posted April 08, 2015 11:00 AM            

Anyway, how it plays out is that have times of feeling severely suffocated and when that happens I run. Mentally and physically. He just waits and waits. And I come back.

posted April 08, 2015 07:36 PM            

I'm not sure I can be of much assistance to you since this pattern is also in my natal chart, but maybe it'll help paint a clearer picture.

Anyway, let me first explain how I think it plays out in my own chart.

My moon is located in my 5th house and Uranus is located in my 8th house. Cancer rules my 3rd house.

I am a Scorpio with a Scorpio stellium with mars conjunct pluto (both opposite asc) on the cusp of my 7th house. Aries rules my 12th house.

Ever since I was young, I have always been very intense and attached in all of my relationships and still am today. IThe issue is, I am also VERY uranian and just detached in general with uranus aspecting my Sun, moon, mercury, mars and having an airy intellectual Libra moon so I'm beginning to question whether I give off mixed signals to potential partners which causes the moon-uranus square constantly in our synastries. Anyway, some people view this intensity as clingy and suffocating and some love it! The problem is, I attract guys who are mainly uranian in nature even though they have very intense aspects and placements. I am very restless and impulsive. I hate routine and I'm always looking for excitement and adventure. I crave love and affection, but when I get it or start dating someone, I start getting restless and paranoid because of the thought of beinv decieved. It took me years to recognize the pattern, but it's there. A lot of what's said about this aspect is very true. I believe the solution is all in the synastry.

I actually recently noticed that this restless, "I can't live without you" feeling that comes from the moon-uranus square (synastry/natal) that the uranus side creates doesn't feel so emotionally insecure and frightening if there are other supportive moon aspects or the other person has this natally which would probably result in a double-whammy which would eliminate that uranian vibe. It feels natural then. I had these aspects with one person and although our relationship was on and off and unstable, the feelings we shared between us were tender and warm WITH all that uranus friction.

I will try to explain better on how it plays out in synastry or how I see it.

The Uranus person comes on strong in the beginning because of the instant attraction they feel towards the planet person. (FYI: The Uranus person probably has a feemw uranus aspects in their own chart).

After some time goes by and the attraction fades due to familiarity and real relationship issues, the uranus person then needs space because at this point, the planet person is already attached.

In my case, i ended up chasing the guys and it just created this endless obession because I could never figure out why they would suddenly disappear after sharing moments of closeness. It was devastating and discouraging, but you live and you learn. If it wasn't for all of those sudden endings and disruptions, I wouldn't be so resilient as I am today.

Moon-Uranus is an ongoing inner war that's been going on inside of myself since I could remember. All I want to do is heal and form healthy, long-lasting attachments without all the uncertainty and instability.