|
Author
|
Topic: Lovers or friends?
|
goddessofthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 490
From: Manhattan
Registered: Dec 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 09:42 PM
  
Hey guys  I'm wondering if anyone can help decode the synastry between a friend and I. We've only known each other for 5 months but the connection is obvious. We felt comfortable with each other right away. When we first met, we were both getting over serious relationships we were previously in. We were both there for each other and helped one another see why those relationships were no good for us. We helped each other grow and we're one another's biggest support systems. We talk everyday and he knows more about me than I know about me!  It's safe to say we've gotten quite comfortable with each other. I'm not expecting much, but am wondering I guess, if we have the potential to go farther than just being friends? Based on our synastry, is it even meant for us to take our relationship down a romantic road? Any help would be really appreciated!  Thanks in advance!  IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 5713
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:01 PM
Well I see Venus sextile Jupiter which can be nice for romance and Mercury on the DSC ease of communication and a few sexual aspects Moon trine Mars, and Mars square Pluto.I don't think ya'll relationship of any kind will be ending anytime soon with those Saturn contacts: Saturn square Venus and Sun sextile Saturn. IP: Logged |
Peluches
Knowflake Posts: 576
From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~
Registered: Jul 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:04 PM
Are you inside or outside ? IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 490
From: Manhattan
Registered: Dec 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:07 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Peluches:
Are you inside or outside ?
I'm inside and he's outside  IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 490
From: Manhattan
Registered: Dec 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:18 PM
Thank you, ail21! I agree, I don't have the feeling our relationship will end anytime soon either. I just feel so comfortable with him. After a long day, he's definitely my peace and calm That's interesting about you noticing Mercury on the DSC ease of communication. To be honest, I haven't heard of the DSC before (still new at this) but I do agree that we have good communication for sure. It's definitely easier than most of the past relationships I've been in I just googled Saturn square Venus and it says there will be trouble showing affection in this relationship? This is funny because we actually live quite far from each other at the moment, so while we do talk everyday, we rarely get to see each other. Do you think the lack of affection will still be there once we get to see each other on a regular basis? IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 5713
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:23 PM
Yes and no I've experienced venus/saturn there was never a lack of affection when together, the relationships either represent age difference or social-economic different or even sometimes the relationship experiences delays getting off the ground which can make partners feel unloved.IP: Logged |
Peluches
Knowflake Posts: 576
From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~
Registered: Jul 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:29 PM
Okay. quote:
Originally posted by ail221:
... and a few sexual aspects Moon trine Mars, and Mars square Pluto.
 ... completed by a wide PLUTO quincunx MOON, adding to the intensity. You have nice links to the NORTH NODES (conjunct IC and MOON), so mutual growth is not a problem here. In fact, I think that's what helped contribute to your helping out each other. Concerning house overlays, his Mars in your 1st house and your Pluto in his are good for physical attraction. I don't see many 5th, 7th and 8th house connections, except for the secondary ones (Lotis White's concept) : his are the 1st, 2nd and 3rd house, which are packed with your planets -- especially the 2nd house, which is his secondary 7th house of relationships. I like the angle alignment (ASC conjunct IC), it makes you feel comfortable with each other. What about asteroids ? Could you add these, please ? 447,1221,1585,6583,3811,433,16,42,1923,390 and select from Vertex to Vesta in the additional objects box. IP: Logged |
Peluches
Knowflake Posts: 576
From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~
Registered: Jul 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:30 PM
quote:
Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
I just googled Saturn square Venus and it says there will be trouble showing affection in this relationship? This is funny because we actually live quite far from each other at the moment, so while we do talk everyday, we rarely get to see each other. Do you think the lack of affection will still be there once we get to see each other on a regular basis?
Oh, you can read those but take them lightly. The intensity and strength of an aspect depends on the separate natals and the whole of the synastry. Besides, it might even be overcome by other aspects.
IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 490
From: Manhattan
Registered: Dec 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:49 PM
Okay, I added the asteroids  ...or at least I hope I did This is the revised version. Again, he's outside and I'm in. If I didn't do it right, let me know and I can try again! I'm still new to making charts and trying to analyze them. Thank you for your input, Peluches You said there aren't many 5th, 7th, and 8th house connections... is this something negative? I'm sorry if the question sounds stupid, just want to know if that strengthens our relationship or hinders it a bit. I agree with you that mutual growth isn't a problem for us. I feel like in a way, we are both helping each other become who we really are meant to be. I know he's helped me a lot and has changed my perspective on things and so have I for him. We kind of help each other calm down at the end of the day. It's nice that you see the physical attraction there  He always tells me he finds me to be beautiful but I just shrug it off. IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 1609
From:
Registered: Sep 2011
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:50 PM
i see friendship, especially from his side, since his Mercury sits on your DSC and that would mean a very comfortable way for him to express himself to you and vice-versa. my guess is that you're the one who would be more romantically attracted and he wouldn't reciprocate that romantic affection the same way; the overlays suggest that you'd be more smitten by him - his mars in your 1st makes him your "ideal" in many ways but no overlays from him suggest the same. the overlays are boring in that they hit non-romantic houses and show friendship, learning and work more than anything romantic. imo.IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 5713
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:55 PM
The asteroids aren't present. Saturn in his in 7th cam definitely mean delays but if you can get past those challenges then its glue. IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 490
From: Manhattan
Registered: Dec 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 10:58 PM
Thanks, Starmoon! Yep, he does express himself with comfort around me which is flattering seeing as to how he doesn't usually just let anyone in I'm not too sure about the romance thing yet but definitely not ruling anything out! At the moment, I am not crushing on him or anything like that. I just wanted to see if our relationship had the potential to get there. I wouldn't say he is 100% my ideal man but there are traits of his that I really admire and would want in my next relationship for sure! IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 490
From: Manhattan
Registered: Dec 2014
|
posted March 21, 2015 11:04 PM
quote:
Originally posted by ail221:
The asteroids aren't present. Saturn in his in 7th cam definitely mean delays but if you can get past those challenges then its glue.
Sorry, I fixed it When you say delays, can I ask what exactly you mean by that? Sorry again if it's a silly question IP: Logged |
ail221
Moderator Posts: 5713
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted March 22, 2015 12:23 PM
quote:
Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
Sorry, I fixed it When you say delays, can I ask what exactly you mean by that? Sorry again if it's a silly question
Delays in formulating a stable relationship I.e. living far apart, having work or school delay a relationship, family pressures, things coming up that will burden or test the relationship. IP: Logged |
Lindaland
UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! 
