posted January 10, 2015 02:41 PM              

For example:

Synastry:

1.Negative aspect: Person A's Uranus square Person B's Venus.

A postive aspect that might be able to blance the unstable uranian energy out might be: Person B's Saturn conjunct Person A's Venus.

2. Negative aspect: DW squares between mars- Sun/Mercury/Venus in synastry

Positive aspect: Sun, mercury, venus mars ALL conjunct in the composite.

posted January 10, 2015 08:06 PM            

There are some aspects that create more stress and tension than others, but that is why we are here: to learn, grow and transform. We could not do that, life would be extremely boring, and we'd never get anything done if everything was trines, sextiles, Venus, and Jupiter. All of those have "negative" parts of their nature as well.

I rather like Uranian energy (most of the time). I don't think the Venus square Uranus I have with my current love is bad. It challenges some of the parts of me that would prefer more stability, routine, and structure sometimes, but I take that to mean that even at my advanced age, given that I'm still breathing, I have more to learn and/or more to teach.

I have also grown to like my heavily Saturn influenced chart; what was extremely difficult when I was in my teens and 20s is actually rather freeing or comfortable now.

And I've learned that it is only through allowing myself to experience pain that I can heal and teach/contribute to the healing of others (Chiron). The only thing worse than experiencing emotionally painful situations is running from them.

posted January 11, 2015 01:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I would like to know first, what negative aspects in synastry and composite would be the worst of the worst and then what positive aspects, in your opinion, might cancel out or override the negative aspect.

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Despite what I said above, I do think that if a relationship is to last long-term, there are likely aspects/placements that help *balance* a chart, not "cancel out or override the negative."

But that works both ways too: a synastry or composite that is heavy with so-called positive aspects needs some squares, etc. to balance it and prevent inertia.

I'm not inclined to list specific planets, sign placements, house placements, or aspects as that would be as varied as the couples and the stars themselves.

posted January 13, 2015 02:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I would like to know first, what negative aspects in synastry and composite would be the worst of the worst and then what positive aspects, in your opinion, might cancel out or override the negative aspect.

For example:

Synastry:

1.Negative aspect: Person A's Uranus square Person B's Venus.

A postive aspect that might be able to blance the unstable uranian energy out might be: Person B's Saturn conjunct Person A's Venus.

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Hi Yanmorg, I can cite two highly regarded astrologers with diametrically opposite views on Venus-Saturn in synastry. Evangeline Adams spoke of the Venus-Saturn conjunction as an indicator of eternal friendship. But Liz Greene calls this an aspect "par excellence" of emotional rejection. I'd rather see a Saturn trine Venus rather than the conjunction.

I noticed that in two examples on the GREAT LOVE thread, Nancy and Ronald Reagan and Lunt and Fontaine, both synastry charts had a Moon-Uranus opposition. Given that the first couple were in politics and the second in the theater, the opposition was more indicative of the fast paced excitement of their lives. But for many people, I think the Moon-Uranus opposition could be difficult. Exceptions of course would be people who are attuned to Uranus, i.e., Moon-Uranus in major aspect in the natal chart or Uranus in the 7H. Like your example, I think a Saturn trine to the Moon and sextile to Uranus could bring in an element of stability and continuity that would steady the erratic unpredictability of Moon-Uranus.

posted January 13, 2015 05:16 AM            

We have venus square uranus exact, uranus square moon (5 degrees) in the synastry and Sun square uranus (2 degrees) in the composite.
Some of the factors why I think we committed to each other anyways, is that we have all these aspect in our natals. I have moon square uranus (2 degree) and he got uranus square venus (4 degree) and sun square uranus (2 degrees). So I think he is used to the energy, and so am I. He also got uranus in 7th house, I got uranus in 6th, and in composite we have uranus in 6th.

Another hard one is all our saturn. We have saturn square sun (1 degree), saturn square venus (5 degrees) and we also have saturn square venus in the composite (5 degrees). What I think override this is both the equally difficult uranus, both also our saturn in each others 7th house in synastry and in the composite, and jupiter!

We have jupiter square sun (1 degree), jupiter square venus (5 degree) and in the composite we have a love triangle with jupiter-moon-pluto all being trine. And jupiter trine moon is the tightest aspect in the composite.
My jupiter is in his 1st house and conjunct his ascendant. All this jupiter is able to override the serious saturn and have fun when uranus is most annoying.
Even though it's mostly squares all of it, I think it is balancing each other out someway.

At least, but maybe most frigthening we got a whole lot of NEPTUNE too. Sun square neptune is our most tight aspect, then we also have neptune square mercury in synastry. And in composite we have neptune square almost all planets, but every aspect is more than 6 degrees so I am not sure if they count (luckily).
My boyfriend got sun square neptune in his natal, and I have neptune square mercury natal. So my only hope is that we are able to see through the fog, also because we got a good portion of saturn!

posted January 13, 2015 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Sylven:
Coping with hard times you will find Jupiter conjunct Sun or Moon very handy! Preferably both (trine or conjunction) It will make you look at each other in all seriousness one moment and the next you will find yourselves suddenly bursting out in laughter forgetting the whole thing b cause most of the time it's not worth it. The serious looks probably looked too funny. I have this with my husband. Trine to the Sun and the other has it conjunct the Moon.

Also my astro teacher told me according to his research long married couples always have good Jupiter cross aspects. Makes sense!

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posted January 13, 2015 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Another hard one is all our saturn. We have saturn square sun (1 degree), saturn square venus (5 degrees) and we also have saturn square venus in the composite (5 degrees).
someway.

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Next to Neptune, if you don't mind my asking, who is the Saturn in the two synastry aspects and how does the Saturn-Venus manifest in the relationship?

posted January 13, 2015 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
What about squares ?

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It could make you overdo things and the possible consequences are ... ?? Seems to me the trine is more stable, flowing (as usual) and the conjunction more intensely involved. I dunno really... Jupiter squares are not as challenging as the others are right?

posted May 12, 2015 06:36 AM              

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I would like to know first, what negative aspects in synastry and composite would be the worst of the worst and then what positive aspects, in your opinion, might cancel out or override the negative aspect.

For example:

Synastry:

1.Negative aspect: Person A's Uranus square Person B's Venus.

A postive aspect that might be able to blance the unstable uranian energy out might be: Person B's Saturn conjunct Person A's Venus.

2. Negative aspect: DW squares between mars- Sun/Mercury/Venus in synastry

Positive aspect: Sun, mercury, venus mars ALL conjunct in the composite.

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My opinion - sun square Uranus and moon square moon are the worst aspects to have in synastry and are "uncancelleable." All others can be balanced out or depend on the natals if they can work it out or if it just brings out the worst in people.

posted May 12, 2015 06:41 AM              

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Originally posted by Sylven:
I would say if you have a lot of outer planets in square to personal planets and you also have Jupiter square it will eventually get over your head. Like it will feel way too much at times. But people with Scorpio, intense natal charts or Uranussy stuff could be needing this kind of excitement. Just my common sense, not my expertise.

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posted July 24, 2023 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Sylven:
I would say if you have a lot of outer planets in square to personal planets and you also have Jupiter square it will eventually get over your head. Like it will feel way too much at times. But people with Scorpio, intense natal charts or Uranussy stuff could be needing this kind of excitement. Just my common sense, not my expertise.

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