posted June 10, 2015 12:55 AM            

So I knew he has TARDIS conjunct DNA (0°20) which is rather amusing enough. But I hadn't quite counted on all of this.

And here're our natals (with the same points) for degree comparison.

And no identification needed; he's the one with the TARDIS-DNA conjunct, straddling the cusp of the 12H.

Now, for the uninitiated or non-Whovians, as it were, it won't seem like much. However, I think anyone familiar with the themes of the show can have a giggle at MERCURY-EROS conjunct TARDIS. I'll also add that my HERMES and DESTINN are also there, within 3°.

So were we to get cheeky and do an amalgam synastry, of, say, the 21st century Doctors and the top companions ... I dunno. We might end up with something a lot like that.

For me, though ... it oddly feels like something a bit deeper. It resonates with me. Him, too. Very much so. That sort of overall theme is very befitting of us; our approach to life as well as our relationship. There's an unspoken trust -- a tacit agreement. Despite the odds always against us, and the likelihood of such a relationship surviving, we strive to nurture it as best we're able. A lot of it's faith, and even more of it is love.

It's tough to love a man who's so alien. Thank God for my own qualities of the same. I grok him, and his complicated ways. But it's difficult sometimes, even still. When you're learning how to do this whole 'romantic love' thing -- trying be more, well, human. When you consider how most people conduct their relationships, and you can clearly see that's not how you're doing so. And you wonder ... shouldn't you be?

But is it worth it? The fits and starts, radio silences, miscommunications and crossed wires? The distance? The confusion? The stuffing down of fear, imaginary or legitimate, because all schizoids are indeed loners. Even if one has managed to fall in love with you, and vice versa? Is it worth the moments of panic? The periods of pain? Where you excavate so much that's buried within you both?

Absolutely.

It's the most fascinating, enlightening, and paradoxically ideal relationship I've ever experienced of its kind. And its kind is extremely rare, at that.

So we're not hearts-and-flowers and wild, untamed passion. We don't chat on the phone for hours, or even minutes, really. I never quite know what he's thinking; I can only take him at his word. (Though, he claims I do.)

Instead, we've had some incredible experiences. We've stopped time together, (really!) astral-travelled, and unlocked so many amazing secrets of life, the universe, and everything.

And, if I may be so bold as to consider, I first became aware of his existence when I was 19 years old, just as my first Saros cycle completed. Then, nearly a decade later, I met him; as he is now, in the here and now. Right after my first Saturn Return.

That's really quite exceptional, and very special.

I've included the stellium that's conjunct my CHIRON because of its intrinsic multidimensional nature. HEKATE, I'm learning, is quite transdimensional, as well as representing the crossroads. That stellium will be studied in greater depth soon. It's taken years to come this far with it.

As for the rest? Heh. I simply couldn't resist.

posted June 10, 2015 12:06 PM            

Btw, when I got to the meaning of Tardis it itrigued me and I checked it in my chart. Sun conjunct Tardis. Now who's that Lord?

posted June 11, 2015 03:37 PM            

Forgive the delays there. I'm a bit under the weather.

Well, my post was more provocatively made in jest, really. But what's funny is how the more I've pondered it, I may not be giving it due credit. I'm sure you're familiar -- either in passing, or with some level of commitment -- of the origins of the fictional race of the Time Lords, Doctor Who.

So, it goes without saying no one is a member of a fictional race. I've studied quantum mechanics with some depth, however. A lot of these concepts touted as abilities of the Time Lords aren't entirely impossible. The more acquainted we become with their principles, it even seems plausible -- in certain respects.

My boyfriend and I have a strange, quite unconventional relationship. While I easily drew the comparison in an emotional and relational sense, I can't deny we've experienced some very odd things together. Time elongation (technically) being one such.

We were practising tantra at the time, just following the October eclipse in 2014. We were also timing things for research purposes, and knew to report exactly. So when he said it was 'nine o'clock', it was exactly 21:00. Several minutes passed for us both. He says it felt like 5, I thought it was about 7. Very intense exchange. We were truly 'lost' in the moment, you'd say. Focus, rather than passion, is a better description. We were very present with each other; aware of every minute that passed.

So, afterwards, he reports that it's 'nine oh one' -- but not without an initial expression of confusion, and a surprised pause. His vision is excellent, so he didn't misread a '7', as I initially thought. He even checked it several seconds after, at which point it was, indeed, 21:02.

