posted June 10, 2015 10:15 AM            

Funny enough, with my ex communication flowed easier than anyone I've been with. We would talk about anything and everything and he was always very eager to share things with me. In my current relationship he is more closed off by nature but will still communicate with me quite openly.

I guess I'm curious as to how this might feel for them or anyone in general who is experiencing this?

Also, odd that I attract 2 people with this issue, unless they're attracted to me?

posted June 11, 2015 09:35 AM            

We have very different ways of communicating, and our ideas are very often opposite. We don't really "argue" (yet) but our ideas and beliefs are opposite (that might also be due to the fact that we have a Venus/Saturn hard aspect DW, and his Venus rules his 3H).

However we don't really have trouble talking to each other and discuss many things, it's just that he often takes on the "teacher" role and I the "student".
So I sometimes feel like my ideas or thoughts aren't valued by him, because I'm more right-brained / spiritual and he is more left-brained / "rational".

But there was one time where one guy's Mercury was unaspected by my planets (and I think mine too) and it was really difficult to simply talk to that person. It was like there was nothing at all there - making conversation was incredibly difficult (again, our interests were widely different).

So I suppose minor aspects and even wide aspects still count, making things easier. If there's a complete lack of aspects, especially both ways, communication is pretty much a permanent struggle.