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Ami Anne
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posted April 15, 2015 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Communication is really “where it is at”. You may have a bikini model, number ten girlfriend, but if you can’t talk, when the newness wears off, you have nothing. Communication is the key to all relationships, really, Some relationships may have a purpose such as a business thrust. Some may have a purpose such as patient/doctor or parent/ child. These external contingencies may keep the relationship afloat. However, the relationship will never be satisfying or emotionally close. It would simply fuffil a stated purpose. Let’s look at some aspects for good communication and why.

1. Moon trine Moon
This aspect is an EMOTIONAL simpatico. To me, it is the best aspect in synastry, bar none. These two people can look across the room and know what the other is thinking. Have you ever had a friend with whom everything is funny? Moon trine Moon synastry has such a strong simpatico that shared humor is effortless. I have a friend with whom I cannot look across the room if I am at a funeral or someplace where I cannot laugh. There is such a sense of oneness that the other person’s knows one’s most inappropriate thoughts. his aspects seems quite rare. Treasure it in whichever relationship in which you are fortunate enough to possess it. If your romantic synastry has this, you can, likely, work out most of your problems, in my opinion.

2. Mercury Trine Mercury

This would enable an easy flow of communication which would me more of in the intellectual realm than in the emotional. If a synastry had this plus a close Moon synastry, then there would be both a head and a heart component. Mercury trine Mercury would be perfect for business partners or intellectual collaborators of any sort such as Lennon and McCartney.

3. Moon Trine Mercury

The Mercury person would help the Moon person understand his own emotions by being able to form them into verbal expression. The Moon person would have an intuitive understanding of how the Mercury person thinks, as well. This is a very nice aspect for any relationship.

4. Moon trine Pluto

This form of communication is not linear. It is not rational, may be a better way to say it. There is a deep intuitive understanding between these two natives. The Pluto person sees the naked rawness of the Moon person’s emotions. The Moon person cannot hide her heart from the Pluto person. This aspect is more of a visceral communication than an intellectual one. It is more of a visceral communication than even a heart one. It is a form of emotional nakedness that is hard to describe. If you watch the charts and see the workings of this, you will understand what I mean.

5. Venus trine Venus

This aspect does not make for good communication, per se. It makes for a similarity in values. It can, also, make for a similar sense of humor. Values are very important in marriage. Values include the the importance placed on fidelity in marriage, the important placed on children and if one spends or saves money. Dissimilar values in marriage can pose many problems, so checking the relationship between mutual Venus’ may help avert issues.

6 Pluto Trine Mercury

The Pluto person will understand the intellectual realms of the Mercury person as if the Mercury person is unmasked. The Mercury person will feel he can have no secrets from the Pluto person.

7. Saturn Trine Saturn

These people will have a similar outlook on the world. They would have a similar outlook on the manner in which one navigates life, particularly with respect to responsibilities. They will support the growth and maturity of the other.

8. Jupiter Trine Mercury

The Jupiter person will help the Mercury person have more confidence in how she expresses herself.

9. Mercury conjunct the North Node

In this synastry, the Mercury person will bring the Theme of communication to the relationship, making if a focal point for the duration of the relationship.

10. Mercury conjunct the IC

The IC is a deeply vulnerable point in the chart. The Mercury person will help the IC person to express herself at a deep level. The IC person will feel deeply understood by the Mercury person.

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posted April 15, 2015 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Call me captain obvious but my vote is for Mercury conjunct Mercury!!

Here's my story...I'm officially dating someone, wow!! And we are now having some amazing communication!
We were dating about a year ago, we mutually broke up for not clearly defined reasons on both our parts...we each had our own reason but neither of us disclosed why to the other. Can you believe with a Merc/Merc conjunction we were not communicating?? Neither of us were even trying though.

He'd tried to reach out to me a couple times but because id deleted his number i didn't know it was him, so I didn't respond. But I did think about him and miss him although I'd already written him off. Again communication breakdown!

We ran into each other again and started talking in late December but only as friends.

But once transit Saturn moved onto his saggy AC/Mercury and my saggy Sun/Mercury....we suddenly started talking about more serious things, the past and why we really broke everything off with each other.
We talked all night and were able to work out some major issues/misunderstandings....and decided we wanted to give it another try to be together again.

So, my vote is for the Merc/Merc conjunction!! Yay!!

My Mercury sag@3.32
My Sun sag@4.28
His Mercury sag@4.33
His AC sag@5.18

His Sat aries@5.38
My Sat leo@2.50

His Mars aqua@5.10
His DC gemini@5.18
My Karma libra@5.49
My AC libra@7.05

Sorry....I'm going on about this I'm just excited I hope it goes well this time, since we are communicating very well this time around im feeling optimistic.

