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AquaLeo29
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posted May 08, 2015 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaLeo29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Should we overcome any obstacle to be together? Is it worth it?

I have a great attraction for this guy and I'm not so sure if I should continue or run away. Please enlighten me. Thank you

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Aubyanne
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posted May 08, 2015 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is he abusive to you? Is he playing games? If he's not giving you the runaround, is being legitimate, and you have a genuine desire to see where it goes, then quit being afraid, and do it.

You don't need a chart to tell you to be brave.

If, however, something is telling you that he's going to cause you pain (you'll know) and you have a tendency to go for the wrong men (you'll know) then you have your answer.

It's as simple -- and complicated -- as that.

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Aubyanne
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posted May 08, 2015 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And welcome to Lindaland.

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AquaLeo29
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posted May 08, 2015 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaLeo29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A decade ago (about 12 years), he secretly admired me for quite sometime before he had the courage to get my phone number and started messaging me. I was not easily approached by man, and at that time, I was in a relationship too. I told him I wanted to be his friend instead. We constantly communicated through text messaging for about a year before he went overseas to work. By the time he went back home, I was the one who went overseas and I'm still now.

Long story short, we haven't actually dated or talked to each other (in person) yet. He keeps asking me to go back home so we could start dating. I told him I wasn't ready yet, if he could wait for me for about two years.

I know two years is long and lots of emotional investment will be needed. Nothing is sure yet. So, do you think it will be worth it?

BTW, I'm not sure if he's capable of being abusive, my gut feeling says he's not.

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Is he abusive to you? Is he playing games? If he's not giving you the runaround, is being legitimate, and you have a genuine desire to see where it goes, then quit being afraid, and do it.

You don't need a chart to tell you to be brave.

If, however, something is telling you that he's going to cause you pain (you'll know) and you have a tendency to go for the wrong men (you'll know) then you have your answer.

It's as simple -- and complicated -- as that.


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AquaLeo29
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posted May 08, 2015 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaLeo29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you

I am new to astrology too. My interest starts just a few months ago because of this guy.

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And welcome to Lindaland.

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AquaLeo29
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posted May 11, 2015 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaLeo29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone pls? :-)

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stillatlarge
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posted May 11, 2015 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's willing to wait like that and you'd even consider not giving that a chance??? I'm Leo Sun, Aqua moon, close enough, and I can't imagine letting that go without giving it a chance.

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AquaLeo29
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posted May 12, 2015 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaLeo29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You're right. I should give it a try come what may. :-)

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He's willing to wait like that and you'd even consider not giving that a chance??? I'm Leo Sun, Aqua moon, close enough, and I can't imagine letting that go without giving it a chance.

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LeeLoo2014
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posted May 12, 2015 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not bad. Definitely worth a try.

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astra7
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posted May 12, 2015 10:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How about HIM moving to your way instead of the other way around? ....says Venus in Tarus.

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AquaLeo29
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posted May 12, 2015 10:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AquaLeo29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's a good idea. I actually thought about that too.

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How about HIM moving to your way instead of the other way around? ....says Venus in Tarus.

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Eirlys
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posted May 13, 2015 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eirlys     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by astra7:
How about HIM moving to your way instead of the other way around? ....says Venus in Tarus.

Venus in Virgo agrees.

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Lethargic-
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posted May 16, 2015 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lethargic-     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm also an Aquarius with Leo ascendant (except my moon is in Scorpio ). I started getting into astrology because of a guy I met ( unsure if I should go into relationship with him). Good luck to you!

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