posted February 25, 2015 07:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Be honest. How much of the 'pull' is sexual?

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posted February 25, 2015 10:18 PM            

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Originally posted by page one:
I'm also seeing his Sun/Venus squaring your Moon, and your Saturn squaring his.

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posted February 26, 2015 04:31 AM            

I'm fighting with myself right now not to contact a man who has his sun, mars AND venus in my 8th...but it's so very hard not to because every time I see him or his picture pops up on fb I want to devour him lol

posted February 26, 2015 08:44 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Basically it's your sun and jupiter hitting his 8th house and it's sometimes incredibly hard to let go of that. Hence why no mention of rekindling the relationship, but still having sex.

I'm fighting with myself right now not to contact a man who has his sun, mars AND venus in my 8th...but it's so very hard not to because every time I see him or his picture pops up on fb I want to devour him lol

I'm sure there may be other things, but I think THAT is the main reason why you guys can't seem to break free of one another.

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posted February 26, 2015 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Oh wow! That's really interesting. Thanks for sharing your story Yeah, I know the feeling. I've fought with myself so many times to try and ignore him but it really is hard. The funny thing is though.... We haven't had any sexual intimacy in a long time. Theres mostly sexual tension between us as there hasn't been a moment where we have had the chance to have sex, and even though we both want to, I just don't want to be a one night stand. So we do text a lot and play games back and forth, but when it comes down to seeing him, (even though he doesn't live far at all) I refuse to let him come over. It's a back and forth game but he doesn't seem to get tired of the runaround.

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This is very interesting to hear considering you are the planet person. I ithought for the most part only the house person was the one who feels the pull & it had no effect on the the planet person.

And you resisting explains why the man I'm talking about won't give in to me lol. I know men & women are different, but if your ex called you up today & said he wanted to work it out for REAL would you do it? Do you feel any hate or animosity towards him? I know this sounds bizarre, but everytime I see this particular guy I end up wanting him so much I hate him for it lol & he hasn't done anything but exist lol it's hard. I feel 8th house synastry to be very complex due to its love hate nature.

posted February 26, 2015 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
This is very interesting to hear considering you are the planet person. I ithought for the most part only the house person was the one who feels the pull & it had no effect on the the planet person.

And you resisting explains why the man I'm talking about won't give in to me lol. I know men & women are different, but if your ex called you up today & said he wanted to work it out for REAL would you do it? Do you feel any hate or animosity towards him? I know this sounds bizarre, but everytime I see this particular guy I end up wanting him so much I hate him for it lol & he hasn't done anything but exist lol it's hard. I feel 8th house synastry to be very complex due to its love hate nature.

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posted February 26, 2015 10:40 AM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Thank you for contributing! Do you think you can elaborate on what this means though? I'm not too knowledgable when it comes to astrology.

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It would contribute to the pull you describe. Involving both Moons in hard aspects to the partner's planets, it could make interaction between you compulsive, especially with Saturn involved.

posted February 26, 2015 11:17 AM            

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Originally posted by page one:
It would contribute to the pull you describe. Involving both Moons in hard aspects to the partner's planets, it could make interaction between you compulsive, especially with Saturn involved.

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posted February 26, 2015 01:55 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:

Haha!! I actually very much indeed hate him I agree with you, I want him so badly, that it makes me mad at him. However, if he did tell me he wanted to work things out, I would probably say yes. I do feel there is potential between us, but I dont want to feel like I'm the only one that cares. It was all lovey dovey in the beginning but I don't know what happened between us to make it all go down hill. There were lots of arguments, stubbornness, and jealousy for no reason.

Have you and this guy been intimate before? Were you two ever in a relationship? Your situation sounds interesting as well and since you have the same 8th house thing as us, especially with your venus being there, I think he does feel the same towards you.. He feels the same pull but he's good at hiding it.... like me

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posted February 26, 2015 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
That makes sense. The interaction between us is compulsive for sure. Do you think our age has anything to do with this as well? I'm 19 and he's 21.

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The Moon interaspects would probably have a strong impact no matter what your age.

posted February 26, 2015 02:58 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Yes we have been intimate before but no relationship. I kind of blew it though because I was feeling guilty about us sleeping together too fast (in my opinion) But then I took back what I said and said that I wanted to keep hanging out. One of our issues though is communication. But yea right now I think he hates me, but when I do get a wild hair to contact him he will respond every time. I fb stalk him all the time lol it's sad really, I often wonder if he does the same to me, but I doubt it. I'm actually about to make a thread here pretty soon, because as of yesterday I'm having a very STRONG urge to contact him that I can't seem to push a way. So I need to see once and for all what the purpose was/is for us meeting.

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Well, if you ever want me to do a reading on your relationship, I can definitely do one! You can hop over to personal readings. I use tarot, lenormand, oracle, along with my natural intuition One of the problems with me and this Aquarius guy is communication as well so I know what you mean. However, you say that every time you contact him he responds right away. So that should be reassuring that he feels the strong urge to talk to you since he doesn't ignore

posted February 26, 2015 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Well, if you ever want me to do a reading on your relationship, I can definitely do one! You can hop over to personal readings. I use tarot, lenormand, oracle, along with my natural intuition One of the problems with me and this Aquarius guy is communication as well so I know what you mean. However, you say that every time you contact him he responds right away. So that should be reassuring that he feels the strong urge to talk to you since he doesn't ignore

I'm still wondering the purpose between me and this guy too though. Lol for some reason, I feel like we aren't going to last together. But with such strong placements, I wonder what really is going on.

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posted February 26, 2015 05:56 PM            

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Originally posted by page one:
The Moon interaspects would probably have a strong impact no matter what your age.

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Thank you

posted February 26, 2015 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by maira:
From personal experience, one sided NN conjunctions to personal planets lead to unrequited love, NN being the person whose love is unrequited. Your planets in his 8th may also be the culprits.

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posted February 27, 2015 05:59 PM            

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Originally posted by maira:
From personal experience, one sided NN conjunctions to personal planets lead to unrequited love, NN being the person whose love is unrequited. Your planets in his 8th may also be the culprits.

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Well this explains why me and my crush are not getting together then..

My NN conjunct his Moon and my SN conjunct his Mars. My Venus/Mars squares his Nodal axis - this is a skipped step/karma... right?

posted February 27, 2015 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Well this explains why me and my crush are not getting together then..

My NN conjunct his Moon and my SN conjunct his Mars. My Venus/Mars squares his Nodal axis - this is a skipped step/karma... right?

BOohoo!

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In your case, both pairs of nodes are in contact to the other person's planets, so one-sidedness must be elsewhere in the charts, if that's the case.

posted February 27, 2015 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by page one:
In your case, both pairs of nodes are in contact to the other person's planets, so one-sidedness must be elsewhere in the charts, if that's the case.

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Ah I see!