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Topic: Is this composite a paradigm of an abusive or violent relationship?
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AnastasiyaEnchanted
Knowflake Posts: 302
From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 23, 2015 03:23 PM
  
Having so many mars squares and pluto aspects can not be good. Is this just a really passionate relationship or a violent one?
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Peluches
Knowflake Posts: 597
From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 03:25 PM
SUN conjunct PLUTO to the minute ! Does that hit anything in your natals ?IP: Logged |
AnastasiyaEnchanted
Knowflake Posts: 302
From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 23, 2015 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by Peluches:
SUN conjunct PLUTO to the minute ! Does that hit anything in your natals ?
Sun-pluto conjunction squares my natal moon in aqua. He has a natal sun-pluto conjunction in scorpio but it is out of orb to form a conjunction to the sun-pluto in the composite IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 2859
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 07:03 PM
Is he abusive, Anastasiya?IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Moderator Posts: 10621
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 07:11 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Is he abusive, Anastasiya?
That's the question to ask. IP: Logged |
AnastasiyaEnchanted
Knowflake Posts: 302
From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 23, 2015 10:08 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Is he abusive, Anastasiya?
No I am not in a relationship with him its just someone that I like. He gave me his birth information because he too is interested in astrology. Does the composite show that It can be abusive?
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Peluches
Knowflake Posts: 597
From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 10:15 PM
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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
No I am not in a relationship with him its just someone that I like. He gave me his birth information because he too is interested in astrology. Does the composite show that It can be abusive?
It shows intensity, mainly. You just need to know -- both of you -- how to handle it. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 2859
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 24, 2015 02:12 AM
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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
No I am not in a relationship with him its just someone that I like. He gave me his birth information because he too is interested in astrology. Does the composite show that It can be abusive?
ANYONE can be abusive. There's no such thing as the paradigm of an abusive composite, or a perfect one. You can't go into a relationship with the preconceived notion that a synastry or composite is inherently abusive or violent. My boyfriend and I have some of the most violent aspects in synastry. He's one of the most honest, genuine, loving individuals I know. And, the only one who has never played emotional games, tried to manipulate me, or been verbally abusive -- in any fashion. Yesterday, he was admitting how he cannot fathom the headspace of an abuser; that he'd 'gnaw his own hand off at the wrist before he'd raise it against me'. I believe it, too. I even said so. Despite the 'charming' hyperbole, I know he's being 100% honest about that. Ultimately, we are what gets expressed and how. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
Knowflake Posts: 30
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 24, 2015 04:38 AM
Mars opposite pluto is abusive in my experience although it's HOT. Mars square pluto maybe gives the same page with it.Do you have it in the chart? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 2859
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 24, 2015 05:04 AM
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Mars opposite pluto is abusive in my experience although it's HOT. Mars square pluto maybe gives the same page with it.Do you have it in the chart?
Are you speaking in terms of composite or synastrically? IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
Knowflake Posts: 30
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 24, 2015 06:42 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Are you speaking in terms of composite or synastrically?
Oops! I forgot, it's synastry. lol.  IP: Logged |
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