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Topic: Boyfriend disappeared on me-Karma?
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Aurora_girl1990
Knowflake Posts: 159
From: kuala lumpur,malaysia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 12, 2015 12:38 AM
  
My boyfriend has disappeared on me.I haven't heard from him in 5 days.Not a word and he has cleared out his skype account-removed pics and numbers.I'm obviously heartbroken and i was wondering if there's anything in the charts to suggest that i have outstanding karma with him for this to have happened. Note:I don't have his birth time so moon placement is not correct. Here are the charts: Natal charts: Me:
His:
Synastry wheel: 
Composite:
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 562
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 12, 2015 08:43 AM
I can't answer this from an astrological standpoint; but I am inclined to ask a few questions:
1. Do you live together?
2. How has your relationship been over the last month/two weeks?IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990
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From: kuala lumpur,malaysia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 12, 2015 10:47 AM
quote:
Originally posted by ikja:
I can't answer this from an astrological standpoint; but I am inclined to ask a few questions:
1. Do you live together?
2. How has your relationship been over the last month/two weeks?
1.No we don't live together.It's an online relationship but we have skped/mic often.
2.It has been good.Frankly we've been together for only 3 months so this is surprising IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990
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From: kuala lumpur,malaysia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 13, 2015 01:32 AM
Bump.Please help.anyone?IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted January 13, 2015 01:56 AM
Have you actually met him in person??
Online relationship is really unpredictable tho..IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990
Knowflake Posts: 159
From: kuala lumpur,malaysia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 13, 2015 03:55 AM
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Have you actually met him in person??
Online relationship is really unpredictable tho..
Not yet.We were supposed to meet up in a month. Yeah i know..But it still hurts.Regardless. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted January 13, 2015 04:10 AM
I don't think he is as serious about the 'relationship' as you are.. IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990
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From: kuala lumpur,malaysia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 13, 2015 06:57 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
I don't think he is as serious about the 'relationship' as you are..
why do you say that lisalisa?anything in the charts to say so? IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted January 13, 2015 07:14 AM
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Originally posted by Aurora_girl1990:
why do you say that lisalisa?anything in the charts to say so?
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Aurora_girl1990
Knowflake Posts: 159
From: kuala lumpur,malaysia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 13, 2015 08:49 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
No.. Common sense
oh okay.Thanks. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 9582
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted January 13, 2015 09:07 AM
I am sorry to hear about your experience He is almost your type, his Venus a little bit earlier would have been a hit.  His Moon is not your type though.------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990
Knowflake Posts: 159
From: kuala lumpur,malaysia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 13, 2015 09:18 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I am sorry to hear about your experience He is almost your type, his Venus a little bit earlier would have been a hit. His Moon is not your type though.
I'm sorry too Leeloo.Thanks though.And i do feel he's my type too,which is why this happening shocked me. Though his moon isn't right since i don't have his exact time of birth. By the way,is it possible to tell from the charts if i had any karma with him for this to have happen? IP: Logged |
Sylven
Knowflake Posts: 35
From: Netherlands
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted January 13, 2015 09:26 AM
Hi Aurora! I am so sorry, you must feel awful! Could it be he is in a committed relationship and things are not as they seem? If he is 'yours' he will come back. I know this probably doesn't make you feel better. You do deserve better. Someone who will let you know no matter what! A boy friend who does this might not be worth it, not worth the awesome you right? I don't know how frequent your conversations were though. Five days is not long for some people.
Letting go on your end would be a wise thing to do. Try and detach for a while. You can do that with Aqua Venus right?
I am sorry you're in this situation! Good luck and GO awesome you! You deserve the best!  IP: Logged |
Sylven
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From: Netherlands
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted January 13, 2015 09:32 AM
Oh and you have a Pluto/Venus conjunction in composite. That's a mission! Transformation. And it touches your IC.
You have Pluto sq Venus. Is your bond strong and intense? Could it be he is running? IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted January 13, 2015 10:10 AM
He has venus in 12th.. Could mean secret affair..IP: Logged |
Sylven
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From: Netherlands
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posted January 13, 2015 01:49 PM
She said time of birth is not known so it might be in 11th.IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted January 13, 2015 02:26 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Aurora_girl1990:
Not yet.We were supposed to meet up in a month.Yeah i know..But it still hurts.Regardless.
Yes for sure... Aww *hugs* Boys do disappear like this time to time tho.. Fingers crossed for you that he will come back.. IP: Logged |
Southern Sun
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From: USA
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 13, 2015 07:00 PM
Online relationships tend to fall into a pitfall like this. I've had a similar situation with a Pisces up and running after a few months of light and serious interaction. I would just cut my losses and move on--it's damaging to get hung up on a disappearing act. If he returns, then you may be in business. Maybe he is just taking a break to sort things out.IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 9582
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted January 14, 2015 09:09 AM
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Originally posted by Aurora_girl1990:
I'm sorry too Leeloo.Thanks though.And i do feel he's my type too,which is why this happening shocked me.Though his moon isn't right since i don't have his exact time of birth. By the way,is it possible to tell from the charts if i had any karma with him for this to have happen?
