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Topic: Sun conjunct Pluto in synastry
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Odette Moderator Posts: 4879 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 21, 2014 11:36 PM
How does this aspect play out in your experience? Is Pluto usually reluctant to get involved?He is the Sun person (Scorpio) on my Pluto, and he was very quickly attracted and now he is being really persistent. I dont want to be rude or hurt his feelings, but I really don't feel like getting involved. I've mostly ignored his attempts at getting to know me and didn't return his messages or calls. I'm not sure why I'm doing this. He hasn't done anything wrong and he is attractive and intelligent. Maybe I just don't feel ready for anything romantic right now. Either way I have a huge wall up when it comes to this guy - and I realize how strange and unfair this must seem from his perspective, mainly since when we first met we hit it off. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4879 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 21, 2014 11:38 PM
Sorry about posting this in Astrology, Randall! I'm on my phone and I didn't realise I was in the wrong forum.IP: Logged |
peony Newflake Posts: 22 From: U.S. Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 22, 2014 12:04 AM
Haven't been Pluto in a Sun/Pluto synastry aspect, but this sounds like his personal planet(s), like Mars triggering your Saturn, even the words you're using "huge wall," makes me think of Saturn. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 1836 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 22, 2014 12:30 AM
Unless it's 0°30, I've never felt it. And then I have REALLY felt it. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10299 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 22, 2014 12:47 AM
How are you Odette? IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4879 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 22, 2014 01:43 AM
Peony - You're right. It does sound like Saturn. My natal chart is pretty Saturnian. But our synastry doesn't have negative Saturn aspects *shrug* We have some close conjunctions - one of which is the Sun/Pluto - so I thought that might be the reason behind my coldness. Aubyanne - It's more like 0°01 or something crazy. It's extremely close, that's why I'm counting it. He doesn't have it in his own chart because he's 3 years younger than me. AG - Hey! I'm doing ok. I'm not stellar lol but still happy overall Hows you? I haven't been on as often as usual. I miss our fun chit-chatty threads. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10299 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 22, 2014 01:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Peony - You're right. It does sound like Saturn. My natal chart is pretty Saturnian. But our synastry doesn't have negative Saturn aspects *shrug* We have some close conjunctions - one of which is the Sun/Pluto - so I thought that might be the reason behind my coldness. Aubyanne - It's more like 0°01 or something crazy. It's extremely close, that's why I'm counting it. He doesn't have it in his own chart because he's 3 years younger than me. AG - Hey! I'm doing ok. I'm not stellar lol but still happy overall Hows you? I haven't been on as often as usual. I miss our fun chit-chatty threads.
I'm ok... Just working alot... I've been up since 6am yesterday and it's almost 2 in the morning now. I won't get off until 6am and then I have to drive 2 hours to get back home. Needless to say i'm drinking lots of coffee. I miss them too. Btw I think I had my birthtime wrong and I'm really a pisces ascendant. Weird huh?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10299 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 22, 2014 01:52 AM
Speaking of chit chatty threads... I started several in H&H that you never replied to! IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 4879 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 22, 2014 02:31 AM
Oh I'm extra sorry! I wasn't being a snob but I don't usually check H&H. I just made a new thread there, because others tried to contact me as well. Thanks for letting me know! And WoW.. A Pisces ascendant? Who'd have thunk it? That blew my mind lol What degree in Pisces? Do you know the exact time now?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 10299 From: Uranus Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 22, 2014 02:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Oh I'm extra sorry! I wasn't being a snob but I don't usually check H&H. I just made a new thread there, because others tried to contact me as well. Thanks for letting me know! And WoW.. A Pisces ascendant? Who'd have thunk it? That blew my mind lol What degree in Pisces? Do you know the exact time now?
It's ok. No I don't but it's in the early degrees. My venus also moves into the 12th which makes alot of sense.IP: Logged |
peony Newflake Posts: 22 From: U.S. Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 22, 2014 04:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: [B]Peony - You're right. It does sound like Saturn. My natal chart is pretty Saturnian. But our synastry doesn't have negative Saturn aspects *shrug* We have some close conjunctions - one of which is the Sun/Pluto - so I thought that might be the reason behind my coldness.
Hi Odette, if this is useful at all - the first thing that comes to mind is the question of how conscious and/or comfortable you are with your Pluto, your inner depths? For many people, Pluto is an unconscious area, except for its sexual aspects. If you've done a lot of work on yourself, delving, self probing, then you could serve as a healer for this person, or give them insight into their own unconscious. That's a more evolved expression of Pluto: "Pluto is a deity with the attributes of a serpent. He is a healer, a giver of health, spiritual and physical, and of enlightenment." But, if you haven't done a lot of this kind of work on yourself, and you identify or feel more comfortable with Saturn, then this person's Sun on your Pluto will likely feel uncomfortable. They could put a spot light on unconscious areas in you, in which case being very Saturnian, your defenses are likely going to mobilize. That's a possible explanation for the wall you're putting up. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 3936 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 22, 2014 11:48 AM
I'm Pluto with conjunction to her sun, Moon, and mercury. I think it depends on where and what Pluto is doing in the natal, IMO. Mine is first house conjunct ASC and really I'm just obsessed with and will fight to the death for my personal freedom. IP: Logged |
peony Newflake Posts: 22 From: U.S. Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 22, 2014 02:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: I'm Pluto with conjunction to her sun, Moon, and mercury. I think it depends on where and what Pluto is doing in the natal, IMO. Mine is first house conjunct ASC and really I'm just obsessed with and will fight to the death for my personal freedom.
First sentence: I agree. Second sentence: I think that can change the older one gets. I now see freedom linked to a state of consciousness, and less to external circumstances. I'm also a 1st house Pluto conjunct the ASC, and Moon conjunct Uranus. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 3936 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 22, 2014 04:44 PM
Yeah, I have Moon trine Uranus. lol My Pluto seems to be obsessed and wanting to change myself internally a lot. Mine only effects her if she tries to change me. I don't like that $hit!! IP: Logged |