posted January 30, 2015 09:08 AM            

Sun trine saturn
Moon trine saturn
Venus square saturn
Venus semisquare saturn
Mars semi square saturn
North node conjunct saturn
Saturn conjunct neptune
Saturn parallel northnode
Saturn semisquare.north node..

Actually therr are a few more..im just listing the ones on top of my head! Also there were a few doubles whammies... and all of them are within 5 orb.

posted January 30, 2015 09:26 AM            

There are other things in our synastry that work against us, like sun inconjunct sun exact, but even when apart, we manage to be on good terms. I've often said she was the best ex a man could want. We just don't work as a couple for whatever reason. Someday after I understand composites better I'll look at ours...

posted January 30, 2015 02:16 PM            

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Originally posted by sc0rpioRising:
Hi both. Thank you for your replies... i did wonder about the uranus aspects....we also have venus conjunct uranus, venus square uranus, sun trine uranus and moon trine uranus. And uranus is in my 1st house. We also had a lot of 12th and 8th house overlays... i just thought that saturn would outweigh uranus...but it doesnt seem that way. There is a definate pull from.my end to always want to keep in contact... but things ended on bad terms.. i have his number... he has mine... if he wanted to talk he knows im here.. but we are both too reluctant and too afraid of anymore pain to initaite anything. Most of the saturn contacts are from his part amd he made the decision to move away... which i do see was the wise decision because we couldnt not continue the way we were...the way it was.. but im suprised him being the saturn person has not once wanted to contact me... is that expected?

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posted January 30, 2015 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Sun square Saturn-
You never forget the other person, you think about them and feel connected even sometimes for decades afterwards but being together just isn't in the cards for you!

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The aspect listed is a Sun trine Saturn.

posted January 30, 2015 05:49 PM            

Whether Saturn is binding rather than separating depends on the overall synastry. A preponderance of harmonious planetary aspects and geometry, or the configurations that are mutually created are powerful. Even when hard Saturn aspects are involved, those configurations and supportive aspects can overcome the more difficult ones.

Having said that, sometimes, the difficulties lie mostly in one individual's chart, and not so much in the synastry. If a person is emotionally crippled, immature, or fearful, it's less likely even a great synastry is going to overcome that person's inhibitions or insufficient capacity for relationship. That's been my experience anyway.

In Magi astrology, Saturn aspects in synastry, whether hard or soft, are referred to as "captivations." The Saturn person has the control and the planet person is one who experiences the captivation. This can work out if both are Saturn in an equal number of aspects, but not when one person is Saturn in most or all of them. From my experience, Venus square Saturn in synastry is tough, mostly for Venus. Saturn tends to rebuff the affections of Venus, or have times when they're distant or cool.

A friend of mine has had several significant relationships involving her Venus in hard aspect to the other's Saturn. Although the relationships ended, she's kept a long term friendship with these people over many years.

posted January 30, 2015 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
questions like this strike me as bizarre. just because you see saturn in synastry it doesn't equate to binding synastry or mean that the two people will never part/separate. so many chart factors can make or break a couple, and other aspects will all play a role. i had saturn conjunct to venus both ways with someone - are we married? no. did we ever speak again after the break-up? no. we were only together 3 years. so, was saturn a big deal and binding? no. and he was saturn-ruled. saturn can help a couple stay together longer - perhaps even longer than they should since saturn will "work things out." but just seeing saturn in the chart won't mean it's forever. you can't really expect anything from any aspect just because you read that it *should* happen that way. if you have saturn contacts in synastry and a person wants nothing to do with you then there is something else at play you're overlooking.

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Exactly. Ryan Adams and Mandy Moore, who are now divorcing after 5 years, have mutual strong Saturn contacts: Her Saturn on his Sun and Venus, his Saturn squaring her Sun. Did this bind them? Maybe. Did it save them? No.