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ciadow
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posted December 05, 2014 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ciadow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello everyone I want to talk more about the sixth house....in a positive way. Has anyone ever been or is currently in a relationship where planets/overlays fall in the 6th house synastry or composite chart?

I have been in three relationships where there was more than one planet in the sixth house for the composite, and at least one sixth house overlay in the synastry chart. Yet, I did not see the negative aspects of boring routine or power struggles. The last two ended because of other issues. I am currently in a relationship with stellium in the 6th house again and I am wondering if I could look at this positive...or is it destined to fail?? Also, does having a Venus in the sixth house make me like this( my Venus is unaspected in Aries)

The most positive explanations I have seen have come from Neptune astrologer and South Florida astrologer online. Their explanations are more along the lines of it being more comfort in routine, getting chores done, or being active/healthy and doing something together.

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posted December 05, 2014 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It takes emotional maturity, as I feel a big part of your relationship is related to service endeavours.

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Pretty Theft
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posted December 05, 2014 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pretty Theft     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say that if the natives have a 6th house/Virgo emphasis they might be better equipped to handle the matter-of-fact energy of the relationship than someone with more fire or air.

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posted December 06, 2014 12:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ciadow:
Their explanations are more along the lines of it being more comfort in routine, getting chores done, or being active/healthy and doing something together.

That's the way I'd interpret it. Not bad at all. I actually don't think any house in the composite is inherently bad, it’s just that different houses are better suited to different people.

If the people with a strong 6th house composite also have natal Virgo planets or 6th house planets themselves they may actually see the benefit in such a composite. Same could be true if they have Virgo or the 6th house connected to their 5th, 7th, or 8th houses, or house rulers. This is because they’d naturally see Virgo and 6th house type issues as part of a relationship. So yes, Venus in the 6th could contribute too this as well.

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posted December 06, 2014 03:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok well, generally it's not considered ideal to have a bunch of 6th house planets in synastry especially the Sun, but what are the aspects? Assuming his/her sun falls in your 6th house is it making harsh or positive aspects to your personal planets?

Relationships where too many planets fell into mine or my partners 6th house don't turn out well for me, but they've always involved harsh aspects. I suspect benefic aspects would not cause the basic problems. Although if the Sun is involved even a flowing aspect will probably have some issues, but they will be easier to deal with.

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twinflame1914
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posted December 06, 2014 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for twinflame1914     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My boyfriend and I have composite Sun, Mercury, Mars, Uranus, Venus, and south node in the 6th house (all but Sun are in Scorpio). I was really freaked out reading the negative things about the composite 6th. Still am a bit. Not really sure how it's going to play out. It's been tough developing any sort of homelife routine with him and his kids. Could this account for the difficulties in the chart?

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posted December 06, 2014 09:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HelixID     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think we can dismiss the 6th house as bad or any other house for that matter. Brad Pitt has a bunch of planets in Angelina Jolie's H6 house and look at them.

I always say that regarding anything in astrology you always, always have to start with the natal chart, always!
All of my personal planets except the Moon (H1) are in H6. Mars and Venus (Asc-Dsc rulers) are conjunct in Virgo. Of course I'm going to be attracted to someone with a Virgo Sun, Ascendant or strong Mercury despite the oh so unromantic H6 being activated.

You need to start with yourself and your natal chart regardless of what the cookbook definition is.

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posted December 06, 2014 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ciadow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by twinflame1914:
My boyfriend and I have composite Sun, Mercury, Mars, Uranus, Venus, and south node in the 6th house (all but Sun are in Scorpio). I was really freaked out reading the negative things about the composite 6th. Still am a bit. Not really sure how it's going to play out. It's been tough developing any sort of homelife routine with him and his kids. Could this account for the difficulties in the chart?

Hey Twin Flame, the composite sounds of your relationships sounds like one I was in , i realized the relationships where uranus, neptune, or saturn was in the 6th it was very harsh and unpredicable to make a home life....be on equal footing with each other... for example this relationship:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&cd=c53xfileW9IcYs-u1273951265&gif=astro_621gw_01_05_anonymous_anonymous.59262.8116.gif&res=100&va=&cid=53xfileW9IcYs-u1273951265

The synastry between us in that composite was incredibly hot her being a scorpio and I am pisces, double whammy trine venus/mars. asc conjunct venus, venus trine asc. mars trine sun, sun trine sun. Mercury aspect amazing, we could talk for hours. All her houses were in my first house, all mine were in her 11th. We had so much fun together.

