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Topic: Moon square Venus in Synastry
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asclibrasagsun
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posted October 31, 2012 07:04 PM
  
Alright, please tell me all about this aspect.I have experienced the venus conjunct moon in synastry before and it was "awww soo sweet and cuddly"! What are the implications? Especially when it is the man's moon square the woman's venus? Any and all input will be appreciated! Thank you! IP: Logged |
Hanneli
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posted October 31, 2012 07:30 PM
my leo venus squares my boyfriend's taurus moon. i think i'm too mushy/gregarious/brazen for him sometimes.IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted October 31, 2012 08:04 PM
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Originally posted by Hanneli:
my leo venus squares my boyfriend's taurus moon. i think i'm too mushy/gregarious/brazen for him sometimes.
do you think that this aspect would have less significance if it was a sex-only relationship versus one that is emotional/loving? IP: Logged |
StacyLewis
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posted October 31, 2012 10:07 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
do you think that this aspect would have less significance if it was a sex-only relationship versus one that is emotional/loving?
I think that any time you have a synastry aspect between venus and the moon it indicates there's some sort of emotional connection or even love there. Difference is, with a hard aspect it might not operate or be expressed, as smoothly as with something like a trine. I don't think it's even possible to have a moon-venus contact and a bond that is strictly physical. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun
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posted November 01, 2012 12:15 AM
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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
I think that any time you have a synastry aspect between venus and the moon it indicates there's some sort of emotional connection or even love there. Difference is, with a hard aspect it might not operate or be expressed, as smoothly as with something like a trine. I don't think it's even possible to have a moon-venus contact and a bond that is strictly physical.
Interestingly put! Also, if there is a venus conjunct moon and it is at a very low orb...would it indicate a strong love connection as well if also supported by venus conjunct saturn (longevity) and sun conjunct venus (fascination)? IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted November 01, 2012 12:48 AM
Tenderness and affection characterize this aspect. A strong sense of familiarity, and a strong emotional connection exists between the couple. This aspect makes it so that you love doing even the most dull, boring tasks with one another; just being with each other makes you feel warm and fuzzy, which makes everything you do together fun and enjoyable. In fact, the need to physically be close to one another is very strong with this aspect. You have much in common with one another, and are naturally supportive, cooperative and considerate toward each other. As a couple, you emit a sweet, warm energy, which makes others take notice! This aspect also denotes the two of you will want to live and build a family together.
This is especially true of the conjunction, sextile and trine. The square and the opposition, on the other hand, can be a bit more tricky. In this case, you may tend to take each other for granted. Indeed, favors may go unacknowledged and unappreciated. The Moon person may feel undervalued by the Venus person, while the Venus person may feel their self-esteem is undermined. You may have difficultly understanding each other’s moods and feelings. For instance, Venus may feel playful, while the Moon person may want to have a serious talk about their problems. Regardless, a considerable attraction to one another remains.
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!moon-venus-in-synastry/c6x
I had the square with my ex. The description above is pretty accurate, at least, in my case.
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Hanneli
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posted November 01, 2012 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
do you think that this aspect would have less significance if it was a sex-only relationship versus one that is emotional/loving?
i feel that the square would hold more significance if it was a purely physical relationship... the individuals might not always be sure of where they stand with each other because i can see how feelings would develop with a venus-moon aspect. quote:
Originally posted by starfairy:
This is especially true of the conjunction, sextile and trine. The square and the opposition, on the other hand, can be a bit more tricky. In this case, you may tend to take each other for granted. Indeed, favors may go unacknowledged and unappreciated. The Moon person may feel undervalued by the Venus person, while the Venus person may feel their self-esteem is undermined. You may have difficultly understanding each other’s moods and feelings. For instance, Venus may feel playful, while the Moon person may want to have a serious talk about their problems. Regardless, a considerable attraction to one another remains.
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!moon-venus-in-synastry/c6x
I had the square with my ex. The description above is pretty accurate, at least, in my case.
i could see that. but it always comes down to free will doesn't it? we're both careful not to step on each other's toes. IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON
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posted November 01, 2012 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by Hanneli:
my leo venus squares my boyfriend's taurus moon. i think i'm too mushy/gregarious/brazen for him sometimes.
