posted June 08, 2015 10:33 AM              

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
That article isn't really about Venus conjunct Saturn in synastry but thank you.

It only says that a Venus Saturn conjunction DW "does not suggest a successful amatory relationship."

Hah, really! Venus and Saturn do not mesh well, at all. Unless the other aspects are extremely supportive, forget it.

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I do not agree. Sun-Saturn hard aspects and Venus-Saturn hard aspects are the most common aspects in long-lasting marriages - this is coming from Linda Goodman herself.

Next up would be Mars/Saturn hard aspects though I have a personal distaste for it, I cannot deny that it's extremely common in marriages.

posted June 08, 2015 10:34 AM              

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Sashar, it's really nice to know that you're comfortable with that aspect, shows that it *can* be positive!

But I do think that the two people need to be comfortable with Saturnian energy and have some maturity to handle it correctly.
Which, of course, is definitely possible!

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posted June 27, 2015 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I have this with my husband, his Saturn is exactly conjunct my Venus (less than 1 degree orb.) All I can say is, the readings I've done on this aspect are mostly applicable to my situation, for good and bad.

I love that I feel he will always be there for me, since he's good company and we usually get along. But he can be too controlling...or try to.

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3 years later...still married....

Cafeastrology says....

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Venus conjunct other person's Saturn

This contact can represent a binding tie, but not without its share of challenges. The Saturn person tends to have the effect of stabilizing the Venus person's emotions, and much will depend on how the Venus person reacts and the how maturely the Saturn person acts upon the Venus person. Commitment, loyalty, and responsibility are vital defining factors of this relationship. Both persons will need to be aware of a tendency to be too insistent on attention from one another, and well as of the tendency to restrict each other's sense of freedom. The Saturn person needs to be wary of a too cool approach towards the Venus person's loving gestures, particularly as time passes. The Saturn person tends to feels responsible for the Venus person, but should avoid becoming too parental with him or her. The Venus person may feel restricted or downright repressed by the Saturn person. This combination is one indication of mutual dependence. If there isn't an inordinate number of challenging aspects in the rest of the compatibility analysis, this is a good indication of a long-term, highly significant relationship. The Venus person may appreciate the Saturn person's guidance and loyalty, but could also see the Saturn person as too conservative and socially restrictive. There can be a depressing effect. As well, the Saturn person may see the Venus person as delightfully cheerful. On the other side of the coin, if the Saturn person is feeling insecure, he or she could find the Venus person to be childishly emotional or extravagant. It is quite natural for you to commit to one another. As time passes, the Saturn person could feel threatened by changes or growth in the Venus person's love nature, and needs to avoid criticizing the Venus person for any new behaviors. Individual growth does not necessarily mean growing apart.

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posted June 28, 2015 06:08 AM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
I have venus-saturn conjunction natally and I find it a very melancholic position.But also deeply rewarding.

I can't make foolish decisions in love a the outcomes can be dire. This I instinctively just "know".

In love,I fall in love with people that don't love me back. Or people who flatter me and only use me sexually.

Am dating a Taurian right now and my Saturn forms a trine to his venus-by less than 5 degrees.

I find that I have to "parent" him and "teach" him things about how to be in a relationship as I find the way he conducts himself somewhat immature.

He,in turn, does look to me to have all the answers and do the sensible thing. Sometimes I feel exhausted by all the responsibility that I am endowed with, but at the same time, I am aware that if I let things "be", we will never get to the place that I want us to get at.

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hey, I don't know about they don't love me back or use me aspect. I think Venus conjunct Saturn is about falling in love with a dependable person. I think Venus waits for Mr.Right perhaps a way too longer.

posted November 06, 2015 02:29 AM            

I moved to a different city but when I was back we met up and it was like no time had passed. Now I'm the blockage to us getting together as I moved away and have cut off communication with him. It's too intense and I don't like feeling vulnerable. I think uranus conjunct venus in our synastry is making me run.

posted November 06, 2015 04:55 AM            

the following quote reminds me saturn

There’s a million different ways to say “I love you”.
“Put your seat belt on”
“Watch your step”
“Get some rest”