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posted April 17, 2015 06:45 AM            

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everyone who is or was in a relationship with this placement please tell me if there was some kind of deception..also does/did the relationship look like a fairytale sometimes,is/was romantic?also does/did the relationship seem to go from heaven to hell and back again?

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posted April 17, 2015 09:23 AM            

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I can relate this to my relocality romances and engagement in Indonesia, where my Libra Neptune moved into 7H.

Yes, it was like a fairytale: I was VERY popular. Like being in the Magic Kingdom. My strong intuition steered me away from the outright romantic frauds. Yet there was a recurrent theme with my romantic partners there. They were like a beautiful mirage: almost not there. And would inexorably disappear in a nebulous mist, even after deep intimate love connections. This would also play out in first meetings: they simply would not show up, or clandestinely check me out from stealth cover.

My fiance was a Libra Neptune stunning beauty who was different. At first, she hid our intimate relationship from her parents. And did not disappear until it came time to follow me back to US. Our yearlong physical relationship together was all Heaven!

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Originally posted by alyssa27:
everyone who is or was in a relationship with this placement please tell me if there was some kind of deception..also does/did the relationship look like a fairytale sometimes,is/was romantic?also does/did the relationship seem to go from heaven to hell and back again?

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posted April 17, 2015 09:42 PM            

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I do have this with fishy. Neptune is well aspected, no squares. Only trines and sextiles.

We do have the good side of Neptune, it's been romantic, yes like a fairy tale.
I think we are extremly honest with each other, more than any other person.. Have we told each other everything, NO of course not.
Yes'm some rose colored glasses are in full force.
It's like, this person is perfect. Even though you know the persons flaws, it doesn't matter, perfect is not about not having flaws, perfect is perfect for me. If that makes sense.

Neither of us drink or do drugs, so no drug abuse or "saving"

We do have issues with mis understandings.

Yes, it's been a rocky road., listed to love you, type of things.

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posted April 20, 2015 05:53 PM            

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My boyfriend and I have this placement in our composite. There's no deception from outside sources such as affairs. We do have extreme ups and downs and I wonder if we stay together because of this placement and "rose coloured glasses". We have issues with communicating during conflict and he can be quite difficult and moody (both moon and Venus in scorpio).

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posted April 21, 2015 01:20 AM            

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i have this with my partner.
there were also some crazy neptune transits happening when we first met.

we fell in love hard and fast and i'd say neptune played a huge role. we saw each other in a mystical way, it was very dreamy. fortunately when neptune moved away we were still left with love and just a better knowing of who we were, which obviously isn't mystical %100 of the time. we do like to see the best in each other. it's almost like seeing potential. you can choose to be disappointed because he/she isn't 'what you thought or love and support them to be that potential. i'll admit that there are moments when i've thought, ''hey! he tricked me!" …but all in all, i don't feel that at all. he's just not perfect, nor am i. and when we first met, that's all we could see, and we played on that perfection, we wanted to create it in ourselves and give it to each other ...very fairytale-esque.
the reality of relationships is that they take a lot of work! there's always ups and downs, and they are hardly ever perfect. it was a natural progression of our relationship to learn the deeper, darker, less perfect parts, to accept them, and support each other in self-growth. i would definitely say that there has been no "heaven to hell and back again" vibes…we are pretty stable. if anything, it's like we were shown our heaven when we first met, then brought back to earth (current reality/state) and with seeing what heaven we could have/create, started working towards it.

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