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MineAgain
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posted April 05, 2015 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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LexusVirgo
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posted April 06, 2015 04:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His venus in ur first . Does he say your beautiful? His Uranus and Neptune in your seventh. You probably find him unusual or something unusual about this relationship. His ascendant in your fifth I had this with a guy and couldn't keep my hands off him. I feel this is both flirt and real attraction with venus in your first

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posted April 06, 2015 06:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you

Well, he hasn't complimented me because we work in the same company (we don't work toegether tough. Two completely separate departments).

He always finds excuses to come to my desk or to my colleague's desk. He always makes jokes and talks to me even if he supposedly comes to speak to my colleague.

He's very different from any guy I was attracted to in the past. I have to admit that I noticed him, but I wasn't that interested in him at first. He's the one who started talking to me (jokes, pranks ...).

Even though he's not my usual type, I find myself extremely attracted to him. One thing though is whenever there's a crowd around, he's all about "the show" and acts like the cool king of the castle. I much prefer him when he's on his own, he's far less cocky/confident ha.

I also noticed that I am so blunt and direct with him, if his jokes suck, I tell him. I act cold at times which isn't something that experienced with my previous flirts. I can be raw honest with him which is bizarre.

Do you think there is a dating potential?

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MineAgain
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posted April 12, 2015 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a small question:

Our interactions have been very rocky because for some unknown reason, I get really cold when he's around. He acts like the King of the Castle and gets annoyed when I don't laugh at his jokes.

He told my friend: "I can never make her laugh", her apparently was disappointed/annoyed.

All we seem to do is sting each other, really. We can't have a decent conversation without me snapping at him or him acting overly sarcastic/like an egomaniac.

Why is this?

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LeeLoo2014
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posted April 12, 2015 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you like him or not? if you do, show him, astrological aspects are not cages.

his Venus opp Neptune/Uranus sitting on your Saturn may bring the cold attitude and distrust from your side...perhaps you're actually suspicious if he likes you for real...or maybe this aspect makes it hard for you to take him seriously. But he likes you for real, his Venus is in your 1st.

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posted April 12, 2015 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
did he tell you his birth time or are you guessing?

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LexusVirgo
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posted April 12, 2015 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone has his Venus in my first house and I'm the one who thinks he's beautiful I like him. I don't think he likes me though. Astrology aspects are always backwards for me.

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posted April 13, 2015 12:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by starmoon:
did he tell you his birth time or are you guessing?

I used noon, the default time.

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posted April 13, 2015 12:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Do you like him or not? if you do, show him, astrological aspects are not cages.

his Venus opp Neptune/Uranus sitting on your Saturn may bring the cold attitude and distrust from your side...perhaps you're actually suspicious if he likes you for real...or maybe this aspect makes it hard for you to take him seriously. But he likes you for real, his Venus is in your 1st.


I like him but as you said, I can't take him seriously. I've had a hard time believing he likes me.

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posted April 13, 2015 12:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Someone has his Venus in my first house and I'm the one who thinks he's beautiful I like him. I don't think he likes me though. Astrology aspects are always backwards for me.

I didn't notice him until he started talking to me to be fair. He's the one who started talking to me by making jokes, pranks, telling me he's going to find me a boyfriend, buy me stuff ... Weird.

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posted April 13, 2015 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it relationship material or only a small flirt?

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posted April 14, 2015 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Relationship material with long-lasting friendship

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posted April 26, 2015 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My apologies for upping this thread, but I do have an important question.

Communication between him and I is pretty bad. 95% of the time, we don't get along. He ignores me/I ignore him, yet we keep starring at each other whenever we're in the same place. He usually pouts like a baby.

Then, there are those very rare moments (5%) when we talk like "normal" people and it's amazing.

Can anyone explain to me why we don't get along yet the chemistry is very strong?

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posted April 26, 2015 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
My apologies for upping this thread, but I do have an important question.

Communication between him and I is pretty bad. 95% of the time, we don't get along. He ignores me/I ignore him, yet we keep starring at each other whenever we're in the same place. He usually pouts like a baby.

Then, there are those very rare moments (5%) when we talk like "normal" people and it's amazing.

Can anyone explain to me why we don't get along yet the chemistry is very strong?


I can't see the orbs. but it seems you have lots of squares to both your mercuries making communications challenging.

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posted April 26, 2015 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
My apologies for upping this thread, but I do have an important question.

Communication between him and I is pretty bad. 95% of the time, we don't get along. He ignores me/I ignore him, yet we keep starring at each other whenever we're in the same place. He usually pouts like a baby.

Then, there are those very rare moments (5%) when we talk like "normal" people and it's amazing.

Can anyone explain to me why we don't get along yet the chemistry is very strong?


well, because his birth time is unknown you don't actually know what houses his planets overlay. the only thing you know with certainty is that his venus will come close to your ASC, so that would give you the attraction from both sides. for the guy having his venus in a women's 1st house makes her his 'ideal', at least physically. your communication issues are likely the stellium in scorpio against the leo mercury/sun. leo mercury/sun is ego-based and will come across quite strong (and petty and childish when they don't get their way), and of course the scorpio will fight back against that. leo/scoprio aren't a natural pair and that probably causes antagonism, which is laced with the attraction from venus/asc. communication is all about mercury and yours are poorly positioned, imo. it won't make it very far imo, but what do i know? :-)

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posted April 26, 2015 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for page one     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MineAgain:
My apologies for upping this thread, but I do have an important question.

Communication between him and I is pretty bad. 95% of the time, we don't get along. He ignores me/I ignore him, yet we keep starring at each other whenever we're in the same place. He usually pouts like a baby.

Then, there are those very rare moments (5%) when we talk like "normal" people and it's amazing.

Can anyone explain to me why we don't get along yet the chemistry is very strong?


Moon squaring Mars, for one thing.

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posted April 28, 2015 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see.

It really sucks because I really like him and I find him quite attractive. The problem is his huge ego which doesn't sit well with me. I like down to earth individuals and he's the epitome of "le grandiose delusion".

Although, I don't feel this "unexplainable" "spark" with him, the attraction is quite strong (physically). I sometimes find myself starring at him/see him starring at me.

I really don't know how to make it "better". Maybe it's not meant to happen ... Oh well.

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posted May 18, 2015 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 18, 2015 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Something really eerie happened today.

Either I'm a really good psychic or there is much more to this than just a mere attraction.

Yesterday, I found myself thinking about how I've never seen him wear yellow/mustard pants to work (he's very much into bright colored pants). Today, he showed up wearing mustard pants!

Furthermore, I was very dark thoughts on my way to work this morning. For some reason, I kept thinking about him having an accident/motorcycle dysfunction on his way to work. Well, when I checked FB at lunch time, he had just posted a picture of his damaged motorcycle! He damaged it on his way to work this morning. It was so damaged that he wasn't able to ride it home this evening!

Is this odd? I've never had this happen with anyone, except my Pisces "ex". I can never tell what's going on with my friends no matter how hard I try, yet with him (just like with Pisces), it happened sort of "organically".

I'm either very insane or there's something there?!

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posted May 20, 2015 08:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, that is buzzard. I had that with the guy whose Venus is in my first too I love to stare into his eyes and like it's weird it's like theirs this connection and umm I had a dream about him that was naughty and he was so good I was saying no no in the dream instead of yes because it was like really intense between us in the dream. Then when I saw him at work we were all standing around talking about what I forgot but he was looking straight at me and he goes"it's considered rape if she starts screaming no and you don't stop" and I was like O.O are you inside my head. It was weird, similar things happen to us at the sand time. It's crazy. In still creeped out about him knowing my dream tho.

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