posted January 31, 2015 03:48 PM            

I’m a sucker for a great sense of humor, someone who can crack a funny joke, and someone who does not always take everything too seriously, who can have a good laugh the absurdities of life. However, he would take his morel code and sense of honor seriously. I like when a guy has principles and actually cares about doing the right thing by others. This is sort of a turn on for me. And about the ‘well-traveled and educated thing’ associated with Sag, I definitely like it when a guy is intelligent, a thinker, and has an interesting past of some kind, as well has having a fun side. I’d love to have lots of stimulating discussions with my guy.

posted January 31, 2015 07:49 PM            

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But...why do you ask, Gabby?

posted January 31, 2015 08:09 PM            

I met this guy with a saggy Venus exact opposed my gem Mars. I feel like I'm such a weirdo when we talk, but he seems to eat it up? Somehow he always gets me to talk about things I don't normally tell ppl because I'm sure they would look at me like I'm crazy. He's started taking some of the homeopathic cleanse I take to get rid of heavy metals.
He doesn't judge, he wants to know what has made me fall in love with others in the past, that's usually a taboo subject with guys?
So I was just wondering about his saggy Venus, I don't personally know any.

posted January 31, 2015 10:37 PM            

I'm familiar with that feeling...where it feels like someone is drawing me out of myself, listening where people usually don't listen...sorta like wandering into the dark blindfolded since I'm revealing "untested" material...makes me feel a bit wobbly.

Anyway! If it matters, I've always been matter-of-fact and curious about exes, too. An astrologer I trust once told me this is a function of my Sag Venus, wanting to learn (Sag keyword) about love (Venus.) Wanting to know everything about it! And I was pretty shocked the first time I offended a guy by trying to "pry" into his past or just be real about the fact that I had been in love before. (Sheesh, people take things so seriously! )

The Scorpio suns I've known are genuinely interested in knowing people deeply, so it seems fitting that your guy was fishing around for all kinds of details about your life.

I like what you said about how Scorpio NN causes you to make unconventional life decisions ~ that honestly never occurred to me before but yes...I'm the same way. (Same NN.)

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posted February 01, 2015 12:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

The Scorpio suns I've known are genuinely interested in knowing people deeply, so it seems fitting that your guy was fishing around for all kinds of details about your life.

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i certainly agree with you it's more because of his scorpio sun considering that he also has scorpio in his mercury less about him having a venus in sagitarrius.

@ Gabby
What is it about a relationship, a person that makes it and them irresistible to you?
Also what aspects did you have with the people you fell in love with?

i' am obviously a female but i will give you my perspective of a female venus in sag, my name asteroid, my DNA, my pallas all conjunct the Great Attractor all in sagitarrius in the 3rd house,i love rock n roll, have long hippie wavy hair, world music, love to sing all kinds of music but preferably brazilian bossa/jazz/folk.

i loooove trying different kinds of foods, i love culture and i honor my own culture. i have long wavy hair i put no products what so ever not like a venus in leo kind of gal etc. i don't wear make up i' m natural i love natural beauty. I'm very honest straight forward when it comes to love. I need stimulation in all of my relationships i get bored i do but i don't cheat buuuut if there are no strong moon/juno aspects which i've had with my previous partners before i will leave the relationship in less than 2 years i will not stay in a relationship with someone if they are not in love with life, see life as a FUN time which i see it, see life as a way to explore your purpose in life which is totally sag in venus =) i love to wear black and i love to wear dark colors that seem untraditional and taboo because that's what venus in sag's are into unique artistic unconventional ways of dressing, i do have a rock n roll esthetic to my style which i've met plenty of venus in sag's that are into rock n roll and are hippie and have this earthiness to them. i' m attracted to people who are funny and have a great sense of humor, that are from a different culture, the relationship is not traditional it's unique it's different.

if you wanna know more about venus in sag there is this girl on youtube that explains her placement for venus in sag really RIGHT ON! annnnddd she has a scorpio sun with a rising sag so she's got sag prominent in her natal.