We were both flummoxed. There wasn't any possible way that only a single minute had passed. Oh, I'd believe thinking it was ten, but really fifteen; or even feeling fifteen had passed, but finding only ten had. That's logical. It happens.

But I also have a bizarrely accurate internal clock. I can 'know' the time down to the minute. It's almost a parlour trick with how I'm able to detect it on the nose. You wanna know what time it is, but your mobile's dead? Ask me. You'll get it within a margin of error +/- 2 minutes. Heh!

posted June 12, 2015 05:05 PM            

Here's a short video that's quite adorable, which literally gives the lowdown in 90 seconds of what Doctor Who is even about (Which, really, you ought to know, as tSUN was travelling with tTARDIS for the better part of April.)

So, click the link, and come back once that's through.

Good now? Better understanding, I hope?

Right. So, why make such a cheeky presumption? Well, for several reasons. But there's apparently a bit of confusion on another level I'll clear up.

My husband and I have what you'd call an unconventional marriage. I have a boyfriend, he has a submissive. We have our reasons, love each other very, very much, and experience a level of intimacy few are truly comfortable of accessing.

posted June 14, 2015 07:56 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Instead, we've had some incredible experiences. We've stopped time together, (really!) astral-travelled, and unlocked so many amazing secrets of life, the universe, and everything.

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No, I meant this stuff.

posted June 14, 2015 08:28 PM            

My Taurus Tardis is on my Isis in my 8th house. It makes a grand trine with Cap Angel/Lust/Rudra in 4th house and Virgo Dejanira/Bried/Asclepius/Juno in 12th house

Now my boyfriend has his Tardis on his AC, which is on my Sun/Moon midpoint

So Funny my daughters Tardis aqua@11.25 is exactly on her aqua Sun@10.45!!
Her Sun/Tardis are on my Spirit aqua@12.06....very cool

posted June 14, 2015 09:45 PM            

I'm trying to grok TARDIS myself, actually. Thus far, I've researched it through Kim Falconer and Holmes. Were I to toss out keywords, I'd say they'd be the following:

• interdimensionality
• time travel
• temporal manipulation
• fated encounters across time
• soulful multidimensional contacts
• incredible experiences via mind or spirit

In the show, the TARDIS is neither organic nor purely machine. The Doctor has some control over it, and is able to pilot the craft, but it has a soul as well as something of a 'mind' of its own. It selects the Doctor's companions as well, by providing a key which he will then give to them. The TARDIS also frequently takes him where his destiny, as a Time Lord, is leading. At times, to where his next companion is located.

The Time Lord's relationship with the TARDIS is one of respect and a high degree of trust. It strikes me a bit like lucid dreaming with partial control. While he can direct it where to go, many times, it's the one taking him on a literal ride. And whilst it's a show, with writers ultimately piloting the TARDIS, heh, (3325) is named directly for it, so it's safe to apply that meaning; the influence and impact it has upon the Doctor and his companions.

To that end, it represents that which has several possible interpretations, whether we're going by the Doctor's relationship to the TARDIS, or a companion's -- anyone who's 'along for the ride'.

Being a Time Lord, there's a powerful, innate connexion to one's TARDIS; a kind of psychic thing, akin to a birthright. It's the means by which Time Lords travel, and only they can truly operate, pilot, or direct it. So the key there is control.

Examining the companion's vantage, it's a bit like being in the cockpit of an unknown aircraft. Over time, we might acquire enough knowledge and experience to be useful co-pilots, but we lack the direct relationship that the pilot enjoys. Of course, a good bit of that entails a great deal of responsibility, too. Either way, we lack control.

So while TARDIS is going to take anyone for a ride regardless, the varying levels of control undoubtedly impact the overall experience: whether we're at the controls, providing input regarding our journey and destination, or are instead tagging along, observing rather than piloting.

Then we've got to ask, what does TARDIS do in a chart besides?

It may indicate experiences that either feel like, or exceptionally are, some form of time travel. Whether we're losing or gaining time, experiencing things of another era or period of history, or finding we're in just the 'right place at the right time' to meet someone who alters the course of our destiny.

TARDIS may ultimately prove invaluable when evaluating multidimensional relationships: those with deep soul connexions that are interacting in more than a single lifeline for the purposes of clearing karma or achieving crucial objectives that aren't possible in the primary observed lifeline. It's tough to say without the research, but that's my present hypothesis.