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posted April 11, 2015 12:20 AM            

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Are cancer men cautious and slow daters? I'm dating a Cancer sun/ Sag moon/ Venus Leo/ Mars Gemini guy and I only hear from him about every three days. We are in the early stages of dating but aghh my Aries Venus is going bonkers.

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posted April 11, 2015 12:40 AM            

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Depends on how much they're sure of their feelings for you.

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posted April 11, 2015 02:12 AM            

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Cancers are Cardinal and not that sideways/backwards as people think we are. We get what we want when we want it! And if we don't get it, it's because there is a lack of interest or there are things that don't seem all that clear.

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posted April 11, 2015 03:45 AM            

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In my experience with Cancer men ( I have Cancer moon so have dated a few) if they really have feelings for you there is a tendency to talk to everyone in the room but you. That's what they mean when they say crabs move sideways. Unless he has Aries planets I've seen this every single time. If he is just physically attracted to you but also likes you, albeit not in a serious way, they are much more open. Again not all Cancer men are like this, if there is a lot of Aries or first house is prominent in his chart he won't be like this but so far this is what I've noticed.

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posted April 11, 2015 03:53 AM            

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I don't think there needs to be a lack of interest for a Cancer man not to show interest immediately. Yes they are Cardinal but you are dealing with someone who definetly has a "shell" of some sort, they are very self protective. He may be taking it slow to protect himself. Unless he has mitigating factors in his chart such as lots of Aries or first house energy, most Cancer men ARE slow daters. Also, his Venus in Leo is prideful and may want you to do some of the chasing.

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posted April 11, 2015 05:12 AM            

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Thanks everyone!

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posted April 14, 2015 07:40 AM            

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I can't tell if he's just taking it slow because he's a Cancer or if he's not interested.

We went on a date last week, he kissed me twice after he walked me to my car. And said he was going to be busy next week because he was leaving for a work trip the week after but he wanted to see me when he gets back. I haven't heard from him since (it's been almost a week), yet on Facebook he likes my statuses that I post up. Everything about this says he's not interested, but if he's not interested then why is he still making some contact through Facebook?

It's a silly question and I feel like I'm back in high school trying to decipher a guy's feelings! He is:
Sun: Cancer
Moon: Sag
Venus: Leo
Mars: Gemini

Help please

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posted April 15, 2015 03:32 PM            

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Hmm no response?

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posted April 19, 2015 01:18 PM            

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Post your synastry !

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posted April 19, 2015 01:28 PM            

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Hi! Here is our synastry. I'm not sure of his birth time. I think he's a Libra rising, so I just entered his time to sync up with Libra rising.

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posted April 19, 2015 01:34 PM            

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Huh. It looks pretty good, actually.

Has he shown anymore interest since ?

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posted April 19, 2015 01:56 PM            

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I haven't really heard from him, unless I reach out to him first. I've only reached out to him maybe 2 or 3 times over the last two weeks because I don't want to appear clingy. However, he responds friendly. He is still liking my Facebook statuses though.. I've stopped reaching out to him.

Granted, he said he was going to be busy before this business trip and wouldn't really have time to get together prior to him leaving. He is now on his business trip, and should be getting back next week. I guess I'll have to wait and see if he tries to get together.

When we met a few weeks ago, I knew the second he saw me that I caught his eye and that he was interested in me. In a way, I felt instantly safe and protected by him. It was sort of intimidating because I didn't want to feel that way. I knew he was instantly smitten by me, as if he was all I could see the entire night. And this was before we even had any conversation.

Our first date was fun and we spent about three hours together. Time flew, he walked me to my car, kissed me twice, said he wanted to see me when he came back from the trip. But now I don't hear from him unless I reach out to him. Are all Cancer men like this? It looks like he has a lot of fire and air in his chart (so do I), so I feel like he would be a bit more proactive than a normal Cancer.

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posted April 20, 2015 12:08 AM            

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no taurus men are the slowessstt omg :3

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posted April 20, 2015 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by furrybunny:
no taurus men are the slowessstt omg :3

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Ha! Not if they have Mars in Aries. Spoken from experience.

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