i remember her saying something that is so true about venus in sag that those with prominent venus in sag in there chart often are seeking relationships that will TEACH them, will EVOLVE them, will DISCOVER things about ourselves to grow because we are constantly wanting to grow and learn allll the time, we want to know everything about life, what life can teach us and shape us as better beings on this planet, THAT is what we Venus IN Sag desire for, we desire to be with TEACHER. we are constantly searching for answers in our lives and we seek a partner that will help us find those answers and once that partner finds us those answers sadly but true we fall out of love for them because they no longer can teach us anything anymore, we learned everything that we were supposed to learn from that person that we loved and if i' m not learning or being taught something in my relationship then there is no need for me to stay in a relationship if i' m not learning anything anymore from that person. i' am not looking for someone to cuddle the night away, I'm not someone who will stay with someone forever just because they are loyal faithful and are stable like a venus in cancer, scorpio, taurus will etc. i' m looking for someone who is going to constantly teach me karmic lessons and things about myself, about life, about spirituality, about philosophy, about why i' am here existing, breathing, etc. that is what i find MOST attractive with a soulmate who will be constantly be teaching me about myself spiritually and physically in this life and who also has a taste in art which is why i also have venus in sag in the 3rd house and which has a strong place in my life, yeah anyways here is the youtube video

I'm sorry i wrote too much i' am just very passionate and in love with topic because i truly am connected to having a prominent venus in sag in my natal.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OH1ltOxWch4&spfreload=10

oh and i've dated a mars in gemini before which i enjoyed muuuch more than a mars in leo. the person with a mars in gemini had a lot of aquarius which i found also very stimulating because they were constantly feeding intellectual information to me which is also something i find super attractive.i was also with a sun and moon gemini but didn't work out because they were opposing my venus so i just felt like i was lied to, tricked, betrayed etc.

posted February 01, 2015 02:11 AM            

I can't believe how much I have in common with you saggy Venus ppl, I guess I shouldn't be to surprised I have a saggy stellium.

I've been searching for my teacher forever but I never have found one so I just keep teaching myself. I can't stop learning or I get frustrated with life. Thankfully my gemini Mars absorbs information so quickly, like a sponge.

I also can't do gemini Suns, my ex was a gemini Sun...I always felt he was lying about things to.

posted February 01, 2015 09:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Angel4845, that was awesome!! I so appreciated your post!

I can't believe how much I have in common with you saggy Venus ppl, I guess I shouldn't be to surprised I have a saggy stellium.

I've been searching for my teacher forever but I never have found one so I just keep teaching myself. I can't stop learning or I get frustrated with life. Thankfully my gemini Mars absorbs information so quickly, like a sponge.

I also can't do gemini Suns, my ex was a gemini Sun...I always felt he was lying about things to.

I have Uranus conjunct his scorp NN, I feel very comfortable telling him all my oddities, my crazy ideas, even how I became so weird...I usually try to hide that stuff. Lol

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thank you gabby! it was an honor to share my life with you being a venus in sag and having prominent sag in my natal =D and yeeees i' m glad you understand about gemini sun's goooodddd i was with a double gemini sun and moon and i just felt i couldn't believe a word that person was saying in my life i stopped taking that person seriously in my life and i felt like i was always the one trying to make things work in the relationship and that gemini was just sitting chillin' and taking advantage and coming up with sooooo many excuses in there life. sorry not a llll gemini's are like this but this one was, and i' m glad you solo understand. yes and i' m not surprised that you love to absorb information your like a sponge! that's great! =D i'm glad we can relate ! and that's great that you have that connection with him! sounds awesooooome.

posted February 06, 2015 11:59 AM            

I agree with much that's already been said.

Saggies/sag venus are looking for a partner in crime. We want a friend and a lover rolled into one. I can't tell you how many times in life that I've had great chemistry with someone but ended up breaking things off because their energy levels were just not equal with mine (I've had this problem with every Earth person I've dated).
Cause we need and want adventures in and out of the bedroom.

posted February 06, 2015 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
I have venus in sag, and I used to be in a relationship with a guy who has it too.

I agree with much that's already been said.

Saggies/sag venus are looking for a partner in crime. We want a friend and a lover rolled into one. I can't tell you how many times in life that I've had great chemistry with someone but ended up breaking things off because their energy levels were just not equal with mine (I've had this problem with every Earth person I've dated).
Cause we need and want adventures in and out of the bedroom.

My ex that was also Sag Venus used to do things like plan day trips without me knowing, and just show up at my door. I loved it.
He was rarely ever a drag. Always up for a good time. We never expect people to do things we wouldn't do (so no "I gotta get up early for work tomorrow" stuff because, so do we!)
We try to live in the moment and REALLY appreciate someone who can do the same.

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That's so cool, I love that aspect. To me it sounds like this Venus wants a play-pal with love, n benefits! That sounds fun!

posted February 07, 2015 08:05 AM            

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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
You got it Doll!

Being in love with your best friend is where it's at.

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