posted April 19, 2015 02:31 AM
So what is 'heavy karma' anyhow?Typically, we think of 'heavy' karma to involve failure, disappointment, loss or trauma -- incidents which would involve deep wounding and lead to psychological distress or maladjustment. The bothersome thing is that we don't have memory of it, so it feels like a faint mark upon one's soul; something left behind, though we can no longer recall the source. A scar, though the wound itself has been consciously forgotten.
And, as I'm sure none are surprised, it tends to involve close relationships and profound connexions. So synastry and composites are where these aspects and configurations tend to most readily present themselves; even more prominent if they hook deeply into each natal and cross systems. But we won't get to that just yet.
Some of the most common events or examples of heavy karma:
- abuse within the family
+ parent to child / children
- failed marriage / committed relationship
+ through death (or suicide) of partner
+ through murder of partner
- ongoing violence, feud, or vendetta
+ between family members
+ between lovers
- unrequited or impossible 'star-crossed' circumstances between would-be lovers
- severe betrayal by one loved and trusted
+ parent of child
+ siblings
+ spouses (infidelity, leading to divorce)
In fact, one of the most common instances which incurs karma is divorce. Is it any wonder we have so many angry, confused, disgruntled Soulmates populating the Earth at this time? There have been many broken commitments, promises, and the agreement to love one another. In short, anything that causes a loss of love can incur karma. The circumstances surrounding it, the impact had upon both individuals (or more, if a group) as well as the influence of their society and culture can 'upgrade' that karma to 'heavy'.
There are indeed many markers that we can point to when evaluating the potential severity of discovered karma in a synastry. They range from The Skipped Step phenomenon to SATURN overlays, hard aspects of PLUTO, Draconic and sidereal cross-aspects, heavy 12H and 8H influence, and, most importantly, natal configurations that 'hook into' each other's karmic patterns showing a clear theme or purpose.
Fortunately, (I suppose?) my particular example touches upon all of these with surprising elegance. Well, we can be grateful for its instructive or educational value, can't we?