 2014 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it definitely (only) an ILLUSION?

or could it be that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, until the eye's definition of beauty becomes more refined with experience..

or switch it up. Could Neptune feel like deception when we get more than we bargained for? Take the example of the mystic and the cleric. A mystic can look like anyone, even a cleric or scholar/priest. However, when seeking truth and answers, one might be disturbed to hear the soft suggestion of a mystic when he was looking for the clear guidelines of a cleric. Does Neptune reveal the limitation of our expectations?

Are we presented with an illusion, or are our personal attachments brought to the forefront?

I am often Neptune in relationships, and I never feel completely understood or accepted. I fit a lot of molds- and happily. I have probably been the answer to more than one dream, but just because I am that, it doesn't mean that that is all I am.

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posted December 03, 2014 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Incidentally, since you're going with the frog metaphor, Ami, I thought you might want to know that it's pretty unlikely anyone would sustain an injury from a 'frog bite'. They're toothless, (well, by human standards) and use their snare of a tongue to catch their food.

Technically, you'd consider the American toad (which does actually have tiny micro-teeth) a more dangerous threat -- but only when they're threatened. It's their skin which releases a bit of toxin known as bufotenin. It can really do a number on animals, but for humans, it's been considered something of a psychedelic. (Surely, you've heard the tales; crazy country kids licking the backs of toads for a -- dare we say it -- wild ride?)


LOL! Enjoyed this.

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posted December 03, 2014 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonstruck87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Neptune square Moon natally and Neptune opp Venus natally

Yeahhhhhhhh

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