But she was not "out"... as her family is very strict, we had to hide it. She was not comfortable with her sexuality, and so she ended up marrying the first guy that she found attractive. Now that she is married, she still always tries to hang out or talk with me, and though I refuse to help her cheat, most would say she is still very emotionally invested/ in lust with me. Always lingering touches, or just stares at me for long periods of time. Our love is subordinate, to what she finds important, I guess that is where the sixth house explains it.


The relationship I am in now, the composite has only three planets in the sixth... http://www.astro.com/tmpd/c53xfileW9IcYs-u1273951265/astro_621gw_01_118_anonymous_anonymous.60863.1882.gif?4333

Our synastry again is pretty good, double moon/sun conjunction, her venus conjunct my descendant, her sun and mars in my fifth conjunct my sun, my moon in her seventh conjunct her descendant, but my mars/saturn in her fourth. Asc conjunct asc, so litterally both of our 4,5,6, and 7th houses are aspected the same. We are so alike it is scary. I sort of resent her for being so alike..she is less confident than I am,I am scared by my attraction and comfort-ability with her, and I find myself trying hard to reign my urge to say something that will put her down. I feel like our work always comes first, her work always comes first. But when we are together we are sooooo comfortable and balance everything out pretty well it is scary. Also, we are both losing weight together, doing more spiritual things, and eating well together. Lots of massages. ....


btw this is my natal chart...:
[img] http://www.astro.com/tmpd/c53xfileW9IcYs-u1273951265/astro_2gw_01_anonymous.6 1358.29812.gif?30157 [/img]

I have one unaspected planet in my sixth house, which is ruled by aries and is my descendant. I dont see any virgo... ???

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twinflame1914
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posted December 06, 2014 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for twinflame1914     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ciadow:
Hey Twin Flame, the composite sounds of your relationships sounds like one I was in , i realized the relationships where uranus, neptune, or saturn was in the 6th it was very harsh and unpredicable to make a home life....be on equal footing with each other... for example this relationship:

Your 6th house in this chart was very similar to mine. Do you think it would have worked had it not been for her family?

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posted December 06, 2014 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selenite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
" Our love is subordinate, to what she finds important, I guess that is where the sixth house explains it."

Wow. I believe this is the very same reason why my 6th house composite love didn't work out. I've always been confused about the 6th house placements because it certainly didn't seem like a 6th house relationship. But He was/is a workaholic and cares very much about humanitarian causes these days, which has been a factor in the demise of the relationship.. Ultimately, that was more important than making it work.
And I on the other hand have always felt like I would sacrifice everything for him. I don't know why. I actually think it has to do with a past life, but that's a different story.
It's beginning to make sense now

Sorry this isn't exactly a positive manifestation of the 6th house composite potential. But i think it could have been

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twinflame1914
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posted December 07, 2014 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for twinflame1914     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Selenite:
" Our love is subordinate, to what she finds important, I guess that is where the sixth house explains it."

Wow. I believe this is the very same reason why my 6th house composite love didn't work out. I've always been confused about the 6th house placements because it certainly didn't seem like a 6th house relationship. But He was/is a workaholic and cares very much about humanitarian causes these days, which has been a factor in the demise of the relationship.. Ultimately, that was more important than making it work.
And I on the other hand have always felt like I would sacrifice everything for him. I don't know why. I actually think it has to do with a past life, but that's a different story.
It's beginning to make sense now

Sorry this isn't exactly a positive manifestation of the 6th house composite potential. But i think it could have been


Which Sign was your sixth?

Not looking good for me eh?

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manderin
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posted December 07, 2014 06:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HelixID:
I don't think we can dismiss the 6th house as bad or any other house for that matter. Brad Pitt has a bunch of planets in Angelina Jolie's H6 house and look at them.

I always say that regarding anything in astrology you always, always have to start with the natal chart, always!
All of my personal planets except the Moon (H1) are in H6. Mars and Venus (Asc-Dsc rulers) are conjunct in Virgo. Of course I'm going to be attracted to someone with a Virgo Sun, Ascendant or strong Mercury despite the oh so unromantic H6 being activated.

You need to start with yourself and your natal chart regardless of what the cookbook definition is.



