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Topic: What is our purpose?
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EmGem
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posted March 30, 2015 03:42 AM
  
I feel so familiar with this guy. It's very harmonious and sweet and in tune when we are together. I also feel a lot of sexual chemistry with him and he seems to feel the same. It's like we understand each other. But circumstances at the moment are not conducive to a relationship... I'm sorting "my **** " out from a recent separation and he's in a situation of his own. I initially thought it would be a bit if "fun"...but I don't know anymore.We come and go... just as I was finally ready to leave him in the past as someone I just stumbled across, he pops up again. We haven't slept together. He would rather wait. This perplexed me a little. He was the catalyst for a huge emotional shift in my life back in november. I am wondering about the purpose of our meeting one another. What are we to learn?
And are these feelings met from his side too? I don't see how we can NOT be in each other's lives...even as friends. But a friendship may be too hard as the feelings seem to run deep. I can see all the IC activity which makes me think that perhaps he sees me as a comfort. Tell me what you see.
here's our synastry with me outside.
In my heart I believe he is a taurus asc. t.o.b i figured out with Kannon McAfee's help.  composite  IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
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posted March 30, 2015 04:07 AM
There's a deep emotional debt (SNODE conjunct MOON-SATURN-MARS) likely resulting from a betrayal in another lifeline. You're more than likely trying to resolve that here. MERC conjunct CHIRON is another big clue regarding a purpose of healing and karmic resolution.MARS conjunct SUN is the chemistry, with EROS conjunct VALENTINE showing potential for sexual romance, and deep relating once these things have been cleared. He's a JUNO-ALMA from the looks of it, which means he's here to understand the nature of unconditional love and why relationships fail. It's part of his purpose. I think that JUNO-SATURN has a complex influence in these dynamics. I feel it can prevent any sort of relationship unless it's very committed and deeply bonded. It may even require marriage to unlock the real benefits of this synastry. I can't say for sure, but I've only seen SATURN-JUNO/ALMA one other place ... and that's my experience of it. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted March 30, 2015 06:29 AM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
There's a deep emotional debt (SNODE conjunct MOON-SATURN-MARS) likely resulting from a betrayal in another lifeline. You're more than likely trying to resolve that here. MERC conjunct CHIRON is another big clue regarding a purpose of healing and karmic resolution.MARS conjunct SUN is the chemistry, with EROS conjunct VALENTINE showing potential for sexual romance, and deep relating once these things have been cleared. He's a JUNO-ALMA from the looks of it, which means he's here to understand the nature of unconditional love and why relationships fail. It's part of his purpose. I think that JUNO-SATURN has a complex influence in these dynamics. I feel it can prevent any sort of relationship unless it's very committed and deeply bonded. It may even require marriage to unlock the real benefits of this synastry. I can't say for sure, but I've only seen SATURN-JUNO/ALMA one other place ... and that's my experience of it.
thanks Auby. Damn that saturn.....
Are you saying that this debt may be holding us back from being more intimately involved? who feels they owe here? I'm not exactly sure how we are to resolve it. I guess it happens naturally in the way we relate to one another. he has already suffered a huge blow in relationships. His gf was murdered just over 2 years ago  would this be a bond that is hard to break, or a brief relationship in our lives and would we both feel it? IP: Logged |
astra7
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posted March 30, 2015 11:37 AM
You come and go because you have Uranus in the 5th house which is also opposed by Chiron/Venus conjunction in the Composite chart.IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted March 30, 2015 06:17 PM
thanks astra7....damn that uranus too!!!!is there any glue here? IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted March 31, 2015 05:21 PM
bump! so frustrated. we get so close to organising to see one another, all excited and then nothing happens or something will conspire to not let it happen... i dont get it. is this uranus or saturn at play? it kind of feels like we dont want to ruin the sweetness of our fun flirtatious moments. or maybe he's afraid of what he might feel...especially if he sleeps with me. when we are together he tells me he's never had to control himself so much with anyone. does anyone know what might be going on??? IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted April 02, 2015 03:18 AM
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EmGem
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posted April 05, 2015 10:55 PM
Bumipity bump!  Can anyone figure out why he would be taking his time with me? Taurus asc?
I get the feeling that he is afraid to unleash his desires onto me because of the intensity. Maybe that's just wishful thinking though 
Any help is greatly appreciated! IP: Logged |
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