posted January 24, 2015 01:20 PM            

My first time poster here. I am new at this thing.

What do you think, what are the "must have" placements in partners´ compatibility chart for a good, long term relationship?
What are good to have?
What placements will be fatal?
And what are not "fatal", but will cause problems in long term?

An example from me and my boyfriends compatibility report:
"Must have":
- My Emotions combine with his Self-Mastery - which means:'Emotional bond' (1st house moon)
- His Emotions combines with my Security - 'Deep Connection' (4th house Moon)
- My Sensuality flows with his Vitality extremely (Sun trine Venus)
- My Assertion works with his Sensuality extremely (Venus sextile Mars)
- My Intuition combines with his Self-Mastery - 'Self directed Action' (1st house Uranus)
- My Sensuality flows with his Emotions strongly (Moon trine Venus)

Good to have:
- My Vitality combines with his Experience - 'Looking to the Horizon' (9th House Sun)
- His Vitality combines with my Upheaval - 'Working Together' (8th House Sun)
- My Mind combines with his Profession - 'The Professionals' (10th House Mercury)
- His Mind combines with my Upheaval - 'Unconscious bond' (8th House Mercury)
- My Sensuality combines with his Experience - 'The Travelers' (9th house Venus)
- His Sensuality combines with my Experience - 'The Travelers' (9th house Venus)
- His Assertion combines with my Innovation - 'The Activists' (11th house Mars)
- My Expansion combines with his Self-Mastery - 'Self directed Action' (1st house Jupiter)
- His Expansion combines with my Profession - 'Striving for recognition' (10th house Jupiter)
- My Vitality unites with his Conditioning extremely (Sun conjunct Saturn)
- My True Node works with his Conditioning extremely (Saturn sextile True node)
- My Subconscious flows with his Conditioning strongly (Saturn trine Neptune)
- His Intuition combines with my Learning - 'Learning through communication' (3rd house Uranus)
- My Subconscious combines with his Possessiveness - 'Finding material security'(2nd house Neptune)
- His Subconscious combines with my Learning (3rd house Neptune)

May cause problems:
- My Emotions challenges with his Expansion extremely (Moon inconjunct Jupiter)
- My Emotions can confuse with his Mind extremely (Mercury Semi-square Moon)
- My Assertion combines with his Upheaval - 'The Dare Devils' (8th house Mars)
- My Expansion opposes with his Sensuality extremely (Venus opposition Jupiter)
- My Expansion challenges with his Expansion extremely (Jupiter inconjunct Jupiter)
- My Expansion can confuse with his Mind extremely (Mercury semisquare jupiter)
- My Conditioning challenges with his Sensuality extremely (Venus inconjunct Saturn)
- My Intuition flows with his Assertion extremely (Mars trine Uranus)
- My Mind clashes with his Subconscious strongly (Mercury square Neptune)
- My Environment opposes with his Subconscious extremely (Neptun opposition MidHeaven)

Possibly "fatal" for long term relationship:
- My Emotions opposes with his Sensuality extremely (Moon opposition Venus)
- My Intuition challenges with his Vitality strongly (Sun inconjunct Uranus)
- My Assertion can confuse with his Subconscious extremely (Neptune semisquare Mars)

Did I put it right? What aspects are important for the relationship to work? I have been together with my bf for over a year and it is going well.
I am worried about "My Emotions opposes with his Sensuality extremely (Neptune semisquare Mars)" though.

posted January 27, 2015 05:51 PM            

Better to post the synastry, lists are hard to read