posted January 15, 2015 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
there are many other aspects far worse than this one. look at the whole chart and as long as there are other aspects in the synastry that are strong it shouldn't be a major issue, at least initially. venus signs square just mean that you both value different things and have a different way of expressing affection and how you want affection expressed to you. the scorpio is likely to be much more introverted and one-on-one, and the leo more interested in large, grand displays of affection. it can eventually mean that you don't "get" how the other person wants to receive love and maybe the gifts you give don't resonate w/them, or your hobbies are quite dissimilar. i think moons or mars square if far worse, this is manageable.

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i agree!!! totally agree with you!! everything you said makes so much sense! i am in a relationship with someone with a venus incompatible with my venus and we are doing just fine even though i respect her way of expressing her love to me even though it is not that ideal with me i still see it as something beautiful it could be because we have (AMOR CONJUNCT NN DW) who knows...., thaaaank goooddd they don't square. i had that with someone before where our venuse's squared and it was awful the sex was not great at all even though we had DW trine venus mars...still our venus's with my ex was square by 2 degrees...horrible.

posted January 15, 2015 09:06 PM            

With the square it's work work work. You need to learn to accept differences, and make effort to learn and try to appreciate what other likes. Also, I think some
square signs are more difficult to handle, than others (for example, square between mutable signs would be much easier to handle, imo. They are more flexible and adaptable)

Here is a part from Cafe Astrology article: "Your "styles" with regards to expressing love and affection are dissimilar in some very important ways. Your interests, values, your socializing style, the clothes you wear, the way you decorate, and the ways you handle money are markedly different."

Now, me and my husband have this aspect. His Saggi Venus is square my Virgo Venus/Asc. When we just started dating, I was a bit confused, why he doesn't give flowers on special days... But then once he just randomly said that he doesn't think giving them is anything special.
Other than that, we don't have issues, not that I'm aware of anyway.

Why our square works so easily? Both Venuses are in Mutable signs. We are flexible and acceptable. Jupiter is our dominant planet (I have 4 placements, he has 2 and 4 planets in 9th House).
Also, my Virgo Venus makes aspect to Jupiter. His Saggi Venus makes aspect to 6th House ruler.

posted January 18, 2015 07:28 PM            

1) If two people have this venus sq venus aspect, but they are say both in cardinal signs like aries venus and cancer venus, can that somehow take away some of the hardness of the square?

posted March 24, 2018 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
^ You can't have Venus square Venus natally, your interpretation was a tad dramatic also.

This aspect means you will turned off by the other persons aesthetic. I met a girl over the summer, we became quick friends. I was grossed out by her aesthetic at first, I thought it didn't suit her at all. I got over it though. It's who she is.

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lol now that you mention it, it might be about fashion. Zhis guy i have it with i once saw him in tights... i never saw a man in tights before i was like wtf i still like him but... tights really? he has pisces venus and i have gemini one

posted March 24, 2018 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
^ You can't have Venus square Venus natally, your interpretation was a tad dramatic also.

This aspect means you will turned off by the other persons aesthetic. I met a girl over the summer, we became quick friends. I was grossed out by her aesthetic at first, I thought it didn't suit her at all. I got over it though. It's who she is.

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THIS.

Literally.

My bf’s best friend and I have this in synastry. I was initially shocked to see his Mars exactly conjunct my Venus in Virgo because I found no attraction to him AT ALL. But then I noticed his Venus in Gemini was square mine. I still think he’s kinda gay (I don’t mean homo, I mean lame) because of the music he listens to, the words he chooses to use, how he dresses, what he finds attractive, his idea of romance, etc. He’s very feminine.