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Topic: In so much pain... PLEASE help!
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ihaveaquestion
Newflake Posts: 16
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Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 09, 2014 03:01 AM
  
Here's my question - After my divorce this July, I started dating this nice guy but unfortunately we broke up. He messages me but it doesn't lead to anything.
Don't have the time of birth so I selected 12pm. Please help me... From whatever little knowledge I have he sounds like a Libra ascendant. Any guidance in terms of dates or tips on if and when we can get back together will be helpful. Thank you for your time! Here's my chart-  And here's our combined chart -
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Koho
Knowflake Posts: 178
From: New York
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 09, 2014 04:53 AM
I'm not good enough to do a prediction and most people probably aren't. And I would imagine it would be a lot of work to take the transits, and progressions, plus the natals and synastry to give a proper date.But just from taking a quick look before I go to bed I don't think this synastry was very promising. I don't like the unaspected moon for a cancer person. Too many conjunctions which is a hard energy that can go either way.
To me there doesn't seem to be much foundation here. Your attraction to him seems to come from his moon overlapping your 8th house but that's about it cause both your mars and Venus signs are not doing much. I think you can probably find someone more compatible. What's got you so curious about him?
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted December 09, 2014 07:05 AM
I agree with Koho, it is not a very cohesive synastry  IP: Logged |
ihaveaquestion
Newflake Posts: 16
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posted December 09, 2014 07:22 AM
Well, we bonded like the last two pieces of a jigsaw puzzle. Perfectly in sync. But soon our insecurities came out crawling. He was a perfect gentleman in the beginning but soon he started behaving like a child... stubborn and lazy. I was also just out of a terrrible divorce so I too came in with baggage. But I know we have something very strong. Some sort of a connection but it seems like everything else is straonger right now.IP: Logged |
ihaveaquestion
Newflake Posts: 16
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posted December 09, 2014 09:39 AM
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Originally posted by Koho:
I'm not good enough to do a prediction and most people probably aren't. And I would imagine it would be a lot of work to take the transits, and progressions, plus the natals and synastry to give a proper date.But just from taking a quick look before I go to bed I don't think this synastry was very promising. I don't like the unaspected moon for a cancer person. Too many conjunctions which is a hard energy that can go either way.
To me there doesn't seem to be much foundation here. Your attraction to him seems to come from his moon overlapping your 8th house but that's about it cause both your mars and Venus signs are not doing much. I think you can probably find someone more compatible. What's got you so curious about him?
Well, we bonded like the last two pieces of a jigsaw puzzle. Perfectly in sync. But soon our insecurities came out crawling. He was a perfect gentleman in the beginning but soon he started behaving like a child... stubborn and lazy. I was also just out of a terrrible divorce so I too came in with baggage. But I know we have something very strong. Some sort of a connection but it seems like everything else is straonger right now.
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 9077
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posted December 09, 2014 10:09 AM
Here's a reading:
http://www.thesecretlanguage.com/report/relationship/?r=06220715 My parents-in-law had birthdays near you and this man, and that reading is accurate for them. There were power struggles, yes, but they were married over 50 years and seemed happy together. IP: Logged |
ihaveaquestion
Newflake Posts: 16
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posted December 09, 2014 10:20 AM
Thank you, Faith!! It gives me hope  quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
Here's a reading:
http://www.thesecretlanguage.com/report/relationship/?r=06220715 My parents-in-law had birthdays near you and this man, and that reading is accurate for them. There were power struggles, yes, but they were married over 50 years and seemed happy together.
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Koho
Knowflake Posts: 178
From: New York
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 09, 2014 10:34 AM
You and Faith make valid points. The two of you have a similar make up with all those conjunctions. It'll help you understand each other but it'll also make you irritate the hell out of each other.That feeling of strong connection may alo come from the north nodes conjunct. Someone else should speak on this cause I don't understand the nodes well in synastry yet. Never experienced it myself. If the chart had more trines and sextiles to sprinkle all these conjunctions with lightness I'd be all the more for it. Just be aware with conjunctions being the main driving force I bet the downs can be very down. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 1647
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 09, 2014 11:12 AM
VENUS conjunct CHIRON.You likely only began dating this man so quickly following a divorce because there are parts of yourself you feel willing to work through. Unfortunately, that takes consistent emotional maturity from both. These are said to be very explosive relationships due to one dropping the ball. I'm not certain on that, but I HAVE seen it. An instantaneous bonding following a period of deep insecurity in which it'll either bond together powerfully, or blow apart dramatically. I'd definitely look to the transits and your mutual progressions -- though without his birth time, you're limited. House placements help bring it down to what's happening HERE, rather than straight potential. IP: Logged |
babybull82
Knowflake Posts: 424
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 09, 2014 12:47 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
VENUS conjunct CHIRON.You likely only began dating this man so quickly following a divorce because there are parts of yourself you feel willing to work through. Unfortunately, that takes consistent emotional maturity from both. These are said to be very explosive relationships due to one dropping the ball. I'm not certain on that, but I HAVE seen it. An instantaneous bonding following a period of deep insecurity in which it'll either bond together powerfully, or blow apart dramatically. I'd definitely look to the transits and your mutual progressions -- though without his birth time, you're limited. House placements help bring it down to what's happening HERE, rather than straight potential.
I agree with this because it just happened to me and I was the Chiron person. But according to a question I asked on the horary board he will come back. So we'll see. If the people are mature enough I think these issues of past hurts can be worked with. IP: Logged |
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