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posted April 15, 2015 03:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Out of the aspects you mentioned...
1. Moon trine Moon
We have 12th house virgo Moon opposed 3rd/4th cusp pisces Moon

2. Mercury Trine Mercury
~Merc conjunct Merc

4. Moon trine Pluto
~Moon inconjunct Pluto

7. Saturn Trine Saturn
~Saturn trine Saturn

8. Jupiter Trine Mercury
~his Jupiter square our Mercuries

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posted April 15, 2015 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never had Merc conj Merc, Gabby. Do you think this would be better than the trine? Could you be too close, you think, whereas the trine may have more distance but resonance? Thanks.

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posted April 15, 2015 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
While we are on the subject, what do you think of Moon conj Moon vs Moon trine Moon, in general, not about communication, per se?

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posted April 15, 2015 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I never had Merc conj Merc, Gabby. Do you think this would be better than the trine? Could you be too close, you think, whereas the trine may have more distance but resonance? Thanks.


Well, it seems that we think the same things, like we have the exact same thoughts at the same time often. Oh, and when we were hanging out i told him the passcode to my phone so he could look at a picture in it. After I told him the passcode he said no way ....
I said what?
He said, why did you pick those numbers?
I said, i don't know i just chose them, no reason.
He goes and gets his phone and tells me to type in my passcode in his phone, I did and my passcode opened his phone. We chose the exact same numbers for our pass code even though the numbers where completely random to both of us.
Also, I was telling him the vehicle id always wanted from childhood....he pulls out his phone and shows me a pic, says you mean like that? I said yes, that's exactly the one I've always loved...he said, me to, that's why I bought it.

I just feel him, I get him so easily!

He has a saggy Sun also but it's @15th degree.
His Moon opposes my Moon and his Sun t-squares both.
The conjunctions/aspects we have to me are really cool!

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posted April 15, 2015 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
While we are on the subject, what do you think of Moon conj Moon vs Moon trine Moon, in general, not about communication, per se?


Love moon conjunct moon, it feels like your in each other's hearts emotionally so similar it's very easy.

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posted April 15, 2015 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Love moon conjunct moon, it feels like your in each other's hearts emotionally so similar it's very easy.

agreed. it feels so amazing. i have this with someone - my virgo and his leo moon.

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posted April 15, 2015 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
agreed. it feels so amazing. i have this with someone - my virgo and his leo moon.

Is his moon leo@29??

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posted April 15, 2015 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never had moon conj moon. I may have had it with a g/f in the past but I did not know Astrology at the time.

We met each other and kind of fell in love, friend wise lol

I had Moon trine Moon, exact, with my son. We could never fight because if we even looked at each other, we would start laughing.

We were so close.

You have a mind meld with these close Moon aspects but really, it is a heart meld

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posted April 15, 2015 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice collection of aspects!

What about sextiles? And Sun aspects?

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posted April 15, 2015 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I never had moon conj moon. I may have had it with a g/f in the past but I did not know Astrology at the time.

We met each other and kind of fell in love, friend wise lol

I had Moon trine Moon, exact, with my son. We could never fight because if we even looked at each other, we would start laughing.

We were so close.

You have a mind meld with these close Moon aspects but really, it is a heart meld


Very true, it a heart meld!!

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posted April 15, 2015 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Liliya:
Nice collection of aspects!

What about sextiles? And Sun aspects?


sextiles are buried trines. They are like trines but not effortless, as trines are.

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posted April 15, 2015 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Is his moon leo@29??

sure is! mine's at 1* virgo we're conjunct regulus it seems

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posted April 15, 2015 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
sure is! mine's at 1* virgo we're conjunct regulus it seems

WOW!! What an amazing aspect, beautiful!

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posted April 16, 2015 04:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had moon-moon many times and our moods tend to change in unison and flow together. It's a very intuitive aspect for understanding what someone's feeling but thinking... not really.

I think Neptune-Mercury does that. My old best friend and I had the conjunction. I could tell whenever she was holding back on saying something and what she was thinking. When I'd say her thoughts aloud, it always resonated with her. Creepy aspect. When I wanted to unfriend her, I don't know HOW but she knew, and she beat me to the punch. Lol.

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posted April 16, 2015 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, Moon/Moon is heart but heart communicates to the head, too.
It does to me, anyway.

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So this is about communication but almost no mercury aspects?

What about mercury-venus, mercury-sun, and mercury-moon?

