posted January 23, 2015 12:24 PM            

I'm not surprised, tbh. He just needs a break from the relationship. Google the 'Scorpio disappearing act' and read what you can find. There are lots of questions about that, too, on Yahoo for instance or astrology forums. Maybe do a search here too (LindaLand search engine).

posted January 23, 2015 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Whutchsn:
Peluches...

Thank you so so much.!! I would really appreciate it. I've never had our charts looked at before.
And Yes. I've read that before about the Scorpio disappearing acts. Numerous of times. But for 2 months? It's a power struggle between us with all of my Pluto energy. He always wins though.

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Yes, I suppose it can go up to two months with Scorpios.

Is his birth time correct ?

This synastry is not bad really for two people born only a few days apart ! Libra and Scorpio Suns, although not traditionally compatible, get on together as they're 'relationship signs' (H7, H8), and you have a Scorpio ASC, he has Libra energy too, to balance it out. Moons are sextile and Pluto/Moon relationships are really binding -- you've got a DW.

The only obstacle here would be the power struggles. His Mars at a 29th degree (karmic degree) and retrograde shows issues with Mars energy on his side and probably clashes with your strong Mars in Aries. Saturn/Mars square natally and in synastry (naturally) with a DW indicates undeniable sexual attraction at the beginning... but Saturn gets fed up with Mars and sometimes starts hating the energy. Almost everything Mars says or does annoys Saturn, makes him angry. I'd say, luckily his Saturn square your Mars is an out of sign aspect and therefore it had less influence than your Saturn square his Mars ; you would resonate more with the Saturn person here.

Uranus square Mars both ways is also quite tricky, though it's good for sexual attraction. Uranus/Mars and Saturn/Mars as well as all negative aspects can be overcome with emotional maturity. Sometimes, a certain transit or progression will trigger the aspect, while others can soften it. I would need to know if the birth times are correct to see the significance of these.

posted January 23, 2015 03:49 PM            

7066,157,447,1221,3811,6583,1585,390,433,16

And in the 'Additional objects' box, select from Vertex to Vesta.

posted January 23, 2015 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Whutchsn:
Thank you so much! Yes. I will post the composite and add the asteroids right now. We also both have Venus Square Saturn in our natals and synastry. Mine is an 8 degree orb. His is a tight 1 degree orb. I was hoping the fact that both of us have this aspect makes it easier to deal with. My Moon is trine his Sun- it's a 5 degree orb though. Also his moon is in my 7th house. And our strongest aspect is Sun sextile Saturn. I was hoping all of these would help deal with the strong Saturn energy. And I agree, he does have Mars issues. I feel like he has issues with asserting himself. I am posting the composite now. I really appreciate this.

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Thanks ! I'm assuming his TOB is not correct since you entered 12:00 PM. Have you tried guessing ?

posted January 23, 2015 05:43 PM            

Synastry with Asteroids:

Composite:

posted January 23, 2015 05:48 PM            

Your Moon and your Sun in the 12th house give you a lot of Piscean energy, which is good because his North Node is in Pisces and shows where he needs to evolve. Your Moon especially is not far from his NN. I even think you can count that as a conjunction.

posted January 23, 2015 08:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Whutchsn:
Peluches...

Thank you so so much.!! I would really appreciate it. I've never had our charts looked at before.
And Yes. I've read that before about the Scorpio disappearing acts. Numerous of times. But for 2 months? It's a power struggle between us with all of my Pluto energy. He always wins though.

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posted January 23, 2015 08:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Pretty Theft:
Two months? I don't think you have a boyfriend anymore, to be honest.

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posted January 23, 2015 11:33 PM            

Okay, let's start. You have very good house overlays, his Mars in your H5 and his Jupiter in your H8 for sexual attraction, his Moon in your H7 for romance. His Sun and Pluto in your H1 indicate physical attraction. Your relationship rulers are also well aspected. Your R5 is Neptune and you have Neptune/Moon DW. This shows that you are both sensitive people who get on well emotionally. This is good for romance, too. Very sweet. Your H7 and H8 are ruled by Venus, which adds importance to Venus in your chart when it comes to relationships (adding to the fact that Venus is already about relationships). You have a DW Venus/Nessus conjunction. Now Nessus is traditionally associated with abuse, but I see it more as obsession -- especially with Venus -- unless Dejanira (the victim asteroid) is also involved, which is not the case. Venus/Nessus and Pluto/Moon DWs show the intensity of the relationship.

Concerning Huber degrees contacts, your Nodal axis is at 11 Leo/Aquarius and is square both your natal Plutos (and composite Pluto naturally) exactly, at 11 Scorpio. Squares to the Nodes and to the Vertex axis show karmic issues in the relationship. Here, I would think this has to do with transformation, obsession, beginnings, endings, secrets or disappearance -- just Scorpio things. Your natal Vertex is square your natal Nodes, indicating rather strong and/or important karma. Your Huber Sun at 28 Pisces is tightly conjunct his natal Mars at 29 Pisces, which is very good for physical attraction on his side. We also know that the composite Mars is not far at 0 Aries and is therefore conjunct your huber Sun. This would show that the relationship brings up Mars energies in you -- anger, passion, etc. And that makes you very much involved in the Mars/Saturn and Mars/Uranus aspects we talked about earlier (keep in mind that they always have the same placements, so your huber Sun is conjunct his (and your) natal Mars, composite Mars ; square his (and your) natal Saturn and Uranus, composite Saturn and Uranus... that's a lot). Your huber Moon is at 5 Leo, opposite both your Pallas asteroids at 3 Aquarius. Synastry-wise, when this occurs, the Pallas person (him) can read the Moon person very well, picks up their emotions and can almost read their mind, as Pallas is the 3rd eye, the pineal gland. This telepathy thing is enhanced by your Neptune/Moon DW and gives a real sense of understanding in the relationship.

Your huber Venus is at 18 Aquarius, opposite his love asteroid Valentine at 20 Leo and the composite Valentine at 19 Leo. Wow, this is really sweet ! Valentine is about true, sacrificial love, it's the higher octave of Neptune. Combined with Venus, this shows a very loving relationship.