How funny, My husband and I have this too...He is Moon Taurus and I am the Venus Leo!!! I wonder if that is pretty common??
Anyway, I think you are right...that is a bit how it is for us. But it sure does create a chemistry between us. ;-) But then again we also have his Venus opposed to my Moon...so that is a double whammy. IP: Logged |
sillyme
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posted November 04, 2012 12:14 PM
What if the woman's venus is sextile the man's moon ( 2 deg) but her saturn is opposing his moon too (2 deg again).
Will this block the lovely emotional connection they could have had?IP: Logged |
cultstatus
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posted June 10, 2015 07:11 AM
I find this link sums up perfectly how I am experiencing this aspect. http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Synastry-Aspects/Moon-Square-Venus
Your romantic attraction for your partner and feelings of tenderness are hard to ignore but unfinished emotional issues regarding previous love relationships are putting you out of syncopation with their needs. When the Moon person is square the Venus person, your romantic partner has family or romantic issues to deal with before you will fully relate to one another as partners.Neither of us is ready or wanting a relationship but there is a strangely intense attraction that makes me unable to let it go, IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 10, 2015 03:31 PM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
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posted June 10, 2015 04:15 PM
I had a few friends, whose Venus in Capricorn squared my Moon in Libra. My dad and sister's Venus are also in Capricorn. I'm comfortable with peace, beauty, fairness, tact, an easy-going atmosphere. They would show they love me by expressing it in practical ways or money. One time, my friend (with capricorn venus) was playing a gig and he invited me on stage to sit in on guitar for a couple songs. At the end of the night, he offered to give me half his pay cut. I didn't take it, but I was flattered. My dad is similar, shows his love by buying stuff, helping to fix something around the house. I don't find venus square moon particularly harsh or bad. They're both soft planets. It's kinda like you're in a different county and the people there are nice to you and treat you well, but different than what you know. Concerning the capricorn venus people I know, I noticed that their music tastes kind of bordered typical, the usual, established, whatever the crowd likes. Nothing wrong with that, but my scorpio venus craves more of the offbeat, dark, visceral, provocative, deep music (which a lot of the mainstream and typical stuff isn't). IP: Logged |
Selene
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posted June 11, 2015 09:00 AM
I have it with my best male friend, exact. Well, maybe it is different somehow, because we also have an exact conjunction of my Moon and his Venus as well. And this conjunction in turn sextiles my Venus and quincunxes his Moon too. But i feel great with him, i don't feel unappreciated at all (or is it supposed to be him that feels unappreciated? If it is his Moon that squares my Venus?) Anyway, no reason for him to feel that way too, because i always make sure i tell him if i like his jokes or what he does, etc. It's mutual. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted June 11, 2015 09:22 AM
^ The conjunction obviously helps balancing things out. I agree with all the posts above.
The square isn't as smooth as the conjunction or the trine; so while there's attraction and affection (if it's a romantic relationship), sometimes one or the other feels that their way of expressing love / their feelings isn't exactly "understood" or appreciated by the other (for example, one likes expressing their love verbally while the other feels loved when they're being given gifts, or if they're being helped with practical issues). I'd also have to agree that "issues" from the past or emotional confusion can be obstacles to the fulfillment of the couple; however it's not a square that I would qualify as very problematic. The desire / need to be around each other is indeed very strong; and not just being "around" each other, but touching the other in any way is very important, it's one of the main foundations of the relationship itself. Very touchy-feely and sweet, comforting. IP: Logged |
Libracorn
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posted June 11, 2015 10:46 AM
What about if you have a double-whammy with someone? I have it with my best friend.His Venus Trines my Moon (6 degrees orb)
My Venus Squares his Moon (6 degrees orb)
I do agree with the above, as the Venus person in the square, I feel as if he doesn't appreciate some of the things I do for him. And then he's pretty weird when it comes to him saying 'I love you'. When we're texting, at times I'd say 'I love you bro' and then he'd say something like 'Much love' but in person he'll say it fully 'I love you'. Saying 'Much love' and 'I love you' are two different things in my opinion.
