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Topic: Synastry reading request, please..what's up with him?
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frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 1335
From: Kansas
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 23, 2015 05:37 PM
  
 So, this guy with whom I've recently become intimately involved...he confuses me. He seems to not be able to be genuinely himself with me. Isn't that weird considering I have a stellium in his first house..and the Moon conjunct his ASC? Wouldn't that make him MORE comfortable with me? He seems so...nervous, cautious around me..but has no problem touching me and being physically intimate. We just met about a month ago and things moved kinda fast into the sexual realm..but I want his friendship, too. What do you see going on here between us? He is the outside on the chart. Birth times are correct. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 51396
From: Saturn next to Charmaine
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 23, 2015 09:45 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology. If it's an exchange, then synastry requests go in Personal Readings.IP: Logged |
peony
Knowflake Posts: 479
From: U.S.
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 11:26 PM
It doesn't look like this is about what's between you. He has a Capricorn Moon, meaning he has emotional inhibitions, and its conjunct Saturn, even more so. You have a Moon-Saturn conjunction also, but the difference is yours is in Sagittarius. IP: Logged |
peony
Knowflake Posts: 479
From: U.S.
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 23, 2015 11:32 PM
Ami Anne did a great article on Moons here:Do You Want An X-Ray of Your Lover's Soul http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/002329.html IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
Moderator Posts: 2862
From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 24, 2015 05:20 AM
Actually, I see the MOON conjunct SATURN with a CAP MOON as a rather lovely simpatico. You're both expressing strong Saturnine energy, even if his is in CAP and yours in SAG. Forgive my saying so, but my boyfriend is SAG rising, CAN SUN-MERC with LEO VENUS. His MOON is ARIES, but it shares his SATURN's sign, though out of orb of conjunction. (He definitely fits the lunar Saturnine vibe at times.) They're cagey fellows for all their magnanimity and joviality. It really is a bit of a façade. I'm going to wager the race to the bedroom is in part an inability to go delving into true emotional intimacy. This has been my experience, even though it took us years to cultivate a physical relationship, the personality profile remains similar. Not to mention you've got a very nice SUN/MOON conjunction (his MOON; very, very nice) with his SATURN on your SUN. For better or worse, you two are kinda stuck with each other, likely for some lesson learning as well as deep bonding. Seems as if there are some skipped steps here, too; I'm immediately seeing his CAP stellium square your NODES, with your VENUS square his NODES. There's some mutual karma to be resolved here between you. It's my personal view here, but I've noticed that the heavier (or just more urgent) outstanding karma will often throw two people into overdrive, seeking bonding very quickly. With your VENUS in Scorpio, it's little wonder it's sexual. Some of your outstanding karma likely is. IP: Logged |
peony
Knowflake Posts: 479
From: U.S.
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 24, 2015 09:33 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Forgive my saying so, but my boyfriend is SAG rising, CAN SUN-MERC with LEO VENUS. His MOON is ARIES, but it shares his SATURN's sign, though out of orb of conjunction. (He definitely fits the lunar Saturnine vibe at times.)With your VENUS in Scorpio, it's little wonder it's sexual.
The differences are significant between an Aries Moon and a Cap Moon and Saturn to boot. If he had an Aries Moon - making it two fire Moons - she wouldn't be confused. Yes, and he has a Mars-Venus conjunction in Leo in the 8H, square her Venus. quote:
I'm going to wager the race to the bedroom is in part an inability to go delving into true emotional intimacy.
I think you'd win that wager here.
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frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 1335
From: Kansas
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 24, 2015 06:53 PM
Aubyanne - wow you really opened my eyes to some things going on here.i really can't explain why i am interested in him considering i just left a long-term, serious relationship two months ago. i was 100% sure i was not going to get involved with anyone else for a long time. i had no interest. and when i met this guy, he is good friends with my best friend, i didn't really care for him, i thought he was weird but felt oddly comfortable around him and oddly intrigued. it snow-balled from there and i can't explain why. in a way i don't like it at all. it is going against what i planned for myself. it scares me. IP: Logged | |
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