posted March 27, 2015 10:02 PM            

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Originally posted by yota13:
I have this aspect with a classmate, her Dejanira and my sun exact. Should I avoid this interaction? I also feel strong attraction to her. dob's are 21391(me) and 12186, I am 5 degrees cancer rising 118pm.

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Welcome, Yota.

In this case, she may come to you for help.

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posted March 28, 2015 12:49 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
I have just experienced this in synastry. I am NO expert, but I would like to share something I think is related.

I'm the Sun, and I am the first woman he has involved himself with after a very psychologically abusive relationship. I struggle with finding a balance between being there for him, and not letting him use me as a crutch because he still has a lot personal work to do (as we all do).

I see his pain. I want to let him cry on my shoulder. I think he wants to cry on my shoulder. Like I said I want to save him and that desire is also erotic in nature.

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posted March 28, 2015 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
He's got more issues than a magazine stand.

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posted March 28, 2015 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
LOL! I actually decided to move on. I LOVE him (and about 4 other men). I have decided though, that what I have given is enough. I can't do any more unless he meets me half way. So I've left, with the intention of helping. If he comes around, we can move on to the next "issue", or dig deeper into this one...

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posted March 29, 2015 08:07 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
LOL! I actually decided to move on. I LOVE him (and about 4 other men). I have decided though, that what I have given is enough. I can't do any more unless he meets me half way. So I've left, with the intention of helping. If he comes around, we can move on to the next "issue", or dig deeper into this one...

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Wishing you a happy future.

posted March 29, 2015 08:45 AM            

What a great point, Astra7. When you are in the position to help, and call yourself the helper, this is the type of empathy you need to have.

To be honest I left because he was making me crazy, not because I was aware that I could be overwhelming him, but thankfully my love shines through even when I am acting out of self preservation. I set him down gently, and though he didn't want to let go, he understood

Your simple point opened new doors in my heart, and brought a sense of peace. I hope I see him again.