I just want to say that using celebrities as examples isn't always wise because there is a super-high chance that the birth data they publicize is way off. I personally went to school with two actors who roughly "made it" in the industry and have resumes on IMBD and one of them shows their date of birth as being 6 years later than it actually is, plus the month is wrong too...and the other one shows her date of birth as 9 years later! There's another actor I briefly dated who is very successful and currently married to a former model- his birth data is correct on wickapedia NOW, but for many years wickapedia and IMBD showed his year of birth was 3 years off. I'm guessing he made the mistake of connecting with too many former school mates on his myspace page when he was gaining fame and the cat got out of the bag with that one. In an industry where age matters a great deal celebrities and their publicists are very successful and tricking the public in terms of their real birth info. NEVER assume you have the correct birth information of a musician or actor. It's always best to use data from people you know personally.

Having said that- When I look at Angelina Jolie's and Brad Pitt's synastry I see only 3 possibilities:

a) One or both of them are not being honest about their birth info.

b) Birth infos are correct but Anglina's venus conjunct brad's descendant outweighs almost all. I've often mentioned that tHis is the most powerful combination in all of romantic synastry especially when it is the female's venus on top of the male's descendant. But is it powerful enough to overcome a ton of bad aspects? I don't know. Looking at their charts it could be a possibility.

c) Info is correct, but they are both so spiritually evolved that they are able to transcend their bad synastry.

A is the most likely explanation (just based on how common the issue is in their industry) and C is the least likely explanation. Though I do believe that where BOTH people in a relationship are evolved enough it is possible to transcend bad synastry, it is super rare. It's rare enough just to find one person in a relationship that is.

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posted December 07, 2014 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pretty Theft     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a 7-year relationship with a 6th house composite sun, and it didn't work out for us at all. Granted he was an Aquarius and I am a Leo -- neither of us wanted to be serving the other and in the end it always seemed like that was the case. You are not going to get anywhere if you insist in a very rigid way that a Leo have the dishes and laundry done by the time you get home!

We also had some other things, like Saturn square Mars, that contributed to the coldness in our alliance (and composite Venus in the 12th -- I couldn't feel his love). Anyway, that's besides the point. If you've had successful 6th house relationships, then that's definitely a good thing and just goes to show that broad relationship markers don't always work for everyone.

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ciadow
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posted December 07, 2014 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ciadow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by twinflame1914:
Your 6th house in this chart was very similar to mine. Do you think it would have worked had it not been for her family?

I would think yes, but it is hard to imagine that because such a big part of her was how she grew up. lol. It is sort of what brought us together. So besides the way we met and got closer, if I met her on the street with the same character she has now, I think it would be a huge possibility we would have worked....lol I wouldnt see why not, it was chemistry, compatibility, and fun in a nutshell.

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posted December 07, 2014 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ciadow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by manderin:

I just want to say that using celebrities as examples isn't always wise because there is a super-high chance that the birth data they publicize is way off. I personally went to school with two actors who roughly "made it" in the industry and have resumes on IMBD and one of them shows their date of birth as being 6 years later than it actually is, plus the month is wrong too...and the other one shows her date of birth as 9 years later! There's another actor I briefly dated who is very successful and currently married to a former model- his birth data is correct on wickapedia NOW, but for many years wickapedia and IMBD showed his year of birth was 3 years off. I'm guessing he made the mistake of connecting with too many former school mates on his myspace page when he was gaining fame and the cat got out of the bag with that one. In an industry where age matters a great deal celebrities and their publicists are very successful and tricking the public in terms of their real birth info. NEVER assume you have the correct birth information of a musician or actor. It's always best to use data from people you know personally.

Having said that- When I look at Angelina Jolie's and Brad Pitt's synastry I see only 3 possibilities:

a) One or both of them are not being honest about their birth info.

b) Birth infos are correct but Anglina's venus conjunct brad's descendant outweighs almost all. I've often mentioned that tHis is the most powerful combination in all of romantic synastry especially when it is the female's venus on top of the male's descendant. But is it powerful enough to overcome a ton of bad aspects? I don't know. Looking at their charts it could be a possibility.

c) Info is correct, but they are both so spiritually evolved that they are able to transcend their bad synastry.

A is the most likely explanation (just based on how common the issue is in their industry) and C is the least likely explanation. Though I do believe that where BOTH people in a relationship are evolved enough it is possible to transcend bad synastry, it is super rare. It's rare enough just to find one person in a relationship that is.


