posted February 11, 2015 11:06 AM            

Why the sad face?

What should I be worried about that I'm not yet worried about?

posted February 11, 2015 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I read that it's bad and that one shouldn't have too much expectations for such relationship

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That's only one placement. What about the strength of the synastry and composite overall, and the planetary geometry, if any?

Mars-Uranus can be a problem if and when the parties try to dominate and control each other, but I wouldn't make a prediction about a relationship based on one aspect alone.

posted February 11, 2015 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I read that it's bad and that one shouldn't have too much expectations for such relationship

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Can you elaborate? Bad in what way?

I don't think anything is "bad". Your bad might be my good or vice versa. I can't find anything in particular about it online.

posted February 12, 2015 04:00 AM            

But I found this:

"An intense quality of impatience, and an inability to wait, or restrain or thoughtfully consider your actions, are innate aspects of this relationship. "I want what I want and I want it NOW!" is the feeling you will both have. There is an impulsive, rebellious, dare-devilish, I-can-do-whatever-I-want quality which infuses your relationship with excitement but also makes it unpredictable and unstable. If either of you has a problem with temper or a tendency toward violence, unfortunately this will be acted out in sudden and erratic ways. Even if you don't have these tendencies, you two can be dangerous together because you make one another reckless. You can be wild and free together -but also very defiant and easily provoked.

Sexually there is an electric excitement and energy between you that comes and goes. You are apt to be highly adventurous -if not downright deviant - as sexual partners. Unless other factors indicate otherwise, however, tenderness and softness may be lacking."

Parts of this are true for us. We met when both of us had lots of life stuff going on an we were both very impatient to get things moving. We've sort of settled into the idea that things are just going to have to take their time.

We have lots of fun, spontaneous adventures together.

He can be a bit impatient, not just with me though. He's just like that. But I just tell him to chill out. Tenderness and softness is not lacking and neither of us is prone to violence.

As was said one aspect does not make the whole relationship.

Is there something specific that you are concerned about?

posted February 12, 2015 04:17 AM            

Here's another thing I found out:

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Composite Mars in hard aspect to Uranus (From astro.com)
The opposition of Mars and Uranus in the composite chart requires the two of you to have a great deal of flexibility. With this aspect it is very difficult to let things be. Usually you get into a very competitive situation in which you are constantly trying to goad each other. Each person's self-expression becomes a challenge to the other.
Sometimes the relationship itself takes such an unusual turn that you will find it very difficult to pursue in ordinary society. Other people often cannot tolerate such an "impossible" relationship because it is such a challenge to their way of looking at life. Something about the way you act together does defy society at large.
Obviously a relationship with this aspect should find a social setting that is extremely tolerant of the unusual. At the same time the two of you must also be unusually tolerant of the unusual. Trouble is often caused if you try to make this relationship into something ordinary."

And for us what is true is that we have a tendency to both want to be right on certain things. Like "that song is from 1999". "No, no. It was 1996", etc until we need to get out the Google to prove who was right. We do that about a lot of topics and we've already noticed we need to stop.LOL

I don't know if our relationship is really that "unusual" but we both have life circumstances that make having a "normal" relationship difficult for now. We are working on it slowly. But maybe we will never be able to get it together and we stay together in an "unusual" situation (always live apart?) or we shake hands and say "It was nice knowing you". We'll have to see.

In the meantime, the fun and exciting aspect of it is fun and exciting!

We have Mars in 11 & Uranus in 8. The square is exact. It's also square Pluto but at 7 deg orb. Uranus is conj Pluto in 8 but by 7 degs.

posted February 13, 2015 07:49 AM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
Yes, you are being obsessed, Lucie

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Ok. Leave my Scorpio alone! It's your fault anyway. :P LOL

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from astro.com:
"A personal relationship with this aspect is most likely to be successful if you have few expectations for it. With the square of Mars and Uranus in your composite chart, the two of you are especially impatient of objectives that "must" be attained. This relationship will take its own course.

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This is true for us. We both have a gizillion restrictions and things in the way in each of our lives and we were extremely impatient for things to move. They are moving now. Slowly. We are less impatient now.

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[b]This is not an especially good aspect if you hope to establish some type of permanent bond. Nor is it very good for a business relationship, for example, in which there are definite objectives to be gained. Such a relationship is not impossible, but you must allow a great deal of room for the unexpected and for sudden change. Almost certainly there is something here that goes against social convention. If that fact restricts either of you, it will be even more difficult.

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We now have no expectations. It really does work better this way. Perhaps it won't. We'll see.

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On the positive side, one thing is certain. If you are looking for a stimulating relationship that will bring something new into your world, this is it. Just give yourselves room to move.[/B]

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This is true! We do push each other towards new and exciting things that we wouldn't do alone.

Astrology freaks me out sometimes.

How about you? Are you seeing this manifest itself in your relationship?

posted February 13, 2015 02:20 PM            

I have Mars sq Uranus in Composite with my "ex." We were together 8 years; lived together 5 of those years. We're still friends 2 years later, so a total of 10 years (and I suspect will remain friends the rest of our lives).

We'd probably still be living together if he weren't an alcoholic with no desire to quit drinking.

None of the descriptions posted so far resonate much with me, except that we certainly aren't socially conventional.

posted February 13, 2015 08:10 PM            

@aubyanne: look like my highly uranian chart would have similar ending.

@Delilah: I would definitely define your relationship as long termed. I am glad to hear your experiences. I haven't had too good experiences with my roommates and I'm sure synastry and other aspects definitely matter but Mars-square-uranus isn't mentiomed in report for celebrities ... I've seen Mars-neptune tho

posted December 16, 2015 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I have been researching this aspect a bit today.

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Synchronicity! It came up yesterday in a composite thread that I posted, so I'm interested too.

That relationship is certainly unconventional and honesty compels me to admit that while I think he's ace and am glad that I met him, the relationship itself has not been a whole bundle of fun.

I find it interesting, though (in ref to Delilah423's comment), that while the relationship is difficult to define and very unpredictable, it is at the same time fairly enduring. The events in it have been plenty enough us to Never Speak Again, but we still do and we still like each other. I don't know if that's Mars-Uranus or other aspects, but I find that the more I relax, have faith in both of us and stop trying to direct it anywhere, the better it works.

posted December 14, 2022 09:39 PM            

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Originally posted by malicefey:
As others have said already, don't doom a relationship just by one aspect. Astrology aside, I'm sure there are always ways to navigate through difficulties between two people, if they are committed to it.

My girl friend has composite Mars square Uranus AND Saturn with her boyfriend of almost 5 years. They recently bought a house together and are planning to get married soon in the near future. They are quite different from one another, but they always come back, sit down, and talk things through like adults after their arguments and fights. Yes, their arguments can be bad where it can leave her crying. But at the end of the day they are able to sit down and talk like adults and learn to meet in the middle. That's how they were able to survive for 5 years (and ongoing). They have composite Mars in Aries square Uranus in late degree Sagittarius.

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Sorry but if a guy hasn't proposed in 5 years, there is a chance he never will.

Mars/Uranus square is about infidelity as far as I am aware. Some celebs may have it, but you never know what is going on behind the public mask of any marriage (celeb or non celeb). If you need advice, you see it in a composite, then RUN. This is one of the classic make or break aspects in relationships.

Unless there is great support from Saturn and Pluto in both synastry and the composite, don't do the Mars/Uranus square.

posted December 18, 2022 06:50 AM            

Maybe the generations who don't have that opposition have a better chance.

Maybe there's less pain involved.

IE, because a square from Mars will not form a T-square in the chart, which involves Chiron.

And then, too, to their own natal charts.