posted February 21, 2015 04:41 PM            

It's been a while since I've posted but I am here today with a question about this synastry/composite. Here's the story:

You know how sometimes you can see something that a FB friend has liked because the little system has decided that you might like it too? Well, a FB friend liked a picture of someone that I went to high school with. I didn't even think that she would know someone that I could possibly know. Maybe wishful thinking (I tend to cut people off...), but she is an older women and someone I volunteer with (she's 60, I'm 35). Well it turns out her son has been best friends with the high school guy since they were little. So, anyway about this guy: In high school he was very quiet, shy. I didn't know too much about him because he flew under the radar. I had one class with him, and I only remember that because I had a huge crush on the guy he sat next to. So fast forward to now...WOW! This man is so handsome and smart and sexy and distinguished now! He still lives in my home town, but he works in NYC (like most of us do, myself included). Plus - he is still single...

I wondered why he hasn't married because, wow, he is tall, handsome, good job, sense of humor - a catch. I did some investigative work and found out that, of course, he is a horndog douchebag. He even made it to a site that skewers jerky men in the online dating community. One woman went to far as to call him a "sociopath". I actually feel that he is misunderstood and I kinda understand why, knowing what I know about him from HS to now. But, "sociopath"? That doesn't sound like the sweet, quiet boy that I remember...

So now I have a huge high school-style crush on this guy. Yes, even knowing what I know and seeing what I see (I've seen his online personals and Tinder, all of which specify "short term relationship"), I still want him. For some reason I think he is perfect (although, writing this, I am starting to come to my senses)...

I vaguely remember him "liking" me or "flirting" with me on some dating site several years ago, but back then I was immediately like "Ewww! High school dude??? No way!!!" <<pass>> I know I am his "type" too, although we have different tastes and values (he's a rap-r&b white guy and I'm a rock and roll black girl - yup, our opposing Venuses really show, but we both dress really well - very tailored and professional). I actually see working with him in some capacity - we work in the same field with different titles - and we both have star potential and dreams (and looks, sorry, I can be a cocky Leo). I mean, I know I can "have" him (ahem, I'm sure half the town has, ahem) but I don't want a fling, he seems like the real deal to me...

Anyway, how does our synastry and composite look? Can I tame this savage beast?

posted February 21, 2015 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by downtomars:
Yikes - It's funny you say that (or not so funny actually) because my cousin said that he seems "crazy" when I asked her "Crazy, how?" she said "Scott Peterson crazy"...

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Yep!

posted February 21, 2015 07:26 PM            

It's only (semi) common knowledge that I used to be a profiler. Why I chose against cementing myself into that life (in the FBI) is a longer story, but suffice it to say, love is a very, very powerful force. Incredible, I'd say.

Unevolved human beings, on the other hand ... I've had up-close-and-personal experience with some of the worst.

In my own experience, as an astrologer, (25 years) I've seen that the homicidal degrees DO carry weight. Granted, unless you're dealing with a homicidal personality, it's far less likely to result in homicide.

But, the first thing you learn in LE work is how most foul play stems from a domestic dispute, involving people who love each other. Crimes of passion.

posted April 23, 2015 12:49 PM            

So, I did a little asteroid digging to see what came up:

Is anyone seeing what I'm seeing? (I'm blue, he's red). I used some of the lusty asteroids and, of course. I also notice that his Bacchus is mere minutes away from his Casanova - that explains his reputation...