How strong do you think Venus conjunct descendant is, with this girl her Venus conjuncts my dsc, my moon conjuncts her dsc, and her sun is in my seventh house....do you think that helps?? And double sun moon conjunction..

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posted December 07, 2014 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ciadow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:
I had a 7-year relationship with a 6th house composite sun, and it didn't work out for us at all. Granted he was an Aquarius and I am a Leo -- neither of us wanted to be serving the other and in the end it always seemed like that was the case. You are not going to get anywhere if you insist in a very rigid way that a Leo have the dishes and laundry done by the time you get home!

We also had some other things, like Saturn square Mars, that contributed to the coldness in our alliance (and composite Venus in the 12th -- I couldn't feel his love). Anyway, that's besides the point. If you've had successful 6th house relationships, then that's definitely a good thing and just goes to show that broad relationship markers don't always work for everyone.


The fact that you were together for 7 years gives me a slight bit of hope!!!! Wow, but yeah most Leos I know hate change or being told what to do...Haha I wonder if the signs has anything to do with it...like if in the synastry it shows that both are giving and emotional based such as lots of Pisces or Virgo. Wow, composite venus in the 12th, is interesting... ahh...so many questions...

since you were with him together for so long was there at all anything positive that you could figure related to the sixth house?

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posted December 07, 2014 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for twinflame1914     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ugh is my relationship doomed? !

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posted December 07, 2014 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pretty Theft     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ciadow:
The fact that you were together for 7 years gives me a slight bit of hope!!!! Wow, but yeah most Leos I know hate change or being told what to do...Haha I wonder if the signs has anything to do with it...like if in the synastry it shows that both are giving and emotional based such as lots of Pisces or Virgo. Wow, composite venus in the 12th, is interesting... ahh...so many questions...

since you were with him together for so long was there at all anything positive that you could figure related to the sixth house?


Yes -- I would say we did find comfort in routine, and we had some 4th house stuff going on as well. He felt like family to me. I knew I could rely on him no matter what.

I don't want to throw a damper on anyone's 6th house relationships, I am just giving my own two cents. Everyone is different, you know? For someone like me with a Pisces moon, I felt I needed some more ... magic.

It was an inherently unequal relationship, with him making more money than I did which definitely contributed to our downfall (lots of resentment, coupled with Saturn contacts -- we felt responsible towards each other).

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posted December 10, 2014 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ciadow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, thanks guy for telling me your stories...yikes to that fourth house stuff...I have a lot of stuff in her fourth house too...uh ohhh...so far like I said two months in, we are pretty balanced and give each other space enough... I guess it really is going to have to rely on the synastry...sigh, we have pretty interesting synastry, so I am going to cross my fingers and hope it pulls us through, at least for a year or two. Lol.

I am not looking for the love of my rest of my life, cause I am not too romantic or a day dreamer like that...but someone that I could work things out with. I am head over heels with the way she looks...let me just work that out haha.

Maybe its my eros, descendant, and venus conjunct my moon and her mercury in the 6th/7th. And her moon, mars, conjunct my sun, in my fifth...plus her eros/lilth conjunct my venus a whole bunch of uranus/neptune/saturn and mars trine our ascendants and sextiles going on. I havent felt like this in such a long time. Its like we look at each other and want to jump each others bones.

I was so afraid of it, because she is not out as bi(messed around with girl, yes but, not dated), maybe that is where the 6th house comes in...I tried so hard to tell her lets remain friends because I don't want to get hurt. But she won't let me stop talking to her...and I don't really want to stop....

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posted December 13, 2014 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ciadow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://sasstrology.com/2012/06/getting-there-the-function-of-the-sun-in-composite-charts.html this website has a nice sixth composite sun definition. ...

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posted May 26, 2020 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonlightavenue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HelixID:
I don't think we can dismiss the 6th house as bad or any other house for that matter. Brad Pitt has a bunch of planets in Angelina Jolie's H6 house and look at them.

I always say that regarding anything in astrology you always, always have to start with the natal chart, always!
All of my personal planets except the Moon (H1) are in H6. Mars and Venus (Asc-Dsc rulers) are conjunct in Virgo. Of course I'm going to be attracted to someone with a Virgo Sun, Ascendant or strong Mercury despite the oh so unromantic H6 being activated.

You need to start with yourself and your natal chart regardless of what the cookbook definition is.


Just wanted to mention they're not together anymore... so... 6th house is not the most positive then haha

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