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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014

posted May 22, 2015 06:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can see there are comments about this on the forum so I will repeat what I wrote to Stillatlarge for those who need clarity about this.

It was a decision made by 3 moderators of this forum not to discuss a child abuse synastry between a 4 year old girl and an adult male as long as the OP does not perceive this as 100% wrong. Consequently, the thread was moved to Sweat Peas for the OP to discuss child abuse. It was a very tough decision because the last thing you want to do with a victim is to victimize or marginalize them even more.

But it is completely unethical to encourage someone to believe there can be a silver lining in their torture and abuse. It is also unethical and dangerous to suggest that on a public forum, unethical towards children, parents, potential victims, other victims and potential rapists and abusers, and everyone else out there.

If you or anyone else have a problem with this decision, please open a thread in Sweat Peas or Lindaland Central and discuss it. I won't accept to be harassed for my decision by people condoning violence.

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Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted May 22, 2015 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I support your decision.

But for the love of god, please stop misquoting and misrepresenting me.

I DO think child abuse IS 100% wrong.

Stated over and over and over on the thread in question, until I felt ILL.

Well-intended or not, any more comments that imply I do not think child abuse is WRONG, are SLANDER.


Say what you must, but simply LEAVE ME OUT of your posts.

You can make these assertions without attempts to assassinate my character.

Randall closed that thread for a reason, LeeLoo. And I was on the verge of requesting it be closed anyway.

Don't let this be the start of it again, be a moderator, and make an informed decision please.


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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted May 22, 2015 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry, Voix, but if someone thinks their abuser thought they loved them when they did those things and perceives the whole thing as a "relationship", no matter the reasons, that person doesn't perceive child abuse as 100% wrong. We all tried our best to support you, in the circumstances, at least I know I tried. I believe in you and I know you will understand this some day. This "thread" is closed.

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