Me and my boyfriend got an exact mercury-sun conjunction double whammy and I always thought this was a very interesting aspect for communication

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posted April 17, 2015 08:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
So this is about communication but almost no mercury aspects?

What about mercury-venus, mercury-sun, and mercury-moon?

Me and my boyfriend got an exact mercury-sun conjunction double whammy and I always thought this was a very interesting aspect for communication


Yes, I think of communication in more of a heart way, I guess. I guess this is an intuitive position for me and I just realized it.

With a Cancer Moon, you feel out the world, rather than think it out, perhaps.

My relationships have to feel good to my heart and soul for me to feel a communication, I think.

If I just have Mercury aspects, it does not feel like a satisfying bond to me.

What do you all think about the Moon being the center of communication.

Maybe, this is just the case for certain Moons.

I would love your feedback and maybe I will write an article asking this question cuz it could open up some areas of interest for us, I think.

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posted April 17, 2015 09:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you think moon opposed moon or moon would give good heart communication or intuition?

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posted April 17, 2015 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My boyfriend and I never shut up. He has Gemini as his south node so he loves it. It's hard to see what the root cause is - it could be something natal, for instance, like the fact that we both have Chiron in Gemini - but my gut feeling is our third-house megastellium in the composite, brought on by four squares to Mercury in the synastry. I would look for a strong emphasis on Mercury or the third house for nonstop chattering. Moon is just... you can sit there and not say anything at all and feel comfortable, at peace. Lovely, but not what communication is about.

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My boyfriend and I never shut up. He has Gemini as his descendant so he loves it. It's hard to see what the root cause is - it could be something natal, for instance, like the fact that we both have Chiron in Gemini - but my gut feeling is our third-house megastellium in the composite, brought on by four squares to Mercury in the synastry. I would love for a strong emphasis on Mercury or the third house for nonstop chattering. Moon is just... you can sit there and not say anything at all and feel comfortable, at peace. Lovely, but not what communication is about.

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posted April 17, 2015 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes, I think of communication in more of a heart way, I guess. I guess this is an intuitive position for me and I just realized it.

With a Cancer Moon, you feel out the world, rather than think it out, perhaps.

My relationships have to feel good to my heart and soul for me to feel a communication, I think.

If I just have Mercury aspects, it does not feel like a satisfying bond to me.

What do you all think about the Moon being the center of communication.

Maybe, this is just the case for certain Moons.

I would love your feedback and maybe I will write an article asking this question cuz it could open up some areas of interest for us, I think.



I am virgo sun, libra mercury and my boyfriend is libra sun, virgo mercury. But we both have pisces moon, so it's a little of both I think:S But as a virgo, I must say that mercury is underrated (to me) in relationships. For an example I don't feel I have much to talk about with people where my mercury is unaspected. And as a virgo speaking together is very important to me, in any kind of relationship. I have to be able to talk a lot with my friends/partner

Actually my boyfriend doesn't speak much, which surprised me a lot (cause he got gemini mars lol) and he is not the kind of guy who talks in depth about anything really... it still irritates me a bit sometimes, because I like to talk in depth about things, discuss politics for an example, but it doesn't interest him at all. So no matter the synastry, we seem to just be different in this area.
So how it will turn out in the long therm I don't know, but we are definitely having a good times together, so maybe it is not the most important thing after all!

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posted April 17, 2015 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Do you think moon opposed moon or moon would give good heart communication or intuition?


That is a great question, Gabby. I have it with my closest real life friend.

We have opposite "feeling" perspectives, so it can be good for a friend but really is not simpatico.

You have to really explain yourself to the person like go on and on

We have an exact opposition, too. I am a Cancer Moon and he is a Cappy Moon.

I am drawn to Cappy Moons in friends because they seem more grounded in practical reality than the Cancer Moon, who feels everything from the feeling perspective .

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posted April 17, 2015 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

That is a great question, Gabby. I have it with my closest real life friend.

We have opposite "feeling" perspectives, so it can be good for a friend but really is not simpatico.

You have to really explain yourself to the person like go on and on

We have an exact opposition, too. I am a Cancer Moon and he is a Cappy Moon.

I am drawn to Cappy Moons in friends because they seem more grounded in practical reality than the Cancer Moon, who feels everything from the feeling perspective .



Funny you say that...the guy I'm dating his moon is opposed mine.
Pisces moon@13.24 in 3rd(Merc ruled)
Virgo moon@18.35 in 12th(Nept ruled)
We do have to do a lot of explaining but in the end we usually end up having a lot of respect for each other's perspective and honestly once I understand him, my perspective is opened up because he makes sense.

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