I'm not sure what that's about lol but it's something I've noticed.
Also, in his case of being the Venus person in the trine, I don't know how he feels about me or how that's supposed to manifest.
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Enneline
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posted June 11, 2015 11:47 AM
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Originally posted by Libracorn:
What about if you have a double-whammy with someone? I have it with my best friend.His Venus Trines my Moon (6 degrees orb)
My Venus Squares his Moon (6 degrees orb)
I do agree with the above, as the Venus person in the square, I feel as if he doesn't appreciate some of the things I do for him. And then he's pretty weird when it comes to him saying 'I love you'. When we're texting, at times I'd say 'I love you bro' and then he'd say something like 'Much love' but in person he'll say it fully 'I love you'. Saying 'Much love' and 'I love you' are two different things in my opinion.
I'm not sure what that's about lol but it's something I've noticed.
Also, in his case of being the Venus person in the trine, I don't know how he feels about me or how that's supposed to manifest.
hahha, i have it the other way around.  So for my part i feel strong, tender affection for him. I find him sweet and could cuddle him. So, this is the way your best friend schould feel about you How do you feel about your best friend? IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted June 11, 2015 12:34 PM
It's okay.. I've had a few people have their Moon conjunct my Taurus Venus. We were friendly with eachother, but nothing substantial developed.IP: Logged |
Libracorn
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posted June 11, 2015 01:57 PM
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Originally posted by Enneline:
hahha, i have it the other way around. So for my part i feel strong, tender affection for him. I find him sweet and could cuddle him. So, this is the way your best friend schould feel about you How do you feel about your best friend?
Lol, at times I really don't know. I think about what he's doing a lot when he's not around. I love him a lot though, I don't know if he feels the same. He doesn't really express it much.
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Enneline
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posted June 11, 2015 02:36 PM
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Originally posted by Libracorn:
Lol, at times I really don't know. I think about what he's doing a lot when he's not around. I love him a lot though, I don't know if he feels the same. He doesn't really express it much.
Maybe you just don't notice😉 He often would not understand my signs of affection😉
often he would not feel much appreciated 😯 
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Libracorn
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posted June 11, 2015 02:51 PM
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Originally posted by Enneline:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Libracorn:
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Lol, at times I really don't know. I think about what he's doing a lot when he's not around. I love him a lot though, I don't know if he feels the same. He doesn't really express it much.
Maybe you just don't notice😉 He often would not understand my signs of affection😉
often he would not feel much appreciated 😯 [/B][/QUOTE]Wait, do you both have a double-whammy? IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted June 12, 2015 02:58 AM
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Originally posted by Libracorn:
Wait, do you both have a double-whammy?
Yes: his moon is trine my venus (0 deg)
my moon is square his venus (4 deg) IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted July 10, 2015 03:37 PM
Just made a thread about this. The closest I have ever been to falling in love was with someone who had a moon-square venus aspect with me. My closest bonds have also been with moon square or opposite venus.I have shared conjunctions as well, but the square and opposite has shown more passion between me and the person. This is a great and passionate aspect, similar to moon-mars but just in a different way. IP: Logged |
NeptunianAries
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posted July 10, 2015 04:20 PM
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Originally posted by Hanneli:
my leo venus squares my boyfriend's taurus moon. i think i'm too mushy/gregarious/brazen for him sometimes.
In my case, it is the other way around. My bf has leo venus and squares my moon/mars conjunction in Taurus. I think the way Venus person behaves in Venusian things like flirting hurts or struggles with other person's Moon. Let's say Taurus moon is possessive and does not like share the beloved ones,whereas Venus Leo person likes to show off or playing around. On the other hand my Venus is early degrees in Pisces and his moon is late degrees in Pisces, so there is no conjunction but some astrologers consider it as conjunction if planets are in the same sign. IP: Logged |
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