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Topic: Is this a match worth fighting for?
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AquaLeo29 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Canada Registered: May 2015
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posted May 08, 2015 02:46 PM
Should we overcome any obstacle to be together? Is it worth it?I have a great attraction for this guy and I'm not so sure if I should continue or run away. Please enlighten me. Thank you Our synastry ------------------ Aquarius Sun, Leo Ascendant, Venus conj Mars in Pisces
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 3490 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 08, 2015 02:57 PM
Is he abusive to you? Is he playing games? If he's not giving you the runaround, is being legitimate, and you have a genuine desire to see where it goes, then quit being afraid, and do it.You don't need a chart to tell you to be brave. If, however, something is telling you that he's going to cause you pain (you'll know) and you have a tendency to go for the wrong men (you'll know) then you have your answer. It's as simple -- and complicated -- as that. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 3490 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 08, 2015 02:58 PM
And welcome to Lindaland.IP: Logged |
AquaLeo29 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Canada Registered: May 2015
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posted May 08, 2015 03:27 PM
A decade ago (about 12 years), he secretly admired me for quite sometime before he had the courage to get my phone number and started messaging me. I was not easily approached by man, and at that time, I was in a relationship too. I told him I wanted to be his friend instead. We constantly communicated through text messaging for about a year before he went overseas to work. By the time he went back home, I was the one who went overseas and I'm still now. Long story short, we haven't actually dated or talked to each other (in person) yet. He keeps asking me to go back home so we could start dating. I told him I wasn't ready yet, if he could wait for me for about two years. I know two years is long and lots of emotional investment will be needed. Nothing is sure yet. So, do you think it will be worth it? BTW, I'm not sure if he's capable of being abusive, my gut feeling says he's not. quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Is he abusive to you? Is he playing games? If he's not giving you the runaround, is being legitimate, and you have a genuine desire to see where it goes, then quit being afraid, and do it.You don't need a chart to tell you to be brave. If, however, something is telling you that he's going to cause you pain (you'll know) and you have a tendency to go for the wrong men (you'll know) then you have your answer. It's as simple -- and complicated -- as that.
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AquaLeo29 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Canada Registered: May 2015
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posted May 08, 2015 03:29 PM
Thank you I am new to astrology too. My interest starts just a few months ago because of this guy. quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: And welcome to Lindaland.
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AquaLeo29 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Canada Registered: May 2015
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posted May 11, 2015 12:48 AM
Anyone pls? :-)------------------ Aquarius Sun, Leo Ascendant, Venus conj Mars in Pisces IP: Logged |
stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 386 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 11, 2015 01:34 PM
He's willing to wait like that and you'd even consider not giving that a chance??? I'm Leo Sun, Aqua moon, close enough, and I can't imagine letting that go without giving it a chance.IP: Logged |
AquaLeo29 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Canada Registered: May 2015
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posted May 12, 2015 08:06 AM
You're right. I should give it a try come what may. :-) quote: Originally posted by stillatlarge: He's willing to wait like that and you'd even consider not giving that a chance??? I'm Leo Sun, Aqua moon, close enough, and I can't imagine letting that go without giving it a chance.
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LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 11962 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 12, 2015 09:08 AM
Not bad. Definitely worth a try.------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner Connect for updates IP: Logged |
astra7 Knowflake Posts: 593 From: I live at 667 Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 12, 2015 10:55 AM
How about HIM moving to your way instead of the other way around? ....says Venus in Tarus. IP: Logged |
AquaLeo29 Newflake Posts: 20 From: Canada Registered: May 2015
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posted May 12, 2015 10:56 PM
That's a good idea. I actually thought about that too. quote: Originally posted by astra7: How about HIM moving to your way instead of the other way around? ....says Venus in Tarus.
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Eirlys Knowflake Posts: 274 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted May 13, 2015 12:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by astra7: How about HIM moving to your way instead of the other way around? ....says Venus in Tarus.
Venus in Virgo agrees. ------------------ Nothing is permanent in this wicked world; not even our troubles. -C Chaplin
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Lethargic- Newflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 16, 2015 02:34 PM
I'm also an Aquarius with Leo ascendant (except my moon is in Scorpio ). I started getting into astrology because of a guy I met ( unsure if I should go into relationship with him). Good luck to you!IP: Logged |