No need to jump at karma yet. Maybe he has personal problems, independent from your relationship. Many people seem to have those nowadays. Write him a letter and ask if his has problems you can help him with, if you can be of any assistance or if he prefers to handle them by himself. Ask him to let you know so that you don't worry about him. If he doesn't answer, it probably means he cut out the relationship between you two for whatever reason, and if he did, it's his loss. Or maybe he was married/engaged, so by disappearing he actually saved you from a lot of troubles. ------------------
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 1996
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 15, 2015 10:58 PM
Ooooh. Honey. Sorry to hear, Aurora. It's not karma, it's 'the breaks'. tPLUTO is creeping up on your generation's NEPTUNE. The tSUN is hovering around your nSATURN. And, tSATURN's just moved out of orb of your nJUNO (within the past few months). I think this is more of a lesson to be learnt than karma, per se. Your heart is a precious and sacred thing. Why on earth would you give it so blindly to a near-stranger? Now you know. Now you know WHY you don't do that. Cry, meditate, scream, and -- if that's your thing -- create art. You'll heal. It's a habit -- not a romance. I hate to say it, but without the true building blocks of a relationship -- honesty, loyalty, generosity and dedication -- you've got nothing. Online romances fail in this category almost as a matter of course. I'm genuinely sorry that he bailed as soon as you were nearing to meet (no coincidence there) but there are scads of cads like that fellow; none of them are worth your time. And should NEVER have access to your heart. Hang in there, sweetie.  IP: Logged |
Aurora_girl1990
Knowflake Posts: 159
From: kuala lumpur,malaysia
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 18, 2015 01:50 AM
Hi everyone,thank you very much for the replies.I would like to apologize for the late reply.
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Originally posted by Sylven:
Hi Aurora! I am so sorry, you must feel awful! Could it be he is in a committed relationship and things are not as they seem? If he is 'yours' he will come back. I know this probably doesn't make you feel better. You do deserve better. Someone who will let you know no matter what! A boy friend who does this might not be worth it, not worth the awesome you right? I don't know how frequent your conversations were though. Five days is not long for some people.
Letting go on your end would be a wise thing to do. Try and detach for a while. You can do that with Aqua Venus right?
I am sorry you're in this situation! Good luck and GO awesome you! You deserve the best!
*nods* YEah it's not worth the aweosome me.Well we used to talk daily ,so been gone for over a week now is something.Oh well.And yes i can detach pretty well with that Aqua venus.Thank you for the kind words *hugs*
quote:
Originally posted by Sylven:
Oh and you have a Pluto/Venus conjunction in composite. That's a mission! Transformation. And it touches your IC.
You have Pluto sq Venus. Is your bond strong and intense? Could it be he is running?
Well our bond happen quite fast actually.But i don't know about strong and intense.I might be too used to instense situations from having pluto sq venus natally so not the best person to ask.But i don't think he's running though.Best to cut my losses and move on i think.Thank you for helping me out quote:
Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Yes for sure... Aww *hugs*Boys do disappear like this time to time tho.. Fingers crossed for you that he will come back..
*hugs*
Though it has been over a week.Nothing.As the user above has said,i deserve someone who would actually tell me rather than just disappear on me without a word. quote:
Originally posted by Southern Sun:
Online relationships tend to fall into a pitfall like this. I've had a similar situation with a Pisces up and running after a few months of light and serious interaction. I would just cut my losses and move on--it's damaging to get hung up on a disappearing act. If he returns, then you may be in business. Maybe he is just taking a break to sort things out.
Maybe.But i deserve an explanation not a disappearing act.I know.That's why i've decided to cut my losses and move on. quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
No need to jump at karma yet. Maybe he has personal problems, independent from your relationship. Many people seem to have those nowadays. Write him a letter and ask if his has problems you can help him with, if you can be of any assistance or if he prefers to handle them by himself. Ask him to let you know so that you don't worry about him. If he doesn't answer, it probably means he cut out the relationship between you two for whatever reason, and if he did, it's his loss. Or maybe he was married/engaged, so by disappearing he actually saved you from a lot of troubles.
I did write him a letter in skype but no reply yet.I'll try yahoo but then that's it.If he can't be bothered to reply,then i can't be bothered to make an effort to have him in my life.
Thank you though quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Ooooh. Honey. Sorry to hear, Aurora. It's not karma, it's 'the breaks'. tPLUTO is creeping up on your generation's NEPTUNE. The tSUN is hovering around your nSATURN. And, tSATURN's just moved out of orb of your nJUNO (within the past few months). I think this is more of a lesson to be learnt than karma, per se. Your heart is a precious and sacred thing. Why on earth would you give it so blindly to a near-stranger? Now you know. Now you know WHY you don't do that. Cry, meditate, scream, and -- if that's your thing -- create art. You'll heal. It's a habit -- not a romance. I hate to say it, but without the true building blocks of a relationship -- honesty, loyalty, generosity and dedication -- you've got nothing. Online romances fail in this category almost as a matter of course. I'm genuinely sorry that he bailed as soon as you were nearing to meet (no coincidence there) but there are scads of cads like that fellow; none of them are worth your time. And should NEVER have access to your heart. Hang in there, sweetie.
Yeah you're right,i shouldn't have given it so easily to a near -stranger.Oh well.At least now i know better that's for sure.
And yes i'll get over him in time.*hugs